I get disappointed so deeply when things don't work out as we have planned, I'm sure we all do. However, sometimes I challeneged the idea that if things don't work out in personal relationships, why are we so quick to throw entire relationship and person away? Why not just recognize that just becase you both did not work one way as expected? Why does that automatically mean I have to throw you away entirely and not see the overall value of a person beyond failed relationship expectation? When things change in a relationship, they are often a cause of someone's personal sruggle or growth. It doesn't meant the person can not still add great and genuine value to your life. Perhaps as a friend, just not a mate or vice versa. You can just simply adjust your dynamics and still respect the good that works between one another with those boundaries set into place and respected. 

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