Lesson of every lifetime. Return to love.  Love is the answer for everything.  When taking a decision on what path to take, see whether you are taking it from a place of love or fear. If it is the latter, wait, because your reasons to act are coming from a lower energy vibration and can cloud your judgement, ie, you may agree to do something for the wrong reasons; ie. because you are scared. Return to love to help guide you. We all have rough patches in life, it's how we react to them that can change the effect a situation has on us. We create our own suffering and have to take responsibility for it. We can not run from it, however, we can become aware of our emotions, and ask ourselves, what would I do differently than what I have done before to get a better feeling output for myself? What would I do that would make me proud? Make sure your compass is pointing towards love and you'll be set in the right direction.