Meg Bolger is a perfect example of facilitation for good, founding and leading multiple organisations focused on promoting DEI and LGBTQ justice, awareness, and allyship.

On top of their incredible work towards facilitating a fairer, kinder world, Meg also has plenty of entrepreneurial spark, being the brains behind the wildly successful and much-loved Facilitator Cards.

Meg is a true facilitation geek.

Our conversation basically became a survival guide for new facilitators and a booster shot for more experienced facilitators. Unmissable.

This episode is part 3 of 3, divided as such because our conversation was simply so expansive and interesting that we spoke for far longer than a normal episode of the show.

In this section, we explore debriefing, time management, and reflective practice. Meg shares some amazing insights into how they complete their own version of a feedback form for themselves, how they time their workshops to keep people’s energy stores high, and how to align a group towards brevity and conciseness for the sake of everyone’s focus.

Find out about:

● The merits and shortcomings of qualifications and certifications in facilitation

● What the common causes of ‘good’ and ‘bad’ facilitation are

● Why a ‘failed’ workshop isn’t always a universal failure

● Meg’s favourite exercises, tools, and DIY fixes to common problems

● How to debrief yourself at the end of a workshop

● How and why to shape your workshops according to the energy levels in the room

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Questions and Answers

[00:54] How do you reflect and give yourself feedback after a session?

[06:48] Which exercises typically run on longer than you’d want them to?

[12:09] How can you diplomatically tell someone they’re taking too long to answer?

[16:55] How do you deal with participants who want to share every idea they generated in a brainstorm?

[21:24] How do you balance that desire for clarity with the need to honour people’s contributions?

[26:49] Discussing the value of experiential educators.

[33:14] Managing our triggers as facilitators and keeping our focus on the group.

[44:55] Do you think we can grow our self-awareness without being open to feedback?

[50:05] Is the inability to deliver fair, honest, constructive feedback endemic across the population?

[55:51] What is the one thing you would like listeners to take away from this episode?

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Links

Meg's Business page