self-love vs self-indulgence In Order to be selfless first, you need to be selfish SELF LOVE is fulfilling your healthy needs as a human being in order to reach your ultimate potential in life. Self-love if caring about your body. Self-love is nourishing your body with healthy foods and beverages. Self-love is fulfilling your body's needs and giving it the right amount of exercise to keep it fit and healthy. Self-love is putting yourself first and being selfish in order to be able to give by being selfless later. Self-love is having the discipline, belief, and courage to go for your goals and dreams. Self-love is to keep going when you are facing the challenges to achieve them.  Self-love is making yourself happy. Only when you know the art of making yourself happy this is when you can give happiness to others and other people are happy to be with you. Self-love is doing the right thing even if it is the hardest thing to do. Self-love is going through the short term pain for the long term happiness. Self-love is leaving the relationship which doesn't grow anymore, self-love is leaving the job which doesn't let your growth anymore, self-love is removing yourself from toxicity. For free awesome content, such as blogs, videos, support groups check out my website ladiesrelationshipcoach.com