The Susan Winter Show: Recent Episodes
Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor
Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension. 1. How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2. How And Why You Got Stuck 3. Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner’ 4. Clarity = Freedom From Melancholy
Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1. Consider the past- positive or negative 2. Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3. Do they care to try again?
Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1. Consider the past- positive or negative 2. Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3. Do they care to try again?
We often hear it said that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. But is that true? And, what about your partner? Can they love you if they don’t love themselves? Here’s the surprising answer: 1. How do you know if you love yourself? 2. How do you know if your partner loves themselves? 3. How important are these two factors in a relationship? 4. What’s the line between narcissism and self-love?
Blindsided Breakup? Do This… What’s the quickest way to bounce back from a blindsided breakup? How do you heal from your partner’s betrayal and sudden exit? Here’s how to fast-track your recovery from the breakup you never saw coming: The shock of a sudden breakup can feel excruciating. The betrayal of trust and confusion is overwhelming, as is the question of how to survive this shocking ending. Blindsided breakups are one of the hardest to process. But there is a quicker way to heal. Here’s the fast-track to recovery: 1. Processing the Extreme Duality 2. Reviewing the Breakdown for Clues 3. Reframing the ‘Perfect Partner’
Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools: 1. Accepting it’s over 2. Separating ‘the dream’ from reality 3. Trust LIFE to bring you love again.
What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.' 3. The Discovery Phase: The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility. 6. The Bonding Phase: This phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship. 9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person.
Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart. · Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect. · Understand the Game’s Cycles: Discover the hallmark patterns and cycles of a transactional relationship to better navigate and address this con early on. · How To Protect Your Heart: Awareness of the game and its cycles will ensure you’re one step ahead and not letting ‘the illusion’ destroy your emotional well-being.
Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this: · Underlying Factors: Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life · Break the Cycle: Learn how to break the cycle of being addicted to the drama, seeing it for what it is, and understanding the consequences of these actions when done repeatedly, and how it keeps you in opposition to the loving relationship you seek to create. · Create a New Love Model: Through assessing what doesn’t work and seeing how it keeps you from getting the love you want; you can begin to create a new love model that focuses on attraction that is healthy.
Are you agonizing over the fact that it’s your fault for the breakup? Here’s how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation: · Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. · How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation · How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right, or take action to get your ex back
You did everything right—were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here’s how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets.
Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here’s how to shift your mindset and free your fear
Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don’t know what you want, you’ll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that’s right for you.
They enjoy your company but don’t want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here’s the answer.
How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.
Are you an over-giver? Feeling unappreciated, burnt out, and resentful? Here’s how over-giving hurts your relationship and what you can do about it. Learn to create a balance between giving and receiving for a healthy, happy partnership.
https://youtu.be/LX1QvqvSpRQAre they hot and cold with everyone? Or is it ONLY with you? Here’s how to decode hot and cold relationships to learn if you’re the only one being played or you’re just another pawn in their game.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/vBlEixCNnro How To Overcome Fear of Rejection And Allow Love Into Your Life: Are you sabotaging love by being more afraid of rejection than filtering for the right kind of partner? If you don’t know what you want, you will get what they give you. Here’s how to set the stage for allowing love into your life and having the type of relationship that’s best for you.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/kWZ3T1ln8RE How do you repair your relationship after someone cheats? Rebuilding trust and a life together is a concerted effort for which both partners must be truly committed. If you’ve chosen to stay, then choose to move on. Here is how to rebuild after cheating: For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Fqun9Dc14cM Wish love could be simplified? How do you know if the person you're seeing is worth dating? Here are four signs that prove your date is in alignment with you and your romantic goals. For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/mk4mIyR5tl8 You’re ready to date— but the pickings are slim. Your location and preferences offer a limited selection from which to find your right match. If you're finding 'not ready' and 'not available?' Here’s what you can do to increase your dating pool options: For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/szLcBNqdLSsHappily married, but feel like you never ‘explored’ single life? Before you destroy the solidity of what you have, consider these healthy options to satisfy your curiosity.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/_oaJJJlmV4AWondering how to get over someone you never dated? Are you caught in a loop of obsession and can't seem to break free? Here’s what’s really going on— learn how to stop wanting them and open up to someone who is available and interestedFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/dPurdtdxlLUWhat is the ‘slow dating process?’ Learn the formula to creating a long-lasting love. For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/tT6KPIGDF1I?si=pK9IaU8Bl1ShOV5F You lacked confidence and were afraid to proceed… so they thought you weren’t interested. Can you reignite their attraction? #breakup #FearOfRejection #confidence #attraction #chemistry #newrelationships For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/5hUl2VNT8rk Blindsided breakup? One minute they’re planning your future, the next minute they’ve left with no closure. What happened? What should you do? For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/D7YcoZ5BUzIDo men only value a ‘mean’ girl? What is the true allure of a female who’s not nice? Learn how to discern from a guy who only values the chase, over one who values love.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Z4SY1dDuURk They were all in, asked you to be their girlfriend, then broke up with you. What happened? Here’s the answer to your ‘flashpanning’ partner’s reaction, and what they’re really feeling after the break up.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/5USlWoLB48s They dumped you and couldn’t care less (so it seems). Here’s a truth about your dumper’s remorse that they’ll never share: #dumpersremorse #regrets #breakups #guilt #shame #selfblameFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ubDRQJQCzlMDo you have a fear of failure, not only in love but Life? Learn the powerful tools that create confidence and set you free from self-doubt.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ao36w96Zu70How to Get Your CONFIDENCE Back After A BREAKUP. Have the words your partner said destroyed your confidence? Want to never feel like an ‘option’ again? Here’s how to start from a position of strength and respect.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/b9-koz0RqpIWhat is ‘ghostlighting’ and why is it especially abhorrent? Learn the signs of this bad dating behavior and how to regain your confidence and control. #ghostlighting #datingtrends #BDB #datinggames #gaslighting #ghostingFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/35XPKIGmaTwWe often hear the saying, “love is enough” to make a romance work. But is it? The underlying message shouldn’t be ignored. You’re asking for less: #compromise #settling #unresolvedconflict #isloveenough #healthyrelationships For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/YWdp9eriq7gHow do you view being ‘single?’ What’s your inner dialogue (and does it make you unhappy)? Here’s the key to unlocking your happiness while being single.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Ew-x3tAdSbgRight Person, Wrong Time. Does it feel like you’ve met the right person but at the wrong time? What’s the ‘time’ issue? Is it a matter of logistics, different life goals, or different views of romantic partnership?For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/pWQpYjYGwcUWhy do people fall in love with a bad person? Worried you’re too nice and can’t win at love? Here’s what does work: #FallInLove #WinAtLove #PartnerSelection For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/otrOHzrb2ggAre you seeking approval from the one who rejected you? Tying your self-worth to someone who never saw your value is a self-defeating loop of obsession. Here’s the way out: #BreakUps #SeekingApproval #Obsession #Rejected #SelfWorthFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Z5vpYZts7vc Is what you’ve got the best you can do? How do you know if this partner is right for you? How many differences between you and your partner are okay? Here’s how to answer those questions. For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/glloJSG7QnY Dumped. Confused. And wondering why your EX (who wanted to be ‘alone’) could move on so fast with someone new? This type of breakup can affect your confidence and self-esteem. But here’s what you can do:For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/bhJeLBcA3N0New relationship? Want to create a foundation of healthy partnership and long-lasting love? Here are the 6 components you need to see your new relationship flourish and survive.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/SWW6xE1w0GY Not getting the attention you need from your partner? Lacking emotional intimacy and the warmth that you crave? Tired of asking for what you need, but nothing’s changed? Stop begging. Do this instead.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/8BzIpXj9kJ4Modern Dating Challenges and How To Deal with them- Dating advice. Feel like dating has become a chore? Dating games, hot and cold behavior, mixed messages, and red flags can leave you exhausted and wondering if you'll ever find a decent partner. Here’s how you to regain your confidence and set yourself up to find a great partner.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/H6w9siIoTNA12 Signs Your Relationship Is Over and What To Do About It. Do you know the 12 signs? Here’s the list that shows you where you stand. But take heart. It’s possible to have several of these signs and not be at risk of losing your love. However, they are key to realizing ‘something’s off. If you sense your partner’s growing cold, backpedaling, and excluding you from their day-to-day sharing, begin the difficult but needed task of honest conversationsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
What is limerence and why is it such a powerful feeling? Limerence in an immediate attraction and mental obsession with a specific person. This sensation of deep connection and chemistry feels overwhelming, and you find yourself saying, “I’ve never felt this way before.”For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/vYj5hHoR0xEWondering how to get your ex back when you think you messed up? Here are the 10 steps you need to take to open the door to love again and win back their heart. #breakups #GetYourExBackFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/IFxZLMz_r_Y Have you suffered too much hurt to handle dating one more time? Here’s how to avoid the pain and heal the disappointment, confusion, and heartache.For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/s_HWU1Lwg-EMoving beyond obsessing over your ex and being able to love someone new requires redesigning ‘the dream.’ Here’s how to find new love: #breakups #lovingagain #thedreamFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Vjg-3h2eAsAAre you stuck wanting someone who’s lost interest? Is there hope for you? Was it real or a game? You’ll get your answers by asking these questions: #IsThereHopeFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/un4hqLzTncQHow can you make them regret losing you? Stepping off the emotional roller coaster makes the magic happens. Here’s how: #BreakUps #Obsession #RegretLosingYou #Narcisscist #PullingAway #DatingGamesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/L0wb6c161CIThere are 2 classic mistakes younger men make with older women. Here’s what they are and how to avoid them: #OlderWomen #YoungerMen #Friendzoned #DatingGames #Approach #AttractionFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/0pRJYp9L-o4Do they love you? Or the gifts (and resources) you provide? Here’s how to know if their affection is genuine, you won’t feel used and unappreciated: #LoveOrMoney #TransactionalPartner #TooMuchTooSoon #Pace #DatingAdvice #LoveLanguage #GiftGivingFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/z6w8gPxTyI0Were you suddenly dumped and blocked without any conversation or explanation? Getting closure without a convo seems impossible until you do this: #Dumped #Blocked #NoConvo #NoClosure #BreakUps #ShutDown #NoReasonFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/H5Q66eN3JHMCan you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest? It can be tricky because game replicates “real.” Learn the signs that distinguish the difference: #LoveBombing #1Dates #NewRelationships #Attraction #DatingGames #DatingAdviceFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/vUOX3JEZj0gImpatient, frustrated, and wondering why your soulmate hasn’t materialized? The pressure to find “The One” can feel excruciating… until you do this: #Soulmate #TheOne #PerfectMatch #Manifestation #FindingLove #PartnerSelection #DatingAdviceFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/91v_Ky2gF18Can’t seem to stop obsessing over someone who doesn’t want you (enough)? Here’s how to move from weak and needy to confident and alluring: #obsession #FlipTheScript #DatingAdvice #RelationshipExpert #confident #attraction #desireFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/iINCMilQ4uAThe one you never thought would hurt you flipped the script. Wish you’d have known what to look for in advance? Here are the signs that show you choosing ‘safe,’ isn’t safe: #betrayal #settling #safechoice #datinggamesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/wxuhYmDVA5QDo you feel like you lost your chance at love? Were you hesitant to commit and now they’ve moved on? Here is what you can do right now: #ex #lostlove#notready #timing #getexback #breakupsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/dw2PXvqKsZ4 Do you have partner selection FOMO? Feeling like you need to choose someone (anyone) before you’re left with no one? Here’s how to cure the feeling that you’re losing your chance at love: #FOMO #partnerselection #datingadvice #singleFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/1tMqCrPVp5wIt’s not just you. Everyone’s confused, frustrated, and about to lose hope. Here are the 4 reasons why dating has become so hard (and what you can do about it). #datingadvice #BDB #baddatingbehavior #datinggamesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/kmyH-QU04IgDo you know the early signs of the ‘pursuit and retraction’ game? Before you fall for the bait, get skilled at picking up the red flags and learn the art of ‘redirection.’ #datinggames #hotandcold #obsession #pursuit #retraction #redflagsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/KQ93TJyI300Wondering how to find love as a single? The shift within is far easier to achieve than you think. Here’s how to attract the joy and happiness you seek: #securelysingle #attraction #manifestation #selflove #findinglove #datingadvice #singleFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/HZKUOx8lcY8 You dated briefly but fell for them hard. The ‘honeymoon’ breakup placed them on a pedestal. Here’s how to take them down to right size and set yourself free: #HoneymoonBreakUp #BreakUpRecovery #Pedestal #TheDream For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/HQheHHmgrEo Yearning to travel but hesitant to do so alone? Seeking ’me-time’ but worried how your partner’s going to respond? Growth is essential to individuals and couples. Here’s how to have those conversations with your partner (and yourself). #singles #solotravel #couplesgoals #growthmindset #selfcare #wellness For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://idobi.com/.../21st-century-dating-raye-susan-winter/World renowned DJ and music producer Ryan Skyy and I discuss the evolution of modern dating, how to best navigate 21st century romance, and cutting-edge partnership models: #idobiradio #RyanSkyy #RAYEFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/NWOMHbNcLw0‘Flashpanners’ have 5 tell-tale signs that reveal their dating game. Here’s how to identify their courtship cycle and save yourself from heartache when you’re unexpectedly dumped. #flashpanners #lovebombing #datinggamesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/DDxb1Py1138 Meeting someone new can inspire a ‘dream’ of your future. But are your dreams in alignment with reality? Here’s how to properly evaluate a potential partner: #thedream #futurizing #partnerselection #newrelationshipsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/HQY433dUDbM Stuck in a 'friend with benefits situationship'? Trying to hold your ground while your ‘friend’ examines other romantic options ? Here’s how to handle this loop of anxiety: #FWB #friendswithbenefits #situationshipFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/js8OfAXQFo8You thought the two of you were on the same page. Affection, dates, time together, and time with each other’s friends. THEN, this happens. They say they’re ‘not ready.’ What should you do? #Situationship #NotReadyFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/wJ77DGeabh0Do you know the top 5 signs that prove your online admirer is a scammer? These are the first 5 moves in the scammers playbook that reveal their hand (and save your heart). #onlinedating #scammers #romancescam For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/0RLtpYbTvBIWondering how to impress an older woman from your first date onward? It’s easier than you think. You can relax and be yourself when you separate myth, from fact. Here are the facts: #olderwomen #youngermen #firstdatesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/8SI-BN-nWD0‘Trying’ isn’t accomplishing when the excuse is repetitive. It’s procrastination. Don’t fall for this dating game. Here’s how to handle a lazy, unmotivated partner: #datinggames #nonpriority #lazypartner For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/yrO10Dd5E4EThe ‘justified narcissist’ is my term for a person who claims their bad behavior isn’t their fault. Their ‘condition’ (aka the ‘fake hall pass’), is to blame. Therefore, you’re insensitive for complaining and need to accept this reality.# justifiednarcissist #hallpass #selfindulgent #fakecondition #gaslighting #datinggamesFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/SMok6iMqIb4Are you struggling to manage fear in your open relationship? Wondering how to be fully present but can’t help feeling insecure? Here’s the answer to this internal conflict: #openrelationships #fear #insecurity #nonmonogomyFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Y7aaD97lVCoAre you caught in a loop of waiting and hoping for your ex to come back? Wondering why it’s so hard to let go and why you can’t stop thinking of them? Here’s the cure: #ex #breakups #getbackwithex #obsessionFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/9Go0wETVwjMAre you waiting and hoping that one day your ex will realize your worth? Here’s why you’re stuck in a loop, obsessed and yearning for a ‘good review’ (to make them return): #breakups #worth #ex #goodreviewFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/oS_aqXJa2kcYour human rights supersede any condition of your relationship, including dating title (or lack thereof). You deserve to be treated with respect. Here’s how to set that expectation: #humanrights #datingrights #selfworth #respectFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/h3TZajz6tlgYour ex wants you back— in the future. They need to ‘grow’ and ‘heal. Do you trust them? Should you wait? Here’s your answer: #ex #breakups #backwithex For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/W3OTWWUHBNA‘Hardballing’ means sharing your dating goals on the first date. Done properly, it brings the right partner in. Done improperly, it pushes a qualified partner away. Here’s the right and wrong way to hardball: #hardballing #partnerselection #couplegoalsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/s8mUVNhdL4wAre you struggling to enjoy a committed relationship but find yourself worrying about the future? When life goals and values don’t match, hard decisions must be made. Rather than tread water, try this: #committed #couplegoalsFor more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Iaov_mCYHVoIt’s scary enough running into your ex unexpectedly. But what about running into them with their new lover? Rather than fear this possibility, prepare for it with forethought and confidence. Here’s how: #breakups #ex For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/YueCfSu8yPkHas your partner shut down, gone radio silent silent, or ghosted you? What’s the right move? Here’s when to reach out and when to cut your losses: #closure #pulling awayFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/62hFcy_B1FwStunned by the fact that someone close ghosted you? Stuck in a loop of wondering ‘why?’ This isn’t some random person. You can talk to each other. Still confused? Here’s the answer: #ghosted #datingadvice #breakupsFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Mpk14UicT20Too cautious. Too guarded. Too late? Did you lose their love for good? Maybe not. Here’s how to tell if you still have a chance: #toolate #lovelost #selfprotection For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ezr1cZvmp7MDo you have an ongoing fear that the person you want will reject you…even when things are going well? Here’s what’s happening and how to turn your insecurities into confidence: #rejection #fear #lossFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/vMsHOC-k9ngWondering why your partner won’t give you a “label?” There are two distinct reasons for not clarifying your status. Want to know which applies to you? Watch this: #nolabel #situationship #datingadvice #validation #titleFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Myty6iETuRMFinally! You got your ex back. You should be thrilled, right? But you’re in the same pattern of arguments and triggered responses. Here’s how to exit the loop of reactivity: #exback #triggers For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/gcErDitfqnIDon’t buy the lie when someone says, “I’m a bad texter.” It’s a choice. You’ll never be a priority with this type of person. Here’s why: #badtexter #datinggamesFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Vn-_GxMwtVEHow do you know if they like you? Watch my video for the signs of someone who’s seriously interested, as opposed to a fleeting (and self-serving) desire: #attraction #chemistry #love #likeyouFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/bQHTVj3aqsEAre you pushing someone away (and wondering whether it’s self-sabotage or self-protection)? Here’s the difference between setting healthy boundaries and running away from love: #selfsabotage #boundaries #fear #trustFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/4v10p6cvyVYYou went No Contact with your ex for your mental health. Now, a trusted friend says you’re overreacting. Who do you trust? Your friend, or yourself? Here’s the answer: #nocontact #trust #friendsFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ig8RtfrBY-MYou MUST have that specific partner, right? Why are your thoughts so limited? Learn the secrets of the Law of Substitution to manifest your ideal mate (and release the lesser). #LOA #manifestation #lawofsubstitution #loveFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/hqLUKZEWmF4Partner trying to sabotage you through ‘humor?’ Making a joke at your expense is humor that hurts. Deactivate the emotional trigger through this countermove: #control #joke #datinggames #humorhurtsFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/1khtrZHNOJ4Do you (really) want what you say you want? Here’s how the Universe will test your newly amended request for a greater love and better partner: #LOA #manifestation #LawOfAttraction #partnerselection #LoveTestFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/iMZqR3fXcGMWhat makes a person suddenly bail after they were ‘all in’? Here’s what happens when their future plans collide with today’s reality: #dumped #breakups #allinFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/IBgCbkF2xhM What do you do when your partner loses interest in you? Can you fix it? Learn how to regain their attraction (and desire) while rebuilding your confidence: #attraction #pullingaway #losinginterest #desire For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ECSHyarYpS4Does believing we’re worthy of love make it happen? Or does it ‘allow’ love to enter our consciousness? Here’s the distinction between inner tapes and outer manifestation: #love #LawOfAttraction #manifestation #LOA #worthyFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/fPRM4SMK63YWhen is the right time to have sex? Pace can impact a relationship’s success. But how do you make that determination? Here are the questions to ask yourself: #sex #pace #newrelationships #timingFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/6S5WXg3YF1IAre you fixated on trying to manifest a specific partner? Maybe you’re thinking too small. Here’s the LOA hack to getting a higher love: #LOA #lawofattraction #manifestion #partnerFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/VdPTBVVMEcEYou’ve tried to ‘let go and move on’ but your mind is still holding a space (and hope) for their love. How do you advance yet keep a spot for their return? #lettinggo #movingon #obsession #waitingFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/6uM99nKUj30Have you had so many negative experiences that you no longer believe love can happen? Here’s the cynic’s guide to attracting a love that’s healthy and beneficial. #cynic #datingadvice #loveFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/MydretzR_n8The moment you see ‘THE LOOK,’ you’ll know you’re being considered as relationship material. Your partner has just awakened to your value, and worth. #thelook #love #partnerselectionFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/7l7wC_OEfW8Is constant obsession not allowing you to move forward? How are you feeling stuck, and tried everything (yet nothing works)? If so, try this: #obsession #breakup #stuckFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/W1tC1LUvC_gYou’re feeling a little low and find yourself thinking about your ex. Are you having second thoughts? Or are you simply bored? Here’s the answer: #breakups #missingex #lonely #boredFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/KVb-tG4lOZoYou thought everything was going well. Then, your partner began pulling away. Learn the 3 big reasons why this is happening (and how to counter this reaction):#datinggames #whimsical #attraction #pullingaway #fear #confusion #datingadviceFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/-RaSYsI64GgThey loved you, then left you. This extreme change of heart leaves you wondering… was it ALL an act? Here’s what really happened: #breakups #dumped #hotandcold #ghostedFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/GejNH5rPvawAre you trying to be at peace with settling for a ‘friend with benefits’ situation (when what you really want is a ‘relationship’)? Here’s your next move: #FWB #datingadvice #friendwithbenefitsFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/bowXIMv36zAIs your obsession based on love? Or a powerful desire fueled by ‘hope.’ Knowing this distinction saves heartache and creates serenity. #love #hope #newrelationships #attraction #chemistry #obsessionFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/DXPnvxYmpqIYour ex has been in contact. They say they miss you and want you. BUT… they can’t be with you due to their circumstances. What’s going on? #ex #breakup #TextsFromEx #overlappers #mixedmessagesFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Sxa5LhXrHDwThey wanted you (or so it seemed). What happened? The loop of obsession over this question can feel like a downward spiral. Here’s why, and your way out: #rejection #hotandcold #obsession #breakup #attraction #datingadvice #desireFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/-ga-94MQHCIYour date is holding back despite intense mutual chemistry. What does this mean? Is it a game? A test? Or the foundation for a meaningful partnership? #Chemistry #HoldingBack #DatingAdvice #DatingGamesFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/6z8BfdFRaP4Are you struggling with feelings of jealousy and insecurity due to your undefined relationship? Here’s how to regain your composure and confidence: #situationship #insecure #jealous #undefinedrelationshipFor more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/-i5pRo1Sv7E
One minute they love you. The next, they dump you. Why? They “don’t want to hurt you.” What does that mean? #dumped #breakups #hotandcold #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/v3YjH0hWSag
Do ultimatums work? And if so, when should you use them? Here’s the best way to get the answers you need: #datingadvice #communication #couplesgoals #TheUltimatum #Netflix #NickLachey #marriage #commitmen
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https://youtu.be/mTZfLJs0O-Y
Attraction. Desire. Obsession. Ah yes… the lover like quicksand who pulls you in beyond your control. You know the pattern. But do you know how to escape the loop? #obsession #quicksand #attraction
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https://youtu.be/kq7gEOQFzdc
Do you feel incomplete without a partner? Are you seeking love outside of yourself, to love yourself? Here’s how to attain confidence and self-love, THEN a partner: #obsession #attraction #incomplete
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https://youtu.be/ZeGbzGjdCao
Can’t get over the person who love-bombed you? Tried ‘no contact,’ but it’s still not working? Here’s how to break free from this type of obsession: #NoContact, #obsession, #lovebombing, #breakups
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https://youtu.be/1mw21iyhbs0
You took your partner for granted. Now they’re gone and you’re tormented with regret. How can you get them back? #breakups #guilt #blame #ex
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https://youtu.be/WzF7KtWURO8
Wondering what factors establish the perception of a ‘high value’ ? Here’s how the process of overvaluing or undervaluing a partner occurs: #highvalue #datingadvice #worth
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https://youtu.be/8QTSmIzePqs
You’ve got a great partner. Everything’s good…except you’re not attracted. Can this (and should this) be fixed? Find out: #attraction #chemistry #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/CU-qxsdHNBM
Are you tired of hearing people preach the need for self-love before you’ll find love? While it’s preferable to love yourself, the recalibration you need may be that of mindset and simple mechanics: #selflove #mindset #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/HTlZ_n1N5gQ
You’ve seen your partner regularly for months. They’ve met your friends and family and talk of your future. Then, you discover they’re dating others. Here’s what happened and here’s your next move: #player #datinggames #commitment #DTR
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https://youtu.be/3KMxUD_XbRs
Frustrated (and exasperated) over not being able to shake off your ex? Still can’t free yourself from obsession, craving your partner, and the ‘dream?’ You can disconnect by doing this: #obsession #ex #dream
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‘Praisebombing’ is my term for a side door seduction technique to gain your attention (and affection) through excessive praise. Done in a non-dating environment, it creates attraction and receptivity to the praise bomber: #praisebombing #datingterm
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https://youtu.be/GghHZOfAuxw
Feeling pulled toward a person and an indefinable form of connection? Welcome to your evolution. Here’s how to benefit from the Law of Attraction, expansion, and evolutionary partnerships: #labels #connection #LOA
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https://youtu.be/3LWmDjnvwb0
The ex that dumped you makes contact and shows interest. Is this a game, or do they have a genuine change of heart? Here’s how to decode this unexpected flirtation: #breakups #contact #ex
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https://youtu.be/X8HXp1ZsBe8
Who decided the breakup was a good idea “for you both?” Was it for your benefit, or theirs? Here’s the distinction between a preemptive dump and benevolent choice. #breakup #preemptivedump
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https://youtu.be/WQHqfQTT8GI
What’s up with the ‘text-ghost-text-ghost’ dance? Why would someone contact you only to go silent? Here’s what’s behind this BDB (bad dating behavior): #text #ghost #datinggames
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https://youtu.be/e05cZKm26Wc
Our partner’s betrayal can affect our identity and self-worth. How do we allow ourselves to trust again? Moving on (and moving forward) with strength and confidence requires this: #betrayal #trust #breakuprecovery
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https://youtu.be/LYgRSjUpKrU
Why do we fear that speaking up will make us look weak or needy? Speaking your truth is a powerful tool for communicating your needs and boundaries. Learn how to do so with confidence and diplomacy: #speakyourtruth #communication #empowerment
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https://youtu.be/8Z2Q50X9PMY
Making the right choice can still feel painful. Here's what you need to remember to allow your well-being, confidence, and faith to flourish: #datingadvice #breakups
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https://youtu.be/UFW-vD0rcEE
‘Pocketing’ is a new term for the type of bad dating behavior that excludes you from your partner's social life. They love you in private but hide you from the public. Here’s how to change that dynamic: #pocketing #exclusion For more detail on this topic, check out my feature on Today.com: https://www.today.com/tmrw/trending/what-is-pocketing-dating-relationships-rcna8209
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https://youtu.be/2WXPVe6aIDY
What’s the difference between breaking up and giving up? How do you know the right move to make? Stay hoping, or call it quits? #breakups #stayorgo #situationship
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https://youtu.be/idtAERXiMi4
No individual can be our ‘one and only.’ Being our everything is too great an expectation to achieve. Offset relationship stress and gain enrichment and support by doing this: #OneAndOnly #The One #codependency, #video
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https://youtu.be/NON_ZgFMsTg
What is a twin flame? These hallmarks and characteristics separate this partner from all others as you enter a unique vehicle of personal evolution: #twinflames #catalyst #telepathy #connection
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https://youtu.be/hs_vJg3ZUcI
Exhausted from asking your partner to put effort into the relationship? Tired of hearing, "I’ll work on it” or, “Now’s not the time?" Here's how to handle a lazy mate: #excuses #lazy
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https://youtu.be/QCP3ks4BgQY
Your partner wants ‘time and space.’ Is that code for a breakup, or a relationship reboot for the better? Here’s how to know for sure: #space #breakup
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https://youtu.be/DmwxMgNDisI
Are you stuck in a loop of "what if?" Obsessing over a love that ended, or never started? ‘What if’ won’t get you the answers (or comfort) you need. This will: #obsession #whatif #thedream
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https://youtu.be/zzO2765E8ek
You sense a strong connection. How do you proceed? Here’s the step-by-step process to bringing them closer: #connection #volley #inclusionmethod
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https://youtu.be/qYGkgNbxc6c
They gave every indication they liked you. The connection and chemistry were there. Here’s why they stopped texting: #hotandcold #texting #chemistry #attraction #connection #video
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https://youtu.be/adDXHcxCnkY
Have a series of bad dating experiences chipped away at your confidence? Are you questioning your ability to find love? Here’s how to flip the script and boost your dating confidence with ease: #datingconfidence #selfworth #dirtymirror
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https://youtu.be/J6OEo0pdxwQ
Obsession is the hunt for a logical answer. It’s the mind at ‘unrest’ — stuck in a mental loop because nothing makes sense. Here’s your exit to freedom: #obsession, #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/oIvqbFaXq_w
Has your ‘honeymoon bubble’ burst? Balance and individual fulfillment provide the next phase of loving integration for you and your partner. Here’s how to do that: #honeymoonbubble #couples
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https://youtu.be/BWNIybrTNYk
Tired of ‘talking’ about the issue at hand, but also afraid to create ‘consequences?’ When words don’t work, action can reboot your partner. Move past stasis and get to new ground by doing this: #ConflictResolution
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https://youtu.be/p_aoQftFNJ8
Want to learn the key to manifesting the love (and life) you desire? Learn how to activate the ‘mental equivalent.’ #manifesting #mentalquivalent
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https://youtu.be/5aPuxp4GifQ
Games are seductive, and sadly, often effective. How do you give up game and move to ‘real?’ Here’s how to get the quality of partnership you crave: #datinggames #authenticity #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/oC9mljUgV7w
You see merit in your new partner. BUT— their ‘ever-present’ ex is way too close for comfort. Here’s how to voice your concerns (and boundaries) with confidence: #Partner’sEx #boundaries
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https://youtu.be/DGSnqeCZrv0
How do you handle the guilt and remorse of knowing that you were the one that caused the breakup? Here’s how to deal with the aftermath of that knowledge and create a benefit: #breakups #guilt
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https://youtu.be/7urcnW8nncs
What’s the fine line between noticing a red flag and determining it’s a dealbreaker? These are the classic clues for your discernment: #redflags #dealbreakers
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https://youtu.be/6dhSiJUgsCg
Wondering how to have the closure you need to move on? Here’s how to say what needs to be said and how to accept it’s over: #breakups #closure #video #movingon
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https://youtu.be/Kl5tj2noa64 You’ve worked hard and it shows. How do you know the authenticity of a partner’s ‘feelings’ when there’s notable money and status involved? My answer: #datingadvice #money #status
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https://youtu.be/5Twy9-1a1d4
Chemistry is potent, yet elusive. We all know the power it has in determining attraction and desire. Can we ‘assist’ this process? Here’s how: #chemistry #attraction
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https://youtu.be/eDMOpvKA6lI
Is there a way to make yourself fall out of love? Here’s the quickest way to stop loving your ex and set your heart free. #breakuprecovery
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https://youtu.be/3oLj6B7y6ao
New love is intoxicating. But its early hopefulness can blind you into ignoring red flags. How will you know the thin line that divides hope from denial? Watch this: #newlove #redflags #video #denial
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https://youtu.be/S2Q_E7GAenA
You’ve finally set yourself free from your ex. Then unexpectedly, they reach out. Is this a test from the Universe? Or hope for a second chance? My answers: #ex #breakups #testfromUniverse
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https://youtu.be/n7ANjADnDQI
You barely survived the breakup with your narcissist. How do you heal and trust a future partner? Here’s the key to your stability, confidence, and trust: #breakups #narcissist #trust
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https://youtu.be/lmReo-TqfzA
You held back and protected your heart. Finally, you felt it was safe to let go…only to see your partner vanish. What happened? Here’s the answer: #breakups #fallinginlove #holdingback
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https://youtu.be/jQn3YugGGM0
The allure of the one we can’t have is intensely compelling. But why? Why is unattainable more desirable than what’s readily available? Here’s the key to releasing yourself from this self-defeating loop: #unattainable #unavailable #avoidant
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https://youtu.be/wIFv1Z9rt4c
Do you find yourself comparing your current dates to your former mate? Do they pale in comparison? Or serve as a guide to what’s good? Here’s how to make it work to your benefit: #ex #breakups #comparetoex #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/yiZ777U6lGo
What happens when you’re dumped, and your partner won’t give you a concrete reason? Lack of closure can keep you in a loop of heartache. Here’s the way out and back to wholeness: #closure #breakups
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https://youtu.be/F3vYTF6BNvE
Why does someone treat you badly, then say “You deserve better?” Whether dumped, ignored or played, this phrase has layers of meaning: #breakups #deservebetter
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https://youtu.be/Haovi3qA69k
Obsessed and hung up over someone who’s moved on? Wondering if you’ll ever get over them? Here’s how to turn the tables and set yourself free: #obsession #breakups
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https://youtu.be/r_dgtMr7J-8
Has someone put you in a holding pattern? Before you commit to waiting on a ‘maybe,’ ask yourself these questions: #maybe #friendzone #avoidant
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https://youtu.be/cSwK7rYT200
Dumped? How do you know if you got too close to them (and they got scared) or they just weren’t ‘feeling it?’ Here’s the answer: #breakups #chemistry #scared #video
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https://youtu.be/xgrgqPY_8qg
You were the one who initiated the breakup (in order to feel better). But now you feel worse (with sadness and guilt). This is the ‘dumper’s remorse:’ #breakups #dumpersremorse #guilt #video
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https://youtu.be/-MIEf6XAahs
