Decisions about what you want to do next in life feel big- they can literally change your life. That's why so many people feel stuck in the process. Today I'm speaking with my friend, Kathy Davies, the Managing Director of the Life Design Lab at Stanford University. She is also the co-founder of Designing Your Life for Women and a Master Trainer of the Designing Your Life process.

In today's episode, Kathy provides an overview of what it looks like to apply design thinking to life decisions, talks about the value of sitting with emotions and feelings, explains why community helps us get unstuck, and invites employers to help co-create new options that work for both companies and employees.

Topics Covered

03:23 What is life design?

05:05 The human centered design thinking process

05:36 Empathy

05:43 Define

06:27 Ideate

07:33 Prototype

08:42 Prototyping as a mindset shift

9:30 Start small

10:54 Prototyping careers through conversation

12:26 Test: incorporate your learnings

14:08 The importance of recognizing when it's time to engage in the process, and when

it may not be time

16:12 The value of recognizing what we need

18:10 The value of sitting with emotions and feelings

19:48 We are all in process, especially at the time of transition

21:10 It helps to do this in community

22:39 The feelings that keep people stuck

25:29 The opportunity companies have in co-creating options that work

30:38 Four-step process for getting started with life design

35:38 The key mindset shift

Guest Bio

Kathy Davies is the Managing Director of the Life Design Lab at Stanford University, where she teaches Product Design, Mechanical Engineering, and “Designing Your Life”. She is also the co-founder of Designing Your Life for Women and a Master Trainer of the Designing Your Life process. She has 15 years of experience developing electromechanical and software products, and proudly holds five patents. Kathy consults with Silicon Valley companies, teaches design thinking, conducts ethnographic research, and develops product strategies and concepts. She believes design thinking and life design are powerful mechanisms for getting unstuck, and is a passionate advocate for use of design thinking to empower social change, especially around equity for women.

Resources

  • The Designing Your Life website
  • The Stanford Life Design Lab
  • Upcoming Designing Your Life for Women and Designing Your Life for Everyone workshops
  • Designing Your Life for corporate teams
  • Season 3 of Ask A Decision Engineer - All the feels

To learn more from Michelle about decision making, check out

  • The Ask A Decision Engineer website
  • Her Stanford Continuing Studies course (now enrolling, class starts July 14)
  • Her Personal Decision Toolkit course on Maven
  • Her Decision Toolkit course for coaches and thought partners on Maven