• Cyndi Doyle, law enforcement officer’s wife and licensed professional counselor, discusses the possible underlying complaints behind nags or even controlling remarks and how to get curious about those in order to discuss them with your significant other in a healthy manor.

  • Intro and Outro music by Big State “Bad Timing / Bad Luck”

  • Bulletproof Marriage by Adam Davis: https://books.google.com/books/about/Bulletproof_Marriage.html?id=ZJN2swEACAAJ

  • Nag definition: annoy or irritate (a person) with persistent fault-finding or continuous urging

  • Previous “Control” Podcast: http://code4couples.libsyn.com/episode-31-control-vs-capitulation

  • Control definition: the power to influence or direct people's behavior or the course of events

  • Criticism: the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes

  • Our 2 responsibilities: being curious about our stuff and being curious about our partner’s stuff

  • Complaint: a statement that a situation is unsatisfactory or unacceptable

  • Soft Start Up Podcast: http://code4couples.libsyn.com/episode-19-the-hardest-easiest-way-to-communicate

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