You sense that something’s wrong. Your partner is pulling away. You want to speak up but fear doing so. What if you look weak and needy? Here’s the best approach to take: #pullingaway #speakingup #somethingswrong
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https://youtu.be/x0qTe7MRIEI
First you were angry at your ex. Then, hurt. And resentful. Now, you’re simmering in the uncomfortable realization it’s not ‘about them.’ Here’s how to forgive yourself for loving them: #breakuprecovery #forgivingyourself
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https://youtu.be/RVSDjv5eaDg
Want to use the Law of Attraction to call in a partner or re-ignite and ex? Here’s the distinction between fantasizing and manifesting. #LOA #breakups #attraction
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https://youtu.be/AyyV2ktjBoo
Does your partner refuse to take responsibility for their actions? Do they become the ‘victim’ and make you the ‘bad guy’ for expressing yourself? Escape the ‘turnaround’ trick by doing this: #datinggames #turnaround
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https://youtu.be/XGdHPocI1P4
Single this Valentine’s Day? It’s just one day— but it can create emotional havoc. Here are my top 3 tips for a positive mindset that allows you to flourish: #single #ValentinesDay
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https://youtu.be/7ySeWep5SuI
Tempted to use your manifestation skills to get your ex back? Consider the pros and cons of summoning a partner back after a breakup. Here’s why: #LOA #breakups #manifesting #ex
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https://youtu.be/VWTqCFIWud4
You know they like you. They’re proactive and interested. But… why so emotionally distant? Here’s how to encourage your partner to open up: #newlove #attraction #emotionallydistant
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https://youtu.be/mXwPtMReMes How do we know if we’re falling in love with the right person? Is there a full-proof method to guarantee we never get hurt? Maybe we are looking at Love from the wrong angle: #love #findinglove
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https://youtu.be/gSbl7-Nfbic
Are you obsessing over WHAT IF— “What if I’d been braver? Took my shot sooner?” Here’s how to handle regret over the one that got away, and regain your power: #obsession #WHATIF
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https://youtu.be/Sc9AIsf_M4I
You know they’re no good for you. Your mind is clear on that fact. So why can’t you stop thinking about them? When will the obsession end? Here’s the trick to syncing your mind and heart: #obsession
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https://youtu.be/ay_lRv2RuvE
Blending families can be tricky for all new couples, especially age-gap partnerships. Here’s the best way to accentuate the positive when merging the children. #olderwomen #youngermen #children
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https://youtu.be/Hy8VHjlmF_0
Did you have an amazing connection on your first date? Are you confused as to how it could be so good, yet now they seem uninterested? Here’s why:
chemisty #connection #firstdates
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https://youtu.be/Z45XbgKcxvo
Having a hard time letting go and moving on? It’s the ‘dream’ that’s got you locked in a loop of obsession. Here are your keys to freedom: #dream #obsession #breakups
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https://youtu.be/t_fpjotBdUg
You know they’re no good for you… but you keep going back. Physical attraction and chemistry are a powerful lure. Here’s how to break the hook that holds you: #chemistry #attraction
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https://youtu.be/rySd07B71qY
There’s a difference between showing interest and seeking a person’s approval. Here’s how to turn insecurity into a desirable form of attraction. #approvalseeking #attraction
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https://youtu.be/AA1S0oU4QGM
You’ve done the inner work. Personal growth is a part of every breath you take. Yet, advanced souls can feel lonely at times. Here’s how to find your ‘tribe:’ #awake #evolved #tribe
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https://youtu.be/-jcVjG4uwJw
The breakup has left you devastated. With all the love you shared—how could your ex move on with such ease? This is the mystery that plagues you. And here’s the answer: #breakups #breakuprecovery Susan Winter, dating advice, breakups, moved on with ease, dumped
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https://youtu.be/CFskib8hGGM
Your breakup has you churning over the decisions you made and the events that transpired. How can you set yourself free? Here’s the key to relief, and the cure for disillusionment: #breakups #obsession
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https://youtu.be/rFtCIs97l5M
There’s a new type of breakup maneuver I’ve coined the ‘Grand Gesture Goodbye.’ Your partner pulls out all the stops to validate their affection—then dumps you without warning. Here’s what’s really happening: #grandgesturegoodbye #breakups
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https://youtu.be/VojGsvGGP5g
Beware of the emotional opportunist. They’re in and out of your life at will, using you as a safety net and ego boost. You’re the backup plan that never gets off the back burner. What should you do? #emotionalopportunist #datinggames
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https://youtu.be/LPQbbjt0k9w
Comparing your young guy to older men isn’t fair. Nor is it an accurate measure of his worth. Here’s how to acknowledge age-gap differences and discover their benefit:
olderwomen #youngermen #comparison
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https://youtu.be/O1JKhUjiILU
There’s a cruel form of torture when an ex no longer wants us but wants a shoulder to lean on and our presence in their lives. Here’s how to figure out the right choice for your ultimate happiness: #breakups #friendzone #ex
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https://youtu.be/taypIPklEU8
Why is it that we don't want the person who wants us, but crave the one we can’t quite get? Human nature can work against us until we come to this understanding: #attraction #chemistry #datingadvice #video
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https://youtu.be/OHY4iZ2odGs
Are you struggling to accept that your relationship is over? Here’s the key to accepting ‘what is,’ while retaining your inner fortitude and positivity: #breakups
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https://youtu.be/O8JBoJi1zsE Dating an entrepreneur is an art form. When the normal rules of dating don’t apply to a work-obsessed partner, here’s the way to gain emotional traction and priority status: #entrepreneur #startup #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/RNKj3se-IQQ
How do we explain feeling a powerful connection… that ends up going nowhere? Was it real? And if so, why did it end? Here’s what really happened: #connection #attraction #chemistry
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https://youtu.be/dbJjpjQ6E5U You and your partner have decided to ‘take a break.’ But, how do make it work for the relationship’s benefit? Here’s the structure you need to reignite your love: #takingabreak
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https://youtu.be/1Ma1pEl6s_8 Your breakup has left a palpable void. Moving on and accepting it's over is especially hard since your partner has also been your 'person.' Here's how to honor what was, and open up to what can be: #datingadvice#relationshipexpert #relationshipadvice #breakups #divorcerecovery
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https://youtu.be/dLDBHGyLXqY
Your first date was amazing; attraction, chemistry, excitement, and comfort. Just when you feel like you finally hit the jackpot, they slowly pull away. Here’s what’s happening and what you can do about it. #firstdates #pullingaway
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https://youtu.be/Hzk_dEXEFvo
The two of you look bad on paper— but could you work out in real life? Here’s how to discern deal breaker from the starting point of honest communication: #negotiation #opposites #dealbreakers #datingadvicen
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https://youtu.be/SlQSFjMBcIY
How much interest should you show early on? Here’s how to gauge your pace and level of attention in order to hit the ‘sweet spot’ of success: #pace #playingitcool
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https://youtu.be/XaZ9zpD8jyc
Are you struggling to let go of a love that never happened? If memories of intense chemistry and hopeful dreams of a future together keep haunting you, watch this: #love #endings
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https://youtu.be/FHdNqlt89A4
You want your ex back. Your friends suggest you try ‘no contact.’ But, is that the right move? Depends. Here are the rules for each variant of your scenario:
breakups #nocontact #NC
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https://youtu.be/Ul0wCr6M7hY
You’re in a dating game that only offers you two choices: hold and cold, or nothing at all. Here’s how to increase your options: #hotandcold #datinggames
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https://youtu.be/2Gn8gQO_WsY
A messy breakup with mixed messages is horrific to experience and impossible to understand. Is it a sick dating game? Or, does our ex want us back? Here’s what’s really happening: #breakups #mixedmessages
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https://youtu.be/hqWx8jypE1s
Can’t get over your ex? Here’s how to unite your mind and heart to attain a new reality of inner peace: #ex #breakups
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https://youtu.be/Ebjvkxx-Ovk
Wondering if the joy of your romance is worth the pain? The answer lies in asking these 2 simple questions: #hotandcold #joyandpain
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https://youtu.be/bOlq-ELV460
Are you baffled as to why the person who was into you, rejected you? Discover the hidden reason behind this illogical choice to bail: #breakups #attraction #rejected
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https://youtu.be/JdfenaBMgqs
What’s the difference between a fanciful crush that’s delicious to ponder, and one that becomes a relationship? Here are the 3 stages needed to actualize your dream: #crush #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/BJim28WONJM
Your feelings are hurt. Are you to blame for being overly sensitive, or is it your partner’s error? Here’s how to discern the validity of an emotional reaction: #blame #overlysensitive #HSP
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https://youtu.be/PWlvWvSWbuo
Wondering how to attract the right type of people into your life? Here’s the key to locking into your highest frequency (and not allowing yourself to be diminished): #attraction #selflove
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https://youtu.be/0ydGMITRkoo
You made the right decision to evacuate a painful ‘situationship.’ So, why do you feel worse? Here’s the final insight needed to activate your emotional relief: #situationship #breakups
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https://youtu.be/u9oILSjx5lQ
Do you tend to give too much, too soon? Here’s how to assess your pace and generosity for the best romantic results: #overgiving #newrelationships
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https://youtu.be/GhovuzHTXgM You suddenly find yourself thinking of an ex. Does that mean they’re thinking of you? Here’s how to interpret this ethereal premise: #ex #breakup #LOA #metaphysics
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https://youtu.be/9jXH2AiH1t0
Are you confused by the intense closeness of your ‘friend with benefits?” Do you wonder if they could be a ‘partner?’ Here’s how to navigate the way to a relationship: #FWB #situationship
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https://youtu.be/GhovuzHTXgM You suddenly find yourself thinking of an ex. Does that mean they’re thinking of you? Here’s how to interpret this ethereal premise: #ex #breakup #LOA #metaphysics
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https://youtu.be/_LAYVzq7keQ
Overcorrecting unwanted behaviors from a past relationship can jeopardize your new one. Avoid creating ‘the distancing dance,’ boundary and pace issues by doing this: #overcorrection #distancingdance #datingadvice
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https://youtu.be/h4IeEpODvCI
Triggered by thoughts of your ex? How do you know the truth of your feelings? Here’s how to discern love from desperation and convenience: #ex #triggered #desperation #convenience
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https://youtu.be/QfpONMjzwKk
Are you tired of being stuck in the makeup/breakup loop? Here’s how to activate your courage and free yourself from the cycle of unfulfilled promises and dashed hopes: #breakups #makeupbreakuploop
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https://youtu.be/dnUI2ASsxgI
What’s the difference between being patient, and being a pushover? Here’s how to discern which move to make according to the circumstances: #newrelationship #situationship For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/_nOrA7xNYPg
Are you managing your partner’s bad mood by taking the blame? Break the argument loop by changing your default position. Here’s how to fight fair and get results: #arguments #couples For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/xuqoRu5mD6U
How do you make yourself believe you’ll find love again? By doing this: #video #manifestation For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/arkZzik6xzg
Are you being punished for sharing your feelings with your mate? Bullied into silence through distancing? Here’s how to bypass manipulation and confidently address your concerns: #empowerment #speakingup
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https://youtu.be/KN9kgNvDzfQ
Are you stuck in a loop thinking about your ex? Here’s how to set yourself free mentally and emotionally: #ex #breakups #obsession For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ZnEwAM0ZiB8
When you get that ‘gut feeling’ about a partner, is it the truth? Or, could it be your fears? My video show you how to discern instinct from insecurity: #gutfeeling #intuition For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/voSpFcnXZjA
Trying to measure where you stand in a relationship that doesn’t involve the traditional marker of marriage? Here’s how to gauge your partnership progress: #newrelationship For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/zZFqYuFQeoQ
How can you discern whose ‘stuff’ it is? Are you overreacting? Or, is your partner provoking your upset by their behavior? Here’s how to tell where the responsibility lies: #HSP #hotandcold #mixedmessages For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/XxCGXLxy6HU
Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) wondering how to find love in today’s world? My video offers valuable information on partner selection, and the dispositional traits that compliment HSP/empaths: #love #HSP #empath For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/kxS22TVy7mA
You’re in a new relationship and things feel ‘off.’ BUT— your gut says to hang in there. Is your inner wisdom correct? Here’s how to know: #innerwisdom #newrelationship For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/_n8ZOhGRHjA Are you worried how the Coronavirus (COVID-19) will affect your dating momentum? Here are four things you can do to see forward movement in your romantic life. #Coronavirus #selfisolation #video For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/jhwxFa4Y5xA
Have your been told you ‘intimidate’ your dates? Here’s how to alleviate your date’s fears (without minimizing your power or value): #intimidate #datingadvice For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/HY8w-PRqX8w
You can be a positive force in your mate’s life, but you can’t “fix” them. Change is an inside job. Here’s how to assist the partner you love (while being good to yourself in the process). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/fRIYq9h_8Y0
Correct partner selection is pivotal to your long-term happiness. Do you know how to pick the best partner for your disposition and lifestyle? Here’s how to assess your ‘non-negotiables’ and gain clarity on the best partner for you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/CeSuTAM-ToE
Are you struggling to hold onto hope (when love seems so hard to find)? Here’s how to recharge your ability to believe in love again, as well as yourself: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ioOnecEJQGQ
Learning how to filter for the ‘best choice’ of partner alleviates future heartache. Here’s how to maximize your ability to meet (and keep) a mate worth loving. #datingadvice #heartache For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/9uNXjzb9V-o Does a gift reflect the quality of one’s love and relationship? As Valentine’s Day approaches, it’s wise to review what we “think” gifts mean to avoid emotional whiplash: #ValentinesDayGifts #giftgiving #giftreceiving For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/0aS7Zar35bM They were so great, then became horrible. What happened? How can the same person go from being attentive and adoring, to disinterested and cold? Here’s what happened and how to handle your end of it: #datingames For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/BiQgjW8lgis
You’re friends with your ex. That’s a good thing, right? Maybe not— if that friendship hasn’t allowed you to move on. Here’s the right move to make for your ultimate happiness: #video #ex #breakups #notmovingon For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/JD8S47QOmLU You know what you want in a relationship and in a mate. So, why is dating so confusing? The most confused people dating today are those who’re clear on their intentions, while subjected to a dating pool that’s confused. Here’s how to establish a healthy partnership despite the odds: #datinggames For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/k3Y5vdeCnTw Singles, are you sick of hearing what you ‘should feel,’ and how you ‘should be happy’ on your own? My podcast answers this question: #singles For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/MUubPteS4gM
Confused as to the best practices and protocol for a new relationship? No need to remain confused and fearful of speaking up. Here’s the solution: #newrelationships #datingadvice For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/s1rVIbBfCuo How can you navigate safe transit in the online world of dating games? Here’s my suggestion for attracting the right type of partner and interaction from the start. #onlinedating #datinggames For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/yoekIGA6wHw
Singles can feel extra pressure on a holiday where ‘everyone’ seems to have someone. Here’s how to avoid the rabbit hole of unhappiness and feeling alone. #video #single #holidays #ValentinesDay #NewYears #Christmas #Hanukkah For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/S0kwBvBPtpk
Wondering how stop yourself from getting attached too early (for your own good)? Here are the steps needed to disentangle fantasy while pacing your reality. #attachment #pace For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/KN4fCDMLR94
Did your friendship blossom into something more? Here’s what to do when your friend, turned lover, retracts back to the ‘friends only’ position. #friendzone #datingadvice For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/dHr2xLgUVhE
The holidays are a time of celebration with friends and family. They’re also of time of emotional triggers. Here’s how to handle an unexpected emotional reaction with clarity and confidence: #holidays #holidaytriggers For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/k3Y5vdeCnTw Singles, are you sick of hearing what you ‘should feel,’ and how you ‘should be happy’ on your own? My podcast answers this question: #singles For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Imb8ZwuJByk
First you’re dumped out of the blue. Then, they begin to pursue? What does your ex want?? Here’s how to handle this breakup mind game with power and clarity: #breakups #mindgames #pursuit #mixedmessages For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/rE6-hOI0gdw You can’t stop thinking about your ex. How can you trigger them to think about you? Here’s the counterintuitive twist on energetic thought: #breakups #energy #LOA For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/we8zO6gYr34
Are games a necessary part of keeping the attraction alive? My video answers the question of ‘cat-string theory,’ and how to balance relationship contentment with excitement: #catstringtheory #attraction #desire For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/muP5PVPTbBI
Do the messages they gave you contradict the emotions they inspired? Here’s why you fell for them and what you can do now: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/HVwACJf3VuI
Did your last partner click physically, but end in disaster? Here’s the truth about that form of intense chemistry, and how to create a lasting connection: #breakups #videos #chemistry For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/K6Dz2CNflE0
Are you great at your career, but lack confidence in the world of love and romance? Here’s how to utilize your career knowledge for dating success: #datingconfidence For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/Jtujnv-VBEA
Has a recent heartbreak made you fear opening up to love again? Here’s the mental shift you need to master this fear with confidence and ease: #loveafterheartbreak For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/dUGlUWmzXFI
Wondering how to magnetize a higher level of partnership? Here’s how to use what you’ve learned in the past to create an evolved, loving future: #attraction #LOA #lawofattraction For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/AMTPdD_PgCk
