Sometimes we get so consumed with other people's lives that we forget our own journey. Take your heart and mind off other people's plans and their journey and keep your eyes on your own journey and let God direct you. Learn to keep your mind grounded on your plans and not get caught up with what everybody else is doing with their lives and how they are suppose to raise their kids or what kind of jobs they should have and how they are suppose to run their business.
Stay focus on yours, help when you can but do not consume yourself with their lives because this kind of attitude takes you off course and down the wrong road. Look for your own destiny and leave other's alone.
Hope you listen. Be blessed!