• Recognition | Terms of Endearment

• How does he acknowledge you?

• Ex: Babe, Boo, Pet Name, Hun, Sweet Heart, Pumpkin, Big Head, Never Calls You By Your Name
• Does he call anyone else by the same “pet name” or term of endearment
• • Interject story
• Peep how he saves you in his phone
• • “Butt Dial” while you’re near him if you need to
• Does he introduce you to people? If so, ho does he introduce you with a title

1a.) Communication

• Does he call you only at night?
• Is he sneaky about it?

• Does he ever FaceTime? Or avoid you?

• Dating Style

• Rarely go out in public

• Time he sets the date
• Cancels a lot / reschedule
• Never wants to go out
• Netflix and Chill

2a.) Establish Your Expectations

• Have date places (activities and restaurants in mind)
• Say what you’re looking for / See how he responds
• • Does he avoid the topic
  • Redirect the conversation
  • Makes you feel like you’re crazy / making things up

• Stereotypical Signs

• He smells good

• He knows what to say to trip you up
• Has charm and a dash of culture
• 1. Will expose you to new things
  2. Make you feel like you’re the one when he’s around
  3. Disappears and says nothing when he’s away
  4. Poor communication
  5. Multidates behind your back
• Always has an excuse
• He will ghost you

Honorary Mentions

• Checks out other people when you’re together
• Asks for nudes early in the conversation
• Too Sweet, Too Fast (Hey Queen, Goddess, etc)
• Holes in their stories
• Missing for hours on end

• Emotionally unavailable

• After You Spot Him / Keep Dating

• Don’t be committed to one person if you’re not in a relationship

• Don’t sit around waiting for a man to call you.
• Don’t be accessible for him if he’s not making you a priority
• Have him show mutual respect
• Don’t assume you two are exclusive

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