Ladies, how young is too young? Men, what’s your end-goal? These are the questions to ask when entering a large age-gap relationship: #olderwomen #youngermen #agegaplove For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/TG6frjzAuXo
You chose to sleep with them. So why are you giving them the power to validate you? Take your power back. Own your body and choice by doing this: #video #sex #hookups #power #confidence For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/50Yt6TiuHcY Do you fall so quickly that your partner pulls away in fear? Here’s how to express your affection at a pace that allows your mate to breathe and your love to grow. #pace #newlove #video For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Wondering how to filter though your romantic prospects to find the best mate? Save yourself time and heartache. Attract your optimal choice by doing this: #datingadvice #partnerselection For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You thought you had a connection… but they didn’t follow through. Why not? Here’s how the ‘paradox of choice’ eliminates the need to choose you as a partner: #video #datingadvice #paradoxofchoice #datingothers For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/SH5ZDN_KKbs
Is it possible to have a romantic scenario that doesn’t include ‘games?’ My video explains why people use games for control, and how reroute that behavior toward honest interaction: #datinggames #control For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You know you shouldleave, but your partner’s guilt-tripping you into staying. Here’s how to effectively handle emotional manipulation with tact and diplomacy: #datingadvice #guilt #stayorgo #manipulation #video For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You had an incredible connection that doesn’t happen every day. Why was this potential mate ripped from your life? Before you assume Life is cruel and unfair, consider this: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/ZPDt4XTr6so
Did you lose yourself (while loving your partner)? No need for guilt or shame. Regain your connection and confidence by doing this: #video #love #selflove For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/_FFKJ6xhQzo First they paid attention to you. Now… they ignore you? Here’s how to decode the dating game of chasing for approval: #video #datinggames #datingadvice #approval #attention For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/3fVD6e0BqpU Your date said you’re the ‘partner of their dreams.’ Then, they ran away. Confusing? Not at all. Here’s why: #video #fear #datingadvice #insecurity For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/A0vonlRXjaY
Is your partner purposefully trying to make you feel jealous and insecure? Here’s how to decode this dating game and turn the tables to your favor: #video #datingames #insecurity #jealousy For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/cQQZU-ONaMc Wondering if an ‘open relationship’ is right for you? Here’s what needs to be in place for this type of romantic design to work: #video For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/5LxOfEO2tlo
Breakups activate our worst fears: “Will I ever find #love again? Will I be alone forever?” Here’s the remedy to calm your fears and move forward with confidence and conviction. #video #breakups #alone #fears For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/1LDvRbrw0Ko
Are you trying to make yourself indispensable to your partner through over-giving? Learn why this tactic is bound to kill off the love you seek to secure: #video #overgiving #datingadvice Are you doing everything for your partner so they'll see you as indispensible? Are you buying his or her love? Fixing everything, including them? Beware of this double-edged sword. You’re teaching your partner to resent you and devalue your worth. Here’s why. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/revVilyE010 Introducing a new playlist to my YouTube channel: Top 3 Requested answers 3 viewer’s questions, all centering on one theme. Today, we’re examining relationship insecurity.#video #insecurity #datingadvice For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/OFAA2q0Eoig Tired of being taunted with hope? Here’s how to counter ‘breadcrumbing’ and get free from the partner that wants you on standby: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/9xygpEB-FA4 Did your partner dump you because you’re ‘too good to be true?’ Here’s why you’re punished with breakup backlash for being “too perfect:” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/wLEr35dgYrc You want to get back with your ex. Your ex feels the same. BUT— his or her friends are blocking the way. How do you move forward? Watch this: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/CwVLmj9AVTg What’s (really) happening when your long distance partner pulls away? Are they cheating? Here are the red flags, as well as exclusions: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/0qDNrAlJHAI
You finally spoke up, stated your needs, and now…got dumped? Here’s how a narcissist will punish you for having boundaries For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/hU5STvQQ9x8 Are you standing on the precipice of a decision to stay or leave? Worse yet, are you thinking of leaving to avoid being dumped yourself? Here’s a better choice: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/DYeCVDt-9xE Have all your friends found love, but you? You’ve done you inner work and know what you want. Wondering if you’re ‘unlucky’ in love? Before you lose hope, listen to this: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/XwWjGDh1EvQ You’re wild for an older woman who feels the same about you. So, why did she push you away (when you know she wants you)? Here’s the answer, and the remedy: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/vf41INlXjGk
He couldn’t wait to see you. She melted in your arms. What happened? Welcome to the dating game of pursuit and retraction: #mixedmessages #pullingaway #hotandcold You’re hooked— not by who they are now, but who they were before. The guy who texted you every morning and couldn’t wait to see you. The woman who showed you affection and said she’d never felt like this before. What happened? It’s the game of pursuit and retraction. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/L35xG8tXyTE Having trouble getting over your ex? This #video shows you how taking them off ‘the pedestal’ (and seeing them accurately) helps you to move forward. #breakups #ex #movingon For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/4Bxp5XMBibk
Trying to make sense out of the illogical is a fool’s errand. If you’re exhausted trying to figure out your #partner’s position, consider this approach instead: #datingadvice #confusion #mixedmessages For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/DZQl4b25alw
Why would a #partner resort to #ghosting as a form of #breakup? Here’s the mindset of an escape artist, and how you can turn the tables: For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/sAwLalvH-b0 At one point, your #date couldn’t get enough of you. Now, they’ve pulled away. Here’s why they’ve lost interest (and what you can do about it).#video #datingadvice #pullingaway Your partner thought you were exciting. Now you’ve lost your lustre, and you’re no longer a priority. Why are you suddenly devalued? Here’s what happened, and here’s how to reestablish your worth. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/tv0C125T0rY How can you tell a player from a prospective mate? If you want a committed relationship, here’s what you need to know: #players #love #partnerselection Maria writes, “Hi Susan. First and foremost, thank you for your advice and open dialogue on each and every video. Those of us who actively want a serious committed relationship and be there 100% have encountered and met partners who are there for the ride for whatever reason. How do we better identify them, ask poignant direct questions and be clear on what they want versus what you want. Thanks, Maria” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
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Not sure if you can be friends with someone you’ve #loved in the past? The right action depends on the answer to this question: #ex #breakup #friends Alex writes, “Is it possible to become friends with an ex-- with someone you once loved? I can't help but think: Why waste love? Why become strangers? I long for her in my life. We broke up due to incompatibility (age) and it was a loving breakup. Even though I start seeing someone new and see great potential in this person I would still like my ex to have a casual appearance in my life. To catch up over dinner.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
https://youtu.be/tTbIaqXSR2s If your #partner say’s they need time, should you wait? If so, how long? Here’s how to know if your #relationship is worth the wait: #video #wait #moveon Skyler writes, “Met this guy on a hook-up site. It’s been a few weeks now we regularly spend time together, in and out of the house. We cuddle and kiss but he will not have sex with me again. Says he's in a time of transition and doesn't want to hurt me. His XBF has cancer, they regularly see each other but they’re not hooking up. He's the first guy that fits right. Am I wasting time or should be patient? Thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Cliff writes, “Hi Susan, I love your videos. They are really helpful to me and I enjoy watching them. My question I would like you to answer in the video is about the ex bf. I like a girl, but I fear her ex bf is still on her radar and keeps appearing on all her social media, liking and commenting on every post. How to I deal with this to not let it bother me? Thank you.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Your partner was into you but now they’re pulling away. ‘Pushing’ for reconnection won’t work. Here’s how to engage the internal shift that allows your partner to shift in correspondence, and without resistance. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Franzi writes, “Dear Susan,I was dating a young man I thought I would end up in relationship with. A year ago he was dating a woman who treated him badly. She suddenly contacted him and he decided to give it another try with her. Can feelings just reappear? Or is it something else that led him to return to her, even though she's already treating him badly again? Thanks in advance.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Susan writes, “Hi Susan. I want say a big thank you to you first. I had a big awakening experience after I watched your videos. I allowed people who I loved to walk over my feelings, devalue me, and I’d always forgive them. I suffered and kept quiet. I decided to walk away from the guy that I’d been dating for a year who kept hurting my feelings. A question: how to become a receiver rather than always being a giver?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Oscar writes, “Good Day. Susan, I’m 40 and having issues with my relationship. I’ve come to find out that the woman I’ve been with for 8 years has been having some secret accounts on FB for her to chat with men (even my small brother). So now everything is a mess. She tells me that she wants to move out. I told her fine. But she’s still in the house. I want to move on with my life.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Vivien writes, “Hi Susan, I am a huge fan of yours from Hungary. My boyfriend has just broken up with me 2 months ago saying that he feels he is not in love with me anymore and we should not waste time. Knowing that everybody's personality is developing, my question is: How do you know that you truly do not fit your partner or is it just about being together at the wrong time? Thank you, Vivien” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
New couples go through the awkward phase of determining who and what they are to each other, and if what they’ve got is viable. Where do you stand with this person? And if you have anything with them, is it viable? Here’s how to handle this phase of new love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
YouTube subscriber Luke writes, “Hi Susan, I was wondering if you could possibly address why we may suddenly miss an ex out of nowhere, especially after it seemed like we’ve been doing so well for so long in moving on from them. It’s a very confusing and defeating feeling, and I’m hoping you may have some insight to help reconcile these feelings. Thank you so much for everything that you do! You’ve already helped me immensely.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Lisa writes, “Dear Susan, THANK YOU for all the time and talent you share with all of us! Your videos are awesome! Is an emotional affair worse than a physical affair? And does an emotional affair generally lead to that slippery slope and blurred line of inevitable intimacy? Thank you for taking my question.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
R G writes, “Dear Susan, I’ve heard many people say, including myself, that they stayed too long in a relationship. How long should a person give a relationship to really evaluate their partner and their future together? For example, would you agree not to give a relationship more than two years, maybe less, to seriously evaluate whether you’re on the same track for a future? Thank you for all your advice. I love your videos.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Sarah writes, “Why does a Narcissist play hot and cold in a love triangle? I have told him what I have concluded in his behaviour and patterns, and now I’m no longer priority but the other female is. Help. Your videos are fantastic, knowledgeable and by far helpful. Thank you thank you thank you thank you.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Emma writes, “Hello Susan, I really like and feel strong chemistry with this guy. And he tells me he feels the same way. He can be very affectionate and open with sharing his life. However, he tells me he doesn't want a relationship. Last time I saw him I told him I want a relationship. I haven't heard from him but if I do how should I react? Thank you for your empathetic and intelligent advice, Emma :)” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dylan writes, “Hi Susan, I’m a big fan of your work and find your content extremely helpful and inspiring. My question is how do you begin to approach an older woman if you’re only experienced in the ‘similar age’ bracket of dating/having a sexual partner? Many thanks, Dylan.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you stuck in torment due to your breakup? You can’t move forward, and you’re not sure how to get them back. Confused, immobile and waiting for a sign to guide you, you’re stuck. So you wait. And wait. Here’s the real price of fearing to take action. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Aaron writes, “Hi Susan, thank you for your videos it really help me a lot. Susan my boyfriend broke up with me because he wasn't ready for a commitment and decided that we should just stay friends. I got really hurt, but I accepted the "Friendzone" situation because I love him. Now I don't know where this thing’s going? I'm confused and don't know what to do, do I just leave this situation? Thank you Susan” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Melissa writes, “I've been with my partner 4 years, living together for 1. My partner is cautious when it comes to making ANY decisions. I know he loves me and is fully committed to me in every way, BUT he said he's not ready for marriage yet and doesn't know when he will be (35 yr. old male). How do I communicate my relationship expectations/needs (as I'm 33 years old and want kids), without issuing an ultimatum?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Taylor writes, “Hi Susan. I was wondering what your thoughts were on trying to build a serious relationship with an ‘Overlapper.’ Particularly, if you are the "other" man or women stealing them away from their current partner? Is it possible that you two are different or will they always be looking for that next someone. Thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Roger writes, “Hi Susan. Your help has made a tremendous impact on my dating life, but there's something really tough going on. I met this young woman. She got really damaged by some guy 6 months ago who she heavily fell in love with. Now she tells me that it made her insensitive to someone else and she doesn't know if she'll ever feel again. She likes me and I know her for months, but what can I do?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Bea writes, “Hi Susan,I just met a much younger guy. I am 44 and he's 27. He seems to be quite serious, a quiet type which suits me a lot. He has a very demanding job - he's a firefighter. So I sense he's a strong, manly man. He's also 6'6 and fit. I wonder if in our relationship I'd still be the one who's dominant, just because of my age? I don't fancy this idea. Is it possible he would be the leader here? Thanks, Bea” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Kate writes, “Hello Susan! Thank you so much for all the educative videos! I have a question about cheating: once a cheater, always a cheater – true or false? All of your videos have been truly helpful! Thank you again! Best Wishes, Kate” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Monica writes, “Hello Susan - I LOVE your videos and amazing advice.My issue is that, in a relationship (from 9months-3yrs), the guy will lose interest or momentum, and realise later what they've lost. All of my old boyfriends have confessed their love for me long after the relationship has ended. This is incredibly frustrating. Is there anything I can do to prevent this from continuing to happen? Thanks” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Ed writes, “Hello Susan, Here are my thoughts on a video request. As we experience the grief from a heartbreak, we also have a variety of emotions to deal with (as you have discussed in videos). One huge additional thing I'm not sure you have covered is the reality of how to deal with the thought and feeling of knowing your former Lover is having sex with someone new or will be having sex with someone new. Thank you” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Erika writes: “What are your thoughts on the law of attraction and its role in getting an ex back? I've read that some people have used it to get their exes back with great success. However, it sounds like this method involves giving them all the power. Won't this have the opposite effect as that person feeds off that energy? You mentioned your ex only reached out to you when you had decided it was over.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Ann writes: “How to finally move on and be happy with yourself again? I've always been single and happy until I dated someone who was into me at first, pulled away, and went back to his ex. He lied to me about it and blamed me for feeling that way. It's been a year and I feel pathetic for being still sad about it and haven't met anyone, yet he has moved on with his happily ever after. Help:(“ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Chris writes, “Do you believe in love at first sight?” This is a question that many people ponder as they sense an immediate attraction to another. Is it real? Is it imagined? Here’s my take on the subject. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Linda writes: “I have a crush on someone and although I don't know what the outcome will be, it seems there is chemistry and I get the feeling he likes me. However, when we bump into each other he is either pretending not to remember our last conversation to play it cool, or he's really not paying attention. I on the other hand remember EVERY DETAIL of our conversations. Is this a gender thing? Thanks!”For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you obsessed with getting your romance back on track? Here’s why your partner is frustrating you so, and how to handle the desperate need to try over and over to recapture the first blissful days of togetherness. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
