Sabotage: Why We Let Others and Ourselves Sabotage Our Success

3:13 Why others sabotage us:

  • 5:05 Roles have shifted (we are no longer the pathetic ones)

  • 6:43 Threatens their status quo

  • 8:30 They can’t deny their own EE (can’t compare themselves to us)/ They want their binge buddy

  • 13:44 Passive/aggressive

15:15 Why we sabotage ourselves:

  • 15:52 Deeper stuff unaddressed…the pain, fear and guilt

  • 18:19 Unfamiliar territory…back to status quo

  • 20:33 Negative self-talk

  • 24:25 We don’t change our lifestyle/stress

  • 25:17 Fear of weight loss

  • 26:30 Ego