Of the top three relationship pattern types (The Too Goods, The Love Mes and the Trophies), which one are you? Most people fit into one dominating pattern type and one or two other sub pattern types. In this episode, we deep dive into the three main relationship pattern types to understand what each type can do to break a toxic pattern and create new patterns that take their relationships to the next level.

To begin with, the Too Goods are people who project their own commitment issues, fear of failure and emotional unavailability on their partners and always push them away because they have a grandiose self image that makes them feel like they’re always “settling”.

The Love Mes are people who will assume an extreme version of a receiving position, their feminine energy dominating their masculine energy, they have a deep fear of abandonment and will often shrink themselves to fit the needs or desires of their partner

The Trophies are more emotionally available than the Too Goods but also more masculine than the Love Mes. When a man sees them as a trophy for their appearance, intelligence or ambitions and takes interest in them, they start developing anxious attachment and feeling needy. They will often push a man away by applying pressure when they start feeling their needs aren’t being met as they try to speed up the courtship process and take the next step before it is due.

Can you tell what is common in all three primary relationship pattern types?

Not knowing and owning their authentic value in a relationship. If you relate, it’s because your inner girl is still choosing your partners and making decisions in your relationships. Therefore, you end up either underestimating or overestimating your authentic value in a relationship.

Listen to this podcast episode to know how to reverse this and shift all control to the hands of your authentic adult self. This will help you create the high value love life you’ve always wanted to manifest.

In the 3 day Virtual Relationship Reset this weekend, you will get tools and coaching on how to manage your thoughts, beliefs and feelings. You too can make your way through the courtship process and qualify & attract a man who is aligned with the love life you’ve always wanted to manifest.

You can register in the link mentioned below and set the “reset” button on your love life!

Time Stamps For This Episode:

00:00 - Introduction

1:49 - 3 most popular pattern types

5:06 - The Too Goods

9:10 - The Love Mes

12:07 - The Trophies

Links Mentioned In This Episode:

Register for 3 Day Relationship Reset

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Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

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