In this week's podcast episode, I talk to Defence couple Vicki and Jarod about being a dual serving Navy couple, Deployment, Discharge and Defence Life.

Vicki, Jarod and I also talk about;

  • How being a dual serving couple works when you both deploy regularly
  • Feeling like ships in the night and working on good communication
  • The juggle of both being defence members and starting a family
  • Jarod stepping into the role of the solo parent when Vicki deployed
  • What it was like for Vicki to deploy when their son was 18 months old
  • The bond that Jarod and their son formed while Vicki was away
  • How Vicki stepped out of the Mum role and into deployed ADF member
  • Creating boundaries when it came to Vicki contacting home & unreliable comms
  • Coping with the transition home, a now 3-year-old child and finding her place
  • How both Vicki and Jarod now have a good understanding of what both experience
  • The juggle of trying to get posted to the same location when you are both serving
  • Vicki’s decision to discharge and the transition from ADF member to civilian
  • Finding her feet, reserve time and figuring out her future career moves
  • Learning to be a family, living together and good communication
  • MWDU and how hard it was for Jarod to leave his family every Sunday
  • Posting to Sydney and feeling grateful to finally be together

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