We live in a you-can-have-it-all culture: You can have it all, buy it all, do it all. The reality is that we say YES to any opportunity it requires us to say NO to several others by default. Sometimes giving up things that really matter to us. In this episode, we explore what is it that you want to say YES to intentionally - and what NOs are required to have what you most desire. I give lots of great examples to show how to craft a life you love by getting clear on what you need to trade-off - by CHOICE instead of by default.