You've screwed up.  You may not know how but you know you want to make it right.  That's fantastic and i think i have some tips to get you the desired goal, fixing the issue.  It is challenging but what have you got to lose?  I mean you already screwed up can it really get worse.  If you are open to the feedback, the way i can guide you will prevent you from making it worse and truly i think you will make it better.  And i will go even one step further, if you have a specific situation that maybe needs more finesse, call me 757-842-1333.  I have seen and been in a lot of bad situations were i was totally at fault.  But i survived.  I know you can do the same and even better, thrive from the experience.  Friday gets an exclamation, not a question mark.  I love you all and demand you go be awesome with intention.  Happy Friday family!