In today's Episode we answer one of our viewer's questions:

“I’m in a relationship with my dream guy in Los Angeles but I just got a dream job offer in New York. He doesn’t want to go. What should I do?”

In this Episode, Relationship Experts Jan and Monika advise viewer Julie on how to choose between her dream guy or dream job.

Key Takeaways:

[0:10] Monika thinks Julie should stay with the dream guy. To her a dream job comes and goes, our skills and interests shift and change, but true love lasts. So if you think you found the one, stay for it and go all in!

[1:04] If he really is your DREAM guy, maybe there are some more conversations you can have about New York in the future and who knows maybe he will change his mind after all!

[1:30 ] If you do choose the dream guy and turn down your dream job, you could be opening yourself up for resentment later. You don’t want to be kicking yourself down the line and end up blaming him because you wish you had taken that dream opportunity but you stayed in LA just for him. Make sure you choose powerfully.

[1:45] Own your decision either way. Follow your heart and do what feels right to you.

[1:55] A lot of times these scenarios come into our life as a “test”, this could be a test to see how serious you are about this relationship and about this guy. What would the dream job say about you being bi-coastal, maybe you could work something out so you could find the best of both worlds.