Most times in life we look to others experiences and we try to fit ourselves in their lives. We are so far gone sometimes involved in their lives and what they may be experiencing that we remove ourselves mentally from our own experiences and before you know it we are far removed from ours and we lose our way.
Trust your own experiences, they are yours for a reason. God may be trying to teach you and grow you to another level but if you are stuck in the lives of others you will never grow and get mature in life.
Have a blessed days wonderful sisters.