This is the double bind where if you speak up to bad behavior or voice a complaint, it’s all ‘too much’ for your mate. Partner’s who play the ‘no drama threat’ box you into compliance and insist upon your silence by pulling away as punishment. No complaints are allowed. Therefor, no healthy relationship can be formed. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Margaret writes, “Hi Susan, Could you do a video on how to get over someone who chooses another person over you? I keep finding myself comparing myself to the woman he chose. He said she challenges him and I don't, so I continually see myself as less than her. Thank you!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Scott writes, “Hi Susan- I watch all of your videos on YouTube. Thank you. My q: being a guy in the mid-life dating pool is not just difficult, it's expensive. I'm getting really tired of showing up for a first date and she orders drinks and food and then just looks away when the bill comes. We're made to feel cheap about paying by the women who refuse to pay anything. Your thoughts?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Evelyn writes: “Hi Susan, I find your way of conducting yourself in videos is so classy! Thanks for all your insights and tips! I am a 45 year-old woman with a good education and career. One thing that keeps frustrating me is that in the online dating platform; I’m ONLY approached by men who are 15+ older. And NO men around my age whom I sent greetings to ever responded me. Why and what to do? Thank you :)” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Do you find yourself wondering what ‘could have been’? Obsessing over an imagined love life can make you miss what’s right in front of your eyes. Here’s how to either dispel the myth of the ‘perfect love lost,’ or seek out your missed connection and make it a reality. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Marie writes, “Dear Susan,Can you make a video about Unrequited Love or How to Handle Rejection after You Confessed your Affection to someone who does not feel the same?Hugs from Geneva, Switzerland”. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Paul writes, “Hello Susan. For most of my life I have been struggling to choose the right partner for me. There is usually this dilemma for me; to choose either a man to whom I am sexually attracted but have very little in common with, or a man who I feel deeply connected with but doesn't ignite sexual desire in me (which I guess is an upgraded version of a friend). How should one proceed in this context? Thanks”. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Did they ever love me? Was it ever real? These are the questions we ask ourselves when we’ve been dumped, cheated on, lied to, abandoned, used, played, and conned. We begin to fear that we made it all up in our minds. How will we ever know? Here’s the answer. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Georgina writes: “I would love to get your thoughts on the best way to ask someone why his (or her) marriage or long term relationship ended without sounding intrusive. It seems each time I date a divorced guy, I question whether I’m coming across true “run for your life” red flags in his character, or if he’s just triggered, and I need to be a bit more patient, understanding and direct in my communication.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Candice writes, “Hi Susan,I'm a HUGE fan of yours and I think you hit the nail on the head every time you dole out advice. My question has to do with divorce. I am going through a divorce now and I would love some advice on getting through the grieving process, how to stop questioning whether or not you made the right decision and the best way to put yourself back out on the dating scene again. Thank you!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Marie writes, “My question might be elementary, but when should a partner say, "I love you"? I am a woman in my 30s who has been dating a man in his 40s for 10 months. The relationship has been thoughtful, mature, and (dare I say) loving, but he has yet to say, "I love you." I have been waiting for him to say this phrase first, but am I being old-fashioned or ridiculous by waiting? Many thanks for your videos!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Why would someone urge you forward into caring for them, give you green lights, and connect so readily… then suddenly bail? Lines like ‘I’m not ready,’ or ‘I don’t want a relationship right now’ seem so incongruous with their former actions. Here’s why they bailed and what you can do about it. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Baffled as to why they left? Wondering if they’ll come back? Learn why the energetic act of staying frozen as you wait and hope for your partner’s return is the very thing that’s acting as a repellant. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Alika writes, “Hey Susan, I'm a big fan of yours! My question is about taking chances. Is it a good idea to "shoot your shot" as Millennial’s often say? I find myself wanting to interact with people I see at school or the gym, or even messaging them on social media, but I don't have the guts for it. Even further, I can't tell if I'm being reasonable talking myself down, or if that feeling is actually insecurity?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Julie writes, “Dear Susan, how can you tell if you and your partner are on the same page regarding the future if your partner is a more reticent, cautious person? I know that my partner loves me a lot, is kind and consistent. However, unlike me, who would love to dive straight in to a life together, he is taking things much more slowly and warily. I sometimes take this for a lack of commitment. Thank you! J” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you tired of watching videos and reading articles about narcissists? Perhaps you’re taking the right approach but applying it to the wrong person. Instead of trying to change the narcissist, why not change your attitude about them? This is the one thing they desperately need from you, and the only thing over which you have complete control. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Just when you thought you’d handled your heartache, it comes raging to the surface. A delayed response to a painful event or situation can put us into a tailspin. Here’s how to handle that emotional onslaught and move through the process of healing. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Some partners need to create a false reality in their minds so that they can play the victim. By repeating and embellishing ‘alternative facts,’ you’re always at fault. Here’s the best way to stop this dating game, and your need to defend yourself against false accusations. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Do you feel like you’re losing faith in finding love? Here’s the good news. Celebrities are leading the new trend towards commitment by pulling the trigger on engagement. What does that mean for you? That the hookup culture is becoming passé as partnership gains momentum. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The first phase of any growth process is the realization that a change must be made. That’s a good thing. While recalibrating to our new and improved selves, we can temporarily look worse (even though we’re getting better). Here’s how to handle this uncomfortable transition while dating and mating. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dominik writes, “Hi Susan, I‘ve watched all of your videos and they are so helpful, thank you! Before I found you, I used to follow coaches that said things like “Don’t give compliments, otherwise it will make you look anxious, ” etc., but after I found you I realized that with those rules one cannot find love. One can only find love if he shows up. But what do you do if you show up but the other person doesn’t?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Joey writes, “Dear Susan, thanks—the way you advocate authenticity is so refreshing. You’ve talked about people having you in reserve/place card, and how you should get up and move on. My question is what is the best way to do this? How much of a conversation should there be? I’ve been seeing a guy I really like for a while and would like more but I feel that I’m stuck as an option not a priority.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Katia writes, “Hi Susan, I love your videos! You are helping me to find my true self and heal after a breakup. My question is about tolerating differences in a relationship. How do you know when something is a deal breaker versus something that you should compromise on? I'm not sure if I was focusing on the bad or if that one trait was intolerable for me. Thank you!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Debbie writes, “Could you perhaps do a video on how to handle it when your partner doesn't give you the attention you need, whether it’s at the start of a new relationship or in a longer-term relationship. I.e. how do you speak to them about it without seeming clingy and how do you handle your own emotions of needing that much attention from them. Thank you.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
R Baker writes, “Brilliant video, and Nikka was an adorable addition. Can’t wait to see the ‘why did you pick someone who was so difficult?’ video, Susan! I’ve realised that, age 40, if all my boyfriends have been disappointments then the basic common denominator is me. Not them. I really want to change who I gravitate towards. Pretty much guaranteed - if I find myself liking someone, I reckon I should run away as they are guaranteed to be complicated and cause confusion and disappointment in my life.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Your partner’s the one who urged you to move ahead in your relationship. Now, they’re the one who’s backed away. Why? Here’s what happened and here are your options. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Amber writes, “Hi Susan, What do you think about contacting an ex to call them out for being cruel upon breaking up? To get some things off my chest after about a month of no contact and since it's become obvi he's back together with his ex (he tried to play it off like he'd met someone new and told me I just "didn't have it"). I know this isn't true, but it keeps ringing in my ears and I'm still w/an obsessed mind.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Laura writes, “Your videos are true pearls of wisdom. Could you talk about sensible, practical tips for ladies to avoid or handle persistent or unwanted attention? Any red flags you have experienced and how to deal with pushiness etc. Much love, Laura” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You may be savvy on decoding hot and cold patterns in dating, but narcissists play a whole different game. Learn how to insulate your heart from needless pain and avoid the emotional tension by being one step ahead of your narcissist. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Not sure what’s required in order to take your summer fling through to the fall? Here are two solid tips that create the greatest possibility for your partnership to continue through cuffing season and beyond. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Ger R writes, “Hi Susan. Please do a video about bringing up the topic of being exclusive. How long before wanting this is reasonable? And, with that conversation, I would think that removing our profiles is appropriate to be part of the discussion. I can understand not dismantling it but it can be kept off of circulation. If your partner never asks to be exclusive and you feel the relationship is at that point, how does one handle this? Thank you, Susan! You take what seems to be big issues in our lives and simplify the thought solving process.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Roger writes, “Dear Susan, I am dating a mother of two right now and she is 35 and I am 25. Anyway, she really wants to enjoy life at the moment because she left a relationship of 10 years about 6 months ago. We had sex recently, but she starts to resist it now. I really get the feeling that she starts to get too attached and is afraid of that feeling. I really want a future with her how do I pace this? Xxxxxx” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Heather L writes, “Hi Susan! I am gaining so much value and clarity from your content. It’s helping me improve my relationships with other people, and helping me improve my self-esteem. In one of your videos, you discuss a client that had an inner dialogue of "If I am really, really good... maybe you will like me back." I find myself falling into this pattern. How can I tip the teeter-totter, as you discuss? Thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Christopher writes, ”Hi Susan. I have admired your work here helping others find confidence in relationships. And I do have a question. Is it true to say that most women want rich successful business type man or ones with good prestigious career pathways? Would it be true to say that as a man who has neither of those (not a good job and not running a successful business) does that mean that I may as well give up b4 starting?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Emotional meltdowns can be observed, honored, processed and packaged. Here’s to reroute an internal upset in real time so that you can move forward and get back to a positive mindset. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Emmy writes, “I'm 25 and have gone on many dates with wonderful men. There is attraction, great conversation, but always seems to be something missing. Is it possible to be so happy, independent and comfortable being alone that even if you meet a great guy it will always be stagnant? I’m emotionally available and fully appreciate the benefits of being in a relationship but am confused by my constant dilemma!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Furious with your partner? Though you want to lash out in a text message, this isn’t the place to start an argument. Learn the amazing power of ‘waiting’ to construct the perfect message, and why that choice creates a favorable outcome for you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’re ready to walk, so why not experiment by enacting 'new ways of being' while you remain with your partner? This is the ‘golden time’ to break the negative patterns and try something novel. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Lawrence writes, “Hi Susan. My wife and I have separated and she’s sleeping around and meeting men off dating sites. She suffers from alcohol abuse stemming from a traumatic childhood. I’d love her to fix this and us be a family my heart keeps wanting to reach out. Is there anything I can do to get her to realise and her tackle her problems and issues or is that something she must see alone?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
A ‘Band Aid’ relationship is neither good nor bad. It’s a get-by type of romantic construct that demands little of its participants. One or both partners are marking time and treading water. The point is to identify if you’re in a ‘Band Aid’ relationship, just in case you’re the partner who wants forward movement. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Salvatore writes, “Hello Susan, could you explain the psychology or behavior/reasoning behind "haunting"? It's basically the follow up of ghosting. I was ghosted almost a year ago by a girl I went on a date with and she has ignored me up until now, where she popped up watching my Instagram stories. She is currently in a relationship as well. What could this mean?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Charlotte writes, “Hi Susan. Thank you for all of your wonderful, wise advice in your YouTube videos. You clearly have a gift in understanding human nature. Please may I ask - if you meet a guy that you feel inexplicably drawn to in less than ideal circumstances and with clear obstacles in the way, is this the Universe's way of telling you're way off the mark and that it's a “no-no?” Thanks so much!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Johnny writes, “Hello Susan. First I wanted to thank you for all your precious advice. My relationship with a man I'm dating is moving forward and my insecurities are coming to the surface. I'm a young man and the guy I'm dating is older than me, very attractive and put together, and I still feel very uneasy around him. Do you have any pieces of advice for me to try to overcome my personal anguish? Thank you” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Wondering why your partner’s taking so long to trust you? Here’s how to figure out if it’s something you’re doing to create this situation, or if it’s an underlying issue that belongs to (and benefits) your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
One of the most excruciating transits in a romantic relationship is the time period between hoping for the best, while fearing the worst is about to happen. Sometimes the need to believe in the positive can work against us— keeping us locked in a spiral of non-movement and agony. Here’s how to know when there’s still hope and when you should face your losses with dignity and move forward. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
External factors can collide with your inner world to set you up for emotional obsession— even when you’re a rational person. This creates insecurity, and a heightened dependency on a partner. Learn what those situations are, and how to avoid this negative loop. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Have you made it easy for your partner to devalue your worth? If so, here’s what you did wrong and here’s how to make it right. Learn the inner workings of person who takes their partner for granted, and how the non-prioritized partner gets stuck in the loop of believing their false promises. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Laetitia writes, “Hi Susan,Thank you for all your fabulous advice. So helpful! Here is my question: how to know when to give a chance to some one?”Is there someone you're considering dating? Here are the questions you need to ask yourself in order know if this person is someone you’d like to know more intimately. This worries me lots! We talked about both wanting something serious.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dustin writes, “Hi Susan. I got out of a very toxic relationship 6 months ago. My ex broke up with me. She has bpd. I've been through a lot emotionally post breakup. I know for my salvation I need to move on from her but I still find myself painfully longing this person. How do I move on? I'm terrified that my next relationship will be just as painful if not worse. How do I feel good again and trust again?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Petter Fagerlund writes, “Should you try to resolve an ambivalent situation, that might be characterized as hot and cold, by being open or are you jeopardizing the relationship by doing so?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Tanya writes, “Should previous relationship history matter? I met this guy on tinder and we had such an awesome first date! We clicked right away and I felt comfortable. One of my good friends knows him. My friend did a bit of a background check for me and found out from a source he's been in and out of many relationships and might be a player. This worries me lots! We talked about both wanting something serious.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Is your spiritual practice weakening your romantic boundaries and making your ‘go blind’ to an unhealthy partnership? The overwhelming love that occurs from devoted spiritual awareness is magnificent, but may leave you confused as to how to integrate self-esteem and boundaries in the real world. Here’s your guide to that integration. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Anna writes, “Hi Susan. Hope all is well. I've been improving myself so much, thanks to all of your break up videos. I have one question: What should I do if my partner has "The grass is greener" syndrome? He broke up with me out of the blue, turned into a different person. He has a girlfriend now, but begs me to talk to him whenever I cut the cord. But when I mention commitment, he pulls away? Thank you so much.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’re all afraid of being hurt. But the unbelievable remorse of staying silent is to miss the opportunity to experience love with the person who also loves you. Here’s how to speak your truth and embrace the love that is awaiting you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Charles Belfort writes, “HI Susan, could you please make a VIDEO on the logic behind "it's just and doesn't mean anything", while the person is holding back with someone they date and like in all sorts of ways? In other words whatever has the potential of turning into something meaningful and romantic is put on hold, while casual sex here and there is fine - up until the actual dating started or even kept going on while the dating continued. Have heard of both cases.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Jessie Magliocco writes, ”Do people run hot and cold when they're on the rebound or when an ex is trying to get back into their lives?”Here’s the answer to that question and how to handle hot and cold in general. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Stella writes, “Hello Susan. I have been dating a man 11 years older than me for 2 years. Both divorced. I'm 40. He has had past failed relationships. I have ddated, nothing serious. He told me from beginning he wasn't boyfriend material?? He acts like a boyfriend when we are together. He won't commit to anything. My gut tells me he's the one and he's afraid of being hurt. Am I kidding myself?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Future Faking is a form of mental/emotional seduction that lures a dater in the gate. It’s the bait of what’s wanted; exclusivity, a future together, family, children, lifestyle… whatever it is that rings your bell will be offered in lip service only. Learn the red flags of this specific dating game to be one step ahead of the manipulation. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Fiona writes, “How do you date when your career is in shambles or ‘in process?’ It's not ideal, but if the career is not a 6 month fix, should you abstain from the dating market?I have met interesting men in the past two years. Despite an initial attraction, all evaporate. I’ve been very unsuccessful on the career front and wonder if the two are related? Is my disappointment with career acting as a repellent?”For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Shanewrites, “Dear Susan, Enjoying your videos and website, finding your perspective refreshing and insightful. I have a question that’s recently crossed my mind. For us younger men who are attracted to and/or seeing an older woman what would you say is the most common mistake we make with an older woman?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Marko writes, “Hi Susan, greetings from Europe.What is your opinion on male-female friendships when in a relationship?To give it more context, how are you suppose to react to your partner spending time in private, late at night, with friends from an opposite sex? Especially when you have never been introduced to them in a relationship that’s lasted for more than 6 months. Wish you all the best, thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
