We are poppin our 3-way cherry today with our first guest, Franco Zavala. Franco is the creator and host of The Professional Step-Dad Podcast AND father figure to 5 children.

Talking about Step-Parenting challenges and successes isn't the most glamours subject and isn't as prevalent in mainstream conversation as it should be, considering how common it is in modern families. Today we talk with Franco about all aspects of successful step families including:

• The role of a step parent

• What personal work needs to be done by both individuals (bio parent and new spouse) before they can expect harmony in their new family dynamic

• The role that DNA and being a protector plays into marriage

• Recognizing your worth and what you each bring to the table

• What a single parent is actually seeking

• Learning to let your guard down when you meet someone worthy of trust with your children

• Handing outside criticism from your partners ex and also their family

• Importance of being in sync with your spouse and understanding all communication, both verbal and non verbal.

• Decoding what your own parents are concerned about in your potential and new relationships and the real reason why they ask the questions they do

• Why both partners need to be "all-in"

• The feeling of being called "Dad" or "Mom" for the first time

Today isn't just for blended families. Everyone can learn from and apply these points to their own relationships... with their spouse, children, parents and even close friends.

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Stay tuned for part 2! It gets even better.

Thanks for listening. xo From our hearts to yours, we see you, we hear you. xo

Love, Elizabeth and Kathryn