As a self-empowered dater, you may seem ‘too good to be true.’ Honest, open and real, your demeanor may throw off a new partner. Here’s why being real looks like a game to the disempowered, and how you can remain calm while they warm to your truth. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Lana writes, “Dear Susan.Thank you so much for your helpful videos. My friends claim that a man knows very quickly whether the woman is girlfriend material or not. Perhaps just after few dates. Could you make a video about this topic? I was seeing a guy who played hot and cold on me, and my friends explained that it is because he knew from the beginning that I am not girlfriend material. Thanks a lot. XX.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Gary H writes, “In your opinion, when is it the best time to let someone know that you like them. Can it ever be too early to do so?Thanks, Gary.“ Here are several options to let someone know you’re interested, with the proper timing. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Hot and cold isn’t always what it seems. Though we’re savvy to this dating game, what if we’re wrong? Could our partner be having a reaction to our reaction? And could two loving people become distanced simply due to fear? Here’s how to discern between your partner caring, and one who's only playing a game. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’ll never be free to love when our focus is the fear of getting hurt. That outlook negates happiness as it keeps our guard up and locks love out. Here’s how to make smart choices and trust yourself. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Marlena writes, “Hi Susan. Hope all is well. I’ve been watching your videos and you’re really awesome!My question is; I’m in a 9-year relationship off and on. My partner told me he needed time to see other people this year in order to make a decision at the end of the year to formalize our relationship. How would you handle a situation like this??! I am frustrated and confused....” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Lola writes, “Hi Susan! How do you move on from rejection and not let it affect your self worth?” Though your ego is bruised, one person doesn’t determine your worth. Here’s how to process what occurred and move forward. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Jelena Gavranovic writes, “Dear Susan, Nearly all men I date send out a strong signal that they want to take me to bed. I'm sometimes at a loss in finding the balance between taking time to get to know someone, or the instant attraction (happened once) where it all went too quickly and after 3 months he said he wasn’t ready to commit. Must attraction be there from the very beginning? And if so, at what level?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’ve all heard the phrase, “Love conquers all.” That can be true — when both partners are unified in their goals and dreams. Love is not enough when the price you pay is compromising your own goals and dreams. Here’s how to know when you’ve given too much. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Torrie T writes, “Hi Susan. I've held this question in my heart for many years and would love to hear your advice. How do you move forward in dating/relationships after a history of sexual trauma (any type). I know this is a touchy subject, but I believe that you give wise, insightful counsel. I would truly appreciate your input. Thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Maryam writes, “How to deal or empower yourself when you finally find someone you think you deserve, but you keep doubting yourself and your ability to secure happiness?” Thanks Maryam! Here’s the technique I use to eradicate limiting thoughts and rewrite my inner directives. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Erica K writes, “Hi Susan. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us:) I have been dating a guy from Tinder for 8 months now and he recently asked to be exclusive and ”more serious”. I asked him if he still uses Tinder, he said no.(I deleted my profile a long time ago) Yesterday I found out that he still is on Tinder and it really is bugging me and I feel really sad. How do I confront him without being needy?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Has your partner become complacent? Are they taking you for granted, bored or losing interest? Here’s how to reboot your relationship and reactivate their passion, interest and desire. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Sam King writes, “Do you think you can make us a video regarding why do we still love people who do not love us back ??????? i love your work , you are awesome in every way. “ Learn how you can turn the pain into strength by spinning a win from your loss. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Maryam writes, “How can I avoid getting down and depressed when I experience challenge after challenge in dating, and see that most of my friends have found their match much easier. “ Here’s the antidote to this negative thought and how to avoid feeling despair. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
George Wolf writes, “Hi Susan! I have a suggestion for a video — haven’t seen it covered on your channel yet. How to handle dating in the workplace? Should it be avoided? If we are to proceed, how would you handle it? Many thanks and wishing you the best!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
All new relationships have fits and starts. There will be gaps in communication, times you’re left wondering if they still care, false cues and confusing moves. Here’s how to keep your calm and maintain the connection (without blowing up the bridge). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The nagging question of self-love leaves many daters feeling defeated. What if we don’t fully love ourselves? Does it exclude us from finding love? Remove the pressure to be perfect and learn how this natural process occurs throughout life (to aid you in all your goals). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Adventure Tube writes, “Hey Susan could you please make a video about bickering and what are your thoughts about it, and how do we deal with our emotions when somebody is so negative and holds onto everything!??” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Ceri writes, “Dear Susan, can you please share some practical methods one can possibly use to stop obsessively thinking about someone? Thank you so much!” Here’s the adjustment you need to get out of the loop of mental obsession and move forward. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The hallmark of self-acceptance and self-love is to be able to stand in front of someone and be completely transparent and open. This is the exact opposite of hot and cold partners. Learn the secret they’re hiding from you to turn the tables on the game. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Emilia Bianco writes, “When you’re getting to know someone, you like them but you’re not yet in love, how do you manage that and avoid hurting them, and how long should it take?” Here’s my answer to your question on personal responsibility and expectations. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We all have insecurities. What may be a minor concern can become magnified as a major issue within a relationship. Here’s how to handle the fears and self-judgment that arise when in partnership, and see yourself in positive and accurate light. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Beauty Means writes, “Thank you Susan. I always benefit from your advice. I have a question: Can a relationship be successful if the partners have different interests and the woman is of much better education than the man?” My answer shows you how to gain balance and focus on the best your mate has to offer. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You know they want you. So why do they pretend they don’t? Learn why your partner’s self-protection gives you false clues, and uncover what they’re really feeling. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We often fail to properly categorize our love interests, especially when a relationship ends. If we assume they were “The One,” we’ll agonize their loss. But, were they? Really? Here’s how to decode your true mate from a prototype, and apply that benefit to your future. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Janet L writes, “Hi Susan, hope you're well. Speaking of break ups, could you do a video on why an ex wants to stay in touch? Is it to keep their options open, someone to talk to, booty calls, something more? (I'm speaking about men wanting this and I'm sure women do too) tx!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Michelle Grenier who writes, “Hi Susan! Can you make a video on tips for online dating for women over 40 or the red flags to spot in men online?” How does one mate and date over 40? Here’s my general advice for both sexes, and my specific answer to Michelle. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Feeling like a non-priority? The goal isn’t to make yourself okay with being treated badly, but to know our rights and speak up. Here’s how to ask the right questions and incentivize the right treatment. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Why does your partner pull away the minute you finally relax? Learn the shocking reason for this dating game and regain your serenity with calm and confidence. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Claire asks, “How does one get over the anger of a failed relationship? I think I’m healing well, then this bubble of anger erupts when I think of him in an unguarded moment. At the end of the day, all he’s actually guilty of is preferring someone else over me. Any advice you can give would be appreciated.“For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Follow My Logic writes, “I’ve heard it said over and over that according to research a woman is ‘more attracted to a man whose feelings are unclear’. Is this true in your experience? Might this be true with women of a certain age, more so than other ages?” Learn why this “appears” to be the case, but isn’t. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Richard Gonzalez asks, “Hi Susan I really love the advice that you give I would appreciate (and I'm sure other viewers of your Channel would too) —your thoughts on how to handle a on-and-off relationship that's been going on for a few months or a few years I would really love your Insight on it.” Learn how to get through (and beyond) what keeps breaking you up. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Bang Bang writes, “What’s the difference between deflectors, the confused and game players?” With all the games that funnel through as bad behavior, here’s the breakdown of the big 3 you need to know. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Tired of being relegated to a ‘limited relationship?’ Here’s what you need to know in order to expand your connection and still show up as ALL that you are. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here’s the key to knowing how to navigate ‘game’ and cut through dating confusion. Learn how to clear out the conflicting voices of those around you, and discover the real truth of what you have with your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When did we contort the meaning of “telling the truth” to equate being vulnerable? Here’s why being direct is a powerful technique for creating of partnership with a foundation of authentic connection. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How concerned should you be if you find your partner looking? How much is normal? Here are the signs that signify ‘looking’ denotes serious interest. This is part 2 of a conversation from my interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our-partner-37315 For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Flowerdiva 18 writes, “Susan, how do we deal with a partner’s ex that hasn’t fully left their life? I'm dealing with this ex that I haven’t met, and she keeps meddling in my boyfriend's life and he doesn't even realize it. I don't want to set ultimatums: it's me of her, but I find it a constant irritant that she’s still manipulating him. Thank you Susan!” Here’s my answer to solving this dilemma. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Lionheart07writes: Do economic differences turn off an older woman from a younger guy? I’m worried that the money issue (or lack thereof) could be a deal breaker. My answer shows you how to make this type of dynamic work in your favor. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Something’s wrong and you know it. Yet, your partner swears ‘all is good.’ They’re growing more distant day by day but claim to have no issues. Here’s what’s really going on, and how to handle this situation. https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Viewer Alexandra asks, “For those of us who want to get a real partner for a real relationship— which are the right steps to achieve this? How do we spot the right man for that, or right woman?”. Learn why the foundation of your relationship is created by the foundation of your thoughts. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Do you want to eliminate your partner’s confusion? You must do what your partner cannot. You must be clear to inspire their awareness. You must be direct to inspire their direct communication. And you must be comfortable to say what you want and need out of the relationship so that they, in turn, can adopt the same level of comfort in sharing their truth with you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Audrah from Paris asks, ”I navigated the beginnings of a rather complex relationship thanks to your advice. Now I'm again in a situation increasingly common in modern dating: that of love triangles where a person appears equally uncommitted to two potential partners while they make up their mind. Surprisingly enough there’s very little out there as far as personal growth coaching on this topic. Can you please make a video about how to deal with this when you genuinely like the person?” Learn the correct way to handle a greedy love that’s too lazy (and entitled) to make a choice between you and another. https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
YouTube viewer Daniel asks, “Please talk about not being able to move on from someone who used you as a rebound, and now they’ve moved on themselves. I just feel stuck and stupid about this situation—waiting around, and wondering if they'll ever comeback.” Here’s how to process this type of breakup in a way that not only allows you to move forward, but helps to restore your confidence in yourself and in love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Telling your children about your age-gap partner needn’t be scary. Here’s my step-by-step formula to address their major areas of concern; your emotional and financial stability. Once these factors have been established, the rest will eventually fall into place. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When your partner pulls away, what’s the right action to take? No generic advice can guide you. BUT, you’ll find the answer in your level of interaction, time together, and depth of honesty. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How do you go from a breakup to a new life with a bright future? By marking your transitions. We can’t have a new beginning if we don’t mark our ending. Here’s how to do it with joy. More from my interview in Moneyish (Dow Jones Media Group). https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dial past confusion and secure the relationship's reins. The clarity you seek starts with you. The partner with the clearest goals controls the relationship. When you’ve given that info to your mate, how do they handle this? That gives you your next move on the game board. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
There’s a lot of confusion surrounding ‘being nice’ and dating. Men often worry that being their best self is a turnoff, and an open invitation for disrespect. Here’s how to secure your power, confidence and desirability while being a person YOU respect. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You want meaningful connection and a love that’s real. But what if you’ve never experienced how that looks or feels? Here’s how to sync up your vision with reality and create the prototype for your unique love experience. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Everyone wants a good review—especially for your role as a dedicated partner. Why has your ex gone Jekyll and Hyde? Becoming cold, vicious, or telling lies to discredit you? Here’s how to handle a spurned ex while retaining your dignity. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’ve been culturally programmed to automatically default to the position of a victim. This serves no one– certainly not those of you seeking love. Here’s the way out of that mental rut, and the tools to redefine your experience for the better. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Time constraints intensify the dating and mating process. How can you effectively date when you’re busy? And, how do you date a busy person? Here are the key components that must be in place for romance to occur, and continue. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you seeking love from someone incapable of giving it to you? Childhood issues can create the need to want to heal our past through our current mate. Here's how to use the power of that inner directive to your best interest. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
For those of you who want a second exploration of a former love, these are the factors that MUST be in place for romantic success to occur. Only then, will you have the composure and distance to create a new dynamic for partnership. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Anyone who’s been dumped feels wounded, betrayed and undesirable. The first logical move is to regain our power and even the scales. Learn when rebound sex works, and when it will fail you. My interview in Babe: Is the best way to get over someone actually getting under someone else?https://babe.net/2017/09/05/babe-investigates-is-the-best-way-to-get-over-someone-to-get-under-someone-else-13076 For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’ve just noticed your partner noticing somebody else. Is this cause for alarm? What should you do? Here’s how to counter your partners wondering eye with acumen and confidence. For more on this topic: My interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our-partner-37315 For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
It’s far too easy to get into a fight via text message. The truncated nature of texting creates too much room for error in your partner’s interpretation (as well as yours). The best way out of a jam is to call your partner. Hearing each other’s voices reconnects you— as you work your way back to understanding each other properly and honest communication. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Partnership requires great communication. Also, picking one’s battles wisely. Here are new techniques for boundary setting and behavior modification that don’t involve directly addressing the issue. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’re always more lax in the beginning stages of a new relationship. We want to engage our partner, rather than appear difficult. We don’t want to be demanding, but we do need to let our mate know if they’ve overstepped their boundaries. Here’s how to do that tactfully. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How can you tell your partner what you need without sounding demanding? What if you’re physically attracted to someone with a horrible personality? In these two viewer questions I explain how to effectively communicate your needs by using incentive rather than by demanding, and how attraction occurs (even when it’s irrational). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How do you handle having a crush on your friend’s partner? And what if two friends are fighting over you (or you’re in competition with your friend over the same person)? These are the viewer questions answered in this video along with detailed analysis on why these things are occurring for you, and to you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Can you trust yourself? This is where the seat of your power lies. People are human, and humans make mistakes. When you trust yourself, you trust your ability to make smart decisions and to be resilient in times of relationship challenges. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When we like someone, we often become self-conscious and question our choice of response. We wonder how to answer a text message, or edit ourselves in a new dating scenario. This leads to confusion and the erosion of our confidence. Here’s what you can do to regain mastery of any unexpected situation. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How can you tell your partner what you need without sounding demanding? What if you’re physically attracted to someone with a horrible personality? In these two viewer questions I explain how to effectively communicate your needs by using incentive rather than by demanding, and how attraction occurs (even when it’s irrational). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When confused, we hesitate to do the obvious; just ASK. We fear confrontation. But mostly, we fear the answer we may receive. Here’s how to get back to natural communication without feeling intrusive or insecure. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
This style of ‘fake fight’ is a variation on a long-standing classic. But this dating game isn’t crafted to create a breakup. It’s designed to keep you in place, through control. The orchestrator of this technique seeks to hook you into a loop of insecurity so that you’ll never leave. Here’s how to turn the tables. Here’s how to discern real love, from the fearful state of insecurity that masks as love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
All breakups hurt, but The ‘Honeymoon Phase Breakup’ is the most emotionally torturous. It occurs when our love is new and our hopes are at their highest. We haven’t had time to see our mate’ s imperfections— so we feel we’re losing ‘the perfect partner.’ Here’s how to offset the pain and recover your emotional stability. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Sex with your ex is common as you uncoil from your relationship. When is it positive, and when is it negative? Here are the signs that show you where you stand and what move you should make for your wellbeing. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How do you know if they’re a hot and cold player, or just a nervous dater? Trust your gut. And decode the signs that clarify if you should walk away or give them another chance. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Desperation and insecurity can ruin any relationship (whether it’s yours, or your partner’s). The desperate lover claims that all of the emotional chaos is due to their overwhelming love. Here’s how to discern real love, from the fearful state of insecurity that masks as love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Singles can often feel an overwhelming sense of guilt; guilt for not being partnered and guilt for not caring to be partnered. Relationships are supposed add quality of life. But what if we already have quality-of-life with our friends and support group? Is that enough? For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
In theory, they’re the perfect partner. They check off every category on our ‘list’. And, we’re everything they’re looking for. Why doesn’t it happen? Here are some of the reasons ‘looking good’ relationships don’t take off. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Is there a way to tell if your mate can make a positive change? Yes. It’s born of consistency and desire. Here’s the way to know for sure if there’s hope for your relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
After breakup, a fight or any kind of hurt your man can quickly go from loving to being cold as ice. We, as women, don’t know how to process this. We begin to wonder what’s real. Did he ever care? Here’s the real story of the male ego in peril and why he shuts down. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Traditional formats oftentimes fail modern couples— but that doesn’t mean you can’t stay together. Before you consider breaking up, brainstorm for creative solutions to preserve what works by reconfiguring your romantic design. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Balancing give-and-take in a relationship can be a tricky thing. Often times, we tend to get into locked roles. The over-giver feels superior and will be resented by the taker. The taker feels disabled and infantilized and resents the giver. Here’s how to get into a balanced flow. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
What should you do when you’ve discovered your partner has cheated? Leaving is a clear choice for many. However, there are other options should you (and your partner) care to salvage your relationship. For more on this topic, check out my feature in Bustle: My Partner Is Cheating On Me — Now What? https://www.bustle.com/p/my-partner-is-cheating-on-me-now-what-50739 For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you obsessing over someone and can’t seem to gain control of your thinking? Here’s how to break free from the loop of obsession and gain forward traction in your life. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Only a heart that’s pure in its intention can open the hardest of hearts. The animal inside of us is constantly aware of agendas and games. The only way to hack into another’s heart is to check your weapons at the gate. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Creating tension is a long-standing dating game that’s been used throughout time to reboot a lover’s interest. It was a key tactic for courtesans to maintain their patron’s interest. Be wise, and learn this game— so that you’ll never be destabilized by a desperate (and fearful) date. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Rather than being afraid to love, the better option is to be a good sifter of which partner is worth the risk. Developing our skill of evaluating our prospective mates’ disposition and core values will eliminate unneeded heartache. Here’s how to do that. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Clarity around what you want is essential for creating a relationship you’ll enjoy. If you don’t take the reins, you’ll have to take what you get. The person with the strongest desire and clearest vision will dominate the relationship. It might as well be you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn the incredible power of playing full out in all your romantic connections. Showing up completely adds value to each partnership, and prepares you for embracing love when your ultimate partner arrives. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here’s how to master a passive aggressive partner who blames you for their bad behavior. My offensive strategy counters their turnaround, and frees you from having to defend yourself against their mistakes. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Differences in personality and lifestyle are exciting in a mate... until the very thing that was a plus becomes a negative. Here’s how to balance those extremes. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The person you’re seeing is pulling away. What you do depends on what you’ve already established with them. New connections are handled differently than established relationships. Here’s your step-by-step guide. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
All mixed messages have one thing in common; confusion. Whether that confusion is real or a game is the part you need to discern. This video shows you how to deconstruct an internal battle from a con to manipulate you for their control. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
In new relationships, we wonder if we’re texting too much or too little. What’s the right amount of contact to make? Here’s how to effectively use texting to increase attraction and create a deeper connection. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Breaking the news of your age-gap love can create tension and fear for both you and your mate. Here’s how to present yourselves as a unified front to garner the respect and understanding you both deserve. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Updating your romantic model of love is essential after a divorce. You’re not the same person as you were in the past. So, your love can’t be built on the same foundation as it was in the past. Here’s how to navigate your way to finding a love that works. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Single doesn’t mean unwanted. Single doesn’t mean lonely. Being single is a complete category with full status and merit that needs no justification or excuse to be made. Here’s how to know your rights and your worth if you find yourself judged by the ignorant. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
No matter how bad your break up, resist the urge to air your grievances on social media. Whatever you write or say will come back to haunt you. Here’s the safe (and classy) way to handle your social media PR after a breakup and retain your dignity and power. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Is someone you’re dating holding you in place, but not letting you advance? Becoming the “place card” is for their convenience, and rarely means your moving closer to partnership. Learn who plays this game, and how to handle them and yourself. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Many an older woman has voiced her fear of ruining her younger man’s life. This form of projection is based on what society has said is the ‘normal transit of one’s life.’ However, age-gap love breaks all barriers to be united with the prefect match (regardless of convention). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Current dating trends are moving beyond hookups and inching their way toward more rewarding formats. Sexual exclusivity (without the relationship title) is answering the STD dilemma, and serves as a gateway option to counterbalance the emotional fallout of our previous dating models. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Red flags are markers we need to heed in dating. Sometimes we ‘imagine’ we see red flags in an effort to protect ourselves. Here’s how to know if what you saw was an off-colored green flag that signaled a partner how deserves a second chance. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Questioning how to handle a dating situation? How do you know what behavior is correct? The best way is to check in with your ‘sandbox rules’ to see what’s right and wrong—you’ll get the correct answer every time. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here are the signs that tell you whether someone has the ability to care (but is hesitant), as opposed to someone who’s unable to care and unwilling to be a true partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Duty dating is a way to kick-start your love life by expanding your options and pushing past your comfort zone. Whether you’ve been too lazy or too fearful, a couple of practice rounds will loosen you up while showing you what you like and want. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We hesitate to share the truth of our feelings for one reason only—fear. Will they reject us? Eliminate neediness and activate your power by using “The Monologue Technique” to communicate your emotions. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The first step to getting off the game board is to realize you’re on it. Freedom to be yourself can never be had while someone else is pulling the strings. No meaningful relationship can be formed with ‘game’ as its foundation. Learn how to set yourself free and turn the tables toward love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The “text message” breakup is a cowardly escape plan that avoids the emotional fallout of having a proper ending. The partner who does this lacks character and kindness. Though you’re hurting now, you’re lucky to be free. Here’s why you’re better off in the long run. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The emotional rollercoaster caused by a lover’s unwanted behavior can be so dramatic that we assume we’re in love. Here’s the difference between ‘needing to win’ control and what we often think is love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn the art of mastering the perfect response to any form of bad behavior when dating. Here’s how to find your unique style to effectively correct and reroute your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Frustrated by the lack of thoughtful behavior in dating? Wondering how to make “no rules” dating work for you? Here’s one rule that must be honored for you to succeed in finding and keeping love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How far apart can the power differences be between you and your mate and still result in a happy, functional relationship? Here are the red flags to look for when entering a partnership, and the adjustments that need to be made in an established relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Too short, but just right? Older than you wanted but the perfect fit? Too thin, too full, too dark, too light… what happens when we find our perfect match in an unexpected package? Here’s how to get past preconceived ideas as to your “perfect” physical package and embrace the love you’ve found. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
New relationships can experience fits and starts. There’s much happening behind the scenes that you won’t know (and your new partner may not be telling you). When something feels off, how can you know if it’s you, or it’s the truth? Here’s how to gauge your instincts and also allow room for human error. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When you know yourself, any decision on dating, sex, or relationships results in an effortless answer. Don’t preoccupy your mind with, “What do they want?” Reverse the order. Trust yourself to be your best advocate and guide to knowing how to achieve love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learning to love is like learning how to drive a car. We need formal instruction and behind-the-wheel training. Here’s how to understand your “manual” and prepare yourself for any type of terrain. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Anyone who’s been on the losing end of a breakup fantasizes about gaining the upper hand over their ex. This can only happen when you’ve taken the time to reinvest in yourself. Newfound confidence is sexy and enticing, especially to your ex. When you’re no longer under their thumb, you’ve gained the upper hand. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The loss of a partner is difficult under normal circumstances. When it’s due to death, the devastation is amplified exponentially. Guilt and fear can keep us frozen in time, afraid to move forward with our lives for fear we’re betraying their memory. Here’s how to mentally justify wanting to date again, and how to be open to the experience of love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Power differences between partners can set the stage for ongoing relationship issues. From insecurity, jealousy and feeling devalued, to feeling a false sense of safety and superiority— trading up too high or down too low in a mate will create internal chaos. Here’s how to get the power structure re-stabilized, and to your favor. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Deal breakers are fluid in new relationships. When we’re really into someone, we’ll overlook things we said we didn’t want in a partner. Yet, when we’re not fully connecting to our mate, a minor infraction becomes a “reason” to exit. Here’s the difference between a valid deal breaker and the perfect excuse to leave a new relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Your new mate’s just given you an excuse that feels lame. Before you spin out of control, pause. Here’s the best way to handle suspecting a lie, while hoping to preserve a new relationship and get to the truth. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’ve got shared attraction and ongoing communication. You’re definitely in the game. But, you’re not getting a solid green light for romance. Here’s how to pivot to a hard YES with your date, or tally up your odds and adjust accordingly. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’ve patched up your relationship. Things are going well. But you’re wondering if the issues of the past are really gone. Here’s how to make the necessary changes you need to make your love last. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Imagined jealousies, irrational fears and trust issues place a heavy burden on the partner whose mate has insecurity issues. Here’s how to manage your participation in your partner’s fears while maintaining peace in your relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Breakups are crushing no matter when they occur. But holiday breakups have a different meaning. It’s a time of reassessment, and a time of honesty. Sometimes that’s the most noble intention your ex is able to offer you. Here’s how to see the holiday breakup in a different light. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
There are times when outer conditions affect our inner sense of dating worthiness. If you’ve experienced a limitation you ‘think’ is an issue, this video holds your prescription for feeling better about yourself in the world of romance and attraction. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’re living in a time period of evolutionary disruption—which including dating. Here’s how to create a better structure for a love that works for you. ‘A La Carte Love’ allows you to be the designer of the type of romantic format that resonates for you For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Why do some people find love easily and for others it’s a struggle? Before you make a snap judgment remember there’s more to the story than meets the eye. Here’s the antidote to feeling blue when you see others partnered. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learning how women think will help you know how to retain a woman’s love and affection. Here’s where some men are making the mistake of forcing nature against itself and creating an unsafe journey for a woman’s heart.For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’re in a relationship, but your partner won’t admit it to you, or the outside world. Nagging, pushing and pleading won’t help. Going in the opposite direction will. Learn the amazing advantage of putting your ego in your back pocket to gain the relationship status you know you already have. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Wondering how to progress to the next step of your mutual attraction? Worried anything you do or say will look desperate and needy? Here’s a perfect solution that’s both confident and alluring. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You sense incredible mutual attraction. You’re certain they’re into you. Yet, they resist making a move, and avoid every opportunity for engagement. Here’s how to bypass their defection and move forward into a meaningful romance. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Though online dating has become ‘the norm’ for meeting prospective mates, it’s frustrating and fueled with problems. Here’s how to benefit from your time spent searching and narrow in on quality partners. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Ever wondered why the partner who took you for granted suddenly becomes interested the moment you walk away? Learning the psychological basis for the dating game of hot cold frees you to make your own moves, independent of reactivity or false hope. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The issue of children is the single greatest handicap facing an older women and her younger partner. This decision needs to be addressed before moving into a serious partnership. Learn the ‘3 types of men’ that have strong opinions on this issue, and determine which one you’re dating (or which man you are). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You could understand being left for an ‘upgrade.’ But why did your ex choose a downgrade? Learn the odd twist on why being too good is intimidating, and causes certain mates to seek comfort in the arms of a lesser partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Wondering if the intimacy you share online can translate into a real-world relationship? What does it mean if your partner’s hesitating to meet face-to-face? Here’s how to navigate the connection you have with your virtual lover. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
If you’ve found online dating frustrating (and wonder if you’re doing something wrong)—it’s not you. The design of this format creates the ‘blind purchase effect.’ Here’s how to work around that flaw, and find dating success. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Age gap courtship is a modern design, but establishing a balanced powerbase begins early. Many older women feel they “should” pay for initial dates, yet fail to realize the long-term repercussions of this otherwise generous act. Here’s how to keep the balance and allow the partnership to flourish. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
For those of you courageous enough to love, I applaud you. Never let anyone diminish this worthy feat of bravery and confidence. Don’t listen to the fearful bystanders and those safely seated in the bleachers. Here’s why you’re a winner of the highest magnitude. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dating can feel like a blur of bad experiences and frustrating outcomes. But the revolving door of romance holds far greater gifts that you’d imagine. This learning curve holds great riches you get to keep, and the promise of love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Long distance relationships are indeed workable, if both partners are working toward a common goal. Here’s the essential element that you both need to have in place in order to make your love affair last. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Personal transformation may initially make us feel separate, but ultimately leads us to greater connection with those around us. Here’s how to incorporate the ‘new you’ into your new dating goals, and flourish in your newfound options and opportunities. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Women have been programmed to believe their desirability is based on youth and beauty. Dating a younger man will test the limits of your confidence. Here’s a more accurate analysis of your worth, as seen through the eyes of your younger man. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The only successful approach to dating a player is to honor the rules of the game. Learn the art of compartmentalization, and remain grounded in the reality of “what is.” Here’s the mindset you need to enjoy your guilty pleasure, and thrive within the construct of this type of liaison. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
They pursued you with texting and online chatting. Why did they cool off? They may have been playing the dating game of ‘window shopping.’ Here’s how to spot the ‘lookers’ from the buyers. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
If you’re exhausted from bad dates, crazy daters, and you’re losing faith in finding love—it’s time for a timeout. Here’s my cure for dating burnout. And,check out my two esteemed colleagues specializing in this life-changing process: Iulia Calota— http://www.iuliacalota.com Aska Kolton— http://www.getreadyforlove.uk For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Does your partner make you feel like you’re not enough? That you’re lacking “something” that’s making him not love you, as you’d like? Chances are it has nothing to do with you. He simply hasn’t awakened to love (in general). Learn how men evolve into their ability to love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
There’s a marked difference between settling in love, and being realistic. Settling acknowledges having options for better choices that we didn’t take. Being realistic takes all existing factors into account and determines the best romantic choice possible. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here’s a complete breakdown of the many forms of jealousy: when it’s a warning sign, when it’s your insecurity, and when your partner is using jealousy to gain control over you. Learn the hallmarks of each type, and how to best handle your situation. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Paying attention to a woman’s sexual cues gives you the ‘green light’ to advance at her pace. If you move too fast, she’ll back peddle and stall. If she moves too fast (to please you) she’ll run away. Master the art of knowing how and when to advance for sustained sexuality and romance. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’ve invested everything you have to give in order to make this relationship work. Yet, all of your love, time, and effort have failed to make it better. Like a degenerate gambler, you’ve lost so much at the gaming table of love that you’re ashamed to walk away. Here’s how to recover your dignity and move forward toward a better future. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Does your partner whine, complain, and act disagreeable when they don’t get their way? Though immature, this is emotional manipulation. Here’s how to establish your boundaries and come to a more agreeable partnership with your mate. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Self-love begins with liking yourself and living your truth. It’s a process of coming into agreement with the choices you’ve made, and standing behind those decisions. Little by little, you’ll find yourself stronger and more confident, as unification takes hold. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Mystified why all your self-awareness hasn’t produced a mate? Evolved individuals often lament not finding love, especially when they’ve done everything possible to become a great partner. Not to worry. There’s one small adjustment to be made in your partner selection process. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
There’s a time in every relationship when we’ll wonder if what we have is the best choice for us. How do we know when good, is good enough? Here are the questions to ask yourself in order to assess your odds. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn the benefit of clear communication in establishing the type relationship you want. Your ‘rules of engagement’ are essential information for pulling in the right partner and eliminating the wrong partners. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Age-gap couples can encounter negative comments. Stunt your critics by having pre-loaded responses worked out in advance. You’ll conquer the ignorant by having these elegant one-liners locked and loaded for a powerful comeback. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
There’s an overwhelming need to “do something” when your ex is seeing someone new. Learn why ‘waiting’ is the action step that works to your favor. Your ex needs to duty date for comparison. You don’t have a foothold until the honeymoon phase is over and everyday irritations occur. Catch your ex on the dating descend, while having used this time to become a better version of yourself. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Becoming the strong version of a nice guy isn’t found in acting like a bad guy. Healthy, high value women don’t want that type of man. Access your power by being decisive, proactive, and having boundaries. Here’s how to win the girl and be the man you both respect. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We’ve been given horrible dating advice. Playing it cool isn’t alluring. Acting disinterested doesn’t ignite a new partner’s affection. Learn the tactic the players use—attraction and interest. They’re masters of this game. Only warmth coaxes a guarded heart to open. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’ve met someone new. They’re great. And, newly single. Are they over their ex? Is their ex over them? Here’s how to tell if your new flame is ready to move forward with you, or if you’re just a temporary fix. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The greatest pain we feel in a breakup comes from the loss of the dream our partner inspired within us. With their entrance to our life, we constructed a vision of our future. Separating the lover from the dream is the quickest way out of heartache and back to emotional freedom. Read more: http://www.susanwinter.net/endings/death-of-a-dream
There are three types of men who can’t (or won’t) love you. Know which one you’re dating and how to handle your next move. You have choices— once you understand the nature of your man’s reasons. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you confused by your partner’s fluctuating emotions? Are you struggling with your own reactivity (to their reactivity)? Learn the 3 distinct phases of love maturity. Here's how to handle your mate and gain the self-mastery you need for a rewarding relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You know you need to leave your partner. But hesitation, guilt, and fear are stopping you from cutting the cord. Learn the ‘best methods’ approach to an artful breakup; one that’s kind, clean and definitive. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Bad breakups with cruel behavior can tempt us to thoughts of revenge. The trick to kick-starting Karma lies in non-interference. This is the magical property that levels the playing field and does for you, what you could never achieve with malice. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Struggling with the fate of your relationship? Here are the questions you need to ask yourself, and the discussion you need to have with your mate. How to evaluate, negotiate, and determine “willingness” will give you your answer. For more information on this topic, read:http://www.susanwinter.net/to-stay-or-leave-for-the-huffington-post/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Dating confidence is an outgrowth of proper partner selection; choosing those who value you and make you a priority. Yearning for an unresponsive partner destroys your inherent confidence and self-esteem. Here’s how to succeed at love and establish a rewarding partnership. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Shift from anxiety to confidence within a matter of minutes by using “The Internal Accountant” technique. This perspective turns the tables on an unresolved breakup fear while putting you back in control of your emotions. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The greatest misconception surrounding this love model is that it’s only a sexual fling. Sex is never just about sex. When taunted by critics, prepare your quips in advance. Here’s how to manage the false assumptions about your love, and set outsiders straight. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The greatest misconception surrounding this love model is that it’s only a sexual fling. Sex is never just about sex. When taunted by critics, prepare your quips in advance. Here’s how to manage the false assumptions about your love, and set outsiders straight. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
The guy you’re dating hasn’t clarified his end-goals and you’re afraid to ask. This dating game keeps you stuck in a loop of auditioning for the role of girlfriend. There's a better way to find love that bypasses the 3-month test drive phase and retains your confidence. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Being too “busy” is a classic brush-off line. Don’t bite the bait. When a partner really cares for you, he or she will make the time to see you. Here’s how to handle this dating game with tact and confidence. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Want your ex back, but hate the pain of waiting and hoping? Wish you could find someone else? This technique shifts the focus and puts you back in control, while keeping the door open to new love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When you suddenly feel the need to defend or justify yourself, it’s a sign that you’ve been lured into a dating game for control. Though originated by the Pick Up Artist (PUA) community, these techniques have made their way to mainstream dating behavior. Decoding these games reinstates your power and confidence. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Happy couples can easily become moody and irritated when they’ve spent too much time together. Learn the delicate balance between sharing time together and spending time apart. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you desperately trying to get over someone you can’t have? Here’s how you locked them into place, and the remedy for moving out of pain and into true freedom. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Why your partner’s shutting down, and what you can do to open them up again. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
When a relationship ends we’re left with the pain of our loss. But we often fail to find our gains. Here’s how to come away with a gift that no one can take from us. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Countless smart, savvy professionals struggle with dating. Why would these confident and competent people ignore the wealth of information they use on a day-to-day basis. Master your dating life by incorporating your professional skills. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You feel drawn to a partner that defies your better thinking; red flags, no future, and insurmountable issues. Yet, a powerful urge pulls you toward them regardless of these barriers. Here’s what’s really happening (and why it may be quite wonderful). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We worry that being ‘nice’ is our downfall in romance. Not so. In love, being nice is one of our greatest assets. Learn how to make your disposition work for you, not against you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Feeling like you just can’t win in the world of dating? Maybe it’s NOT you. Maybe it’s your choice of partner. Here’s how to know if you’re looking at your worth through the distorted mirror of the wrong partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
People who choose to stay in a bad relationship do so for some form of “positive payoff.” Here’s how to know when the gain is worth the compromise, and when it isn’t. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Feeling a shift in your partner’s behavior? A ‘break in the pattern’ signifies a change of priorities. Before you spin into a downward spiral, check these factors first. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Whatever you’ve assumed about dating a younger man is probably inaccurate. Young doesn’t mean naïve and vapid. His emotional intelligence may take you by surprise. What you thought was an easy hookup may become the love of your life. Here’s how to prepare for this incredible journey. For more on this topic: http://www.susanwinter.net/older-women-younger-men/dating-relationships/dating-younger-men-5-things-you-need-to-know/
You may think you know women (because you’ve dated women). But each woman has her own unique variations, likes and preferences. Here’s how to access your woman’s ‘Combination Lock’ emotionally, mentally and physically. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Men often pull away right before they come closer. How you handle this phase directly determines whether he’ll move forward into partnership, or exit for good. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Clarity on your dating goals sets the template for your success. Here’s you step-by-step breakdown to attract the right partner for the relationship you want. For the full article: http://www.susanwinter.net/beginnings/create-your-vision/ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Ghosting an exit strategy used by the weak and cowardly to escape taking responsibility for their actions. Here’s how to see it for what it is, and reclaim your confidence in the process. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you fixated on a specific person? Learn the underpinnings of this mental preoccupation, why we secretly enjoy it, and how to manage the drama it creates. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn how to dismantle your illogical attraction to the “wrong type” of partner, and gain freedom over your romantic choices. Understanding the reason for their hold over you creates the ability to find love and happiness. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here’s what you can do in the ‘thrashing period’ between hope, and a breakup. Master your fears while recovering your confidence with these tools. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn the secret smart women use to incentivize loving behavior from their man. The ‘cookie technique’ is the best catalyst to reboot passion and harmony. Try this 1-week challenge and witness the incredible transformation within your relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Realizing you’re no longer a priority is excruciating. Here are the steps to take that’ll reboot your confidence and create a new desire within your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Your relationship isn’t bad. But, it’s not great. These are the three reasons you’ve made this choice, and why it may be time to review your options for a greater love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Immediate attraction (love at first sight) is a powerful, magnetic force. Is it a sign? Or, could this impulse be deeper than first impressions? Here’s how to tell if what you’re feeling is good for you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
New to dating younger men? Here’s your first step to success. Learn how this simple mental process attracts the right kind of younger man into your life. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Guys, you’re chronically failing to catch us when you have us. Learn the cycle of a woman’s love to know when we peak and when we’ll lose interest. Moving in at the right time is essential for your success. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
New relationships are fragile. Here’s how to establish a common language and joint protocol to secure your partnership’s longevity. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How do you know if the warmth and attention you feel from someone is general to their disposition, or specific to you? Here are 2 factors that reveal when ‘kindness’ is a cover for romantic interest. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn how to master her ‘urgent’ conversation—on your timeframe. Here are 3 steps that avoid a fight while giving you time to regroup. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
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Are you wondering what your new partner wants and needs, but fear asking? What if you look weak or needy? Here are two methods that empower you, while opening the door to the answers you seek. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
What if we don’t know that we’re asking for too little in a mate? Here’s how Life will guide us toward making a change and choosing a better partner for love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
If we don’t tell a new partner what we want before sex, it’s even more difficult to state after sex. Speaking your truth sets a foundation for partnership and eliminates unnecessary heartache, later. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
‘Single by choice’ is a potent and rewarding transit that reconnects us to ourselves and better prepares us for lasting partnership. This powerful vehicle of growth is a valuable option taken by many individuals seeking clarity and transformation. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here are the 3 major reasons why younger men are attracted to (and fall in love with) an older woman. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Bad dates? Crazy partners? Learn why this process is key to finding truelove. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Here’s an elegant way to correct your partner’s bad behavior. Learn how to state the offense in a way that motivates them to want to make a change, for the better. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Can’t shake the feeling you’ve dated this type of person before? Learn how to maximize your partner selection process for greater happiness. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Is your partner baiting you into a fight? Know the markers of this breakup trick and turn the tables. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
This is the number one question plaguing every older woman involved with a younger man. She fears one day he’ll wake up, realize she’s older, and run away. He won’t. Here’s why. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
No one’s allowed to put you on hold just “in case” they may want you in the future. Identify this game and turn the tables. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Want to rekindle the spark with your ex? Here’s the key to reengaging their attention and interest. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Are you dating a strong, independent Alpha female? Here’s how to be a man you respect, while being the high value man she wants and needs. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
A new partner’s swept you up into his or her momentum. You dive in heart first to keep pace, only find them pulling away. What happened? This is the game of ‘too hot, too soon.’ For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Modern dating can train us to expect less, and ask for less. Never amend yourself downward to accommodate your partner’s inability to be more. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Do you feel like your partner has one last door to open before they can fully love you? Here’s the language they’ll use when they’ve hit their max and have nothing more to give. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Decoding Women: Why does she personalize your moods and keep asking, “What’s wrong?” The underlying reason for this behavior reveals how deeply a woman cares about you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
This breakup tactic is the result of a hookup gone wrong; your partner’s developed feelings for you. The preemptive dump is a defensive move. Terrified you might hurt them; your partner dumps you first to avoid the possibility of future pain. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Learn the key to unlocking a woman’s heart with your words. This communication technique activates her attraction to you, and affection for you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
What do they want? Should you respond? Here’s how to tell whether your ex is reevaluating the breakup, or simply testing the waters of communication. Decoding a vague, unexpected text from your ex puts you in command as to whether you want to reply, or not. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You’re having a moment of uncertainty. You want to feel better. But asking this question will make you feel worse. Here’s the best way to regroup, and reclaim your power.
You’re having a moment of uncertainty. You want to feel better. But asking this question will make you feel worse. Here’s the best way to regroup, and reclaim your power. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Do you feel like you've got just enough air to breathe... but not enough oxygen to survive? You're in the ‘Slow Fade.’ This breakup style forces you to be the dumper, while they play the role of dumpee (just as they planned). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Your man's acting detached, silent or distracted. What should you do? Before you start digging for trouble, learn how to approach his mood for the best outcome. Here's an elegant way to manage his mood and find your own relief in the process. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How do you know if the person you're dating is the right choice for long-term happiness? What can you do when the partnership you has become less rewarding? My HuffPost article: http://huff.to/1RPziaj/
Learn how to decode your date's level of emotional stability, before you enter into partnership with her. This simple observational technique will reveal how she processes her world, and how she'll handle you. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We all experience moments of self-doubt. We wrongly assume it's a reflection of lowered confidence. Not so! Here's how those little moments are really working to your benefit. Please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
You've had this argument over and over again. Here's how to break the stalemate and get your partner to work with you. Learn how to enlist your partner to be your ally, rather than your adversary. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
New relationships are fragile. Well-meaning friends can taint your joy with their own fears and worries. Here's why silence is golden (for now). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
We all claim to hate dating games. Yet, we can find ourselves in one without knowing it. Here's the complete breakdown of why games occur and how to reclaim your power. Discover the one move on the game board that breaks this cycle and gets you to real love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Is your partner playing hot and cold? One minute you’re high on the warmth of their attention, the next minute you’re frozen out and left wondering what happened. Knowing the phases and patterns of this game puts you one step ahead of the curve, and back in control. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
How your relationship functions in day-to-day living sets the standard for happiness. Defining how you want your relationship to look, feel, and function sets the stage for ongoing contentment and satisfaction. For more information please visit my website http://www.susanwinter.net/
Getting to love is far easier than we've made it seem. Take a moment to ask this simple question: What do I want? It will set your mental focus to call in the perfect mate for your desires. Clarity is the factor needed to attract the partner of your dreams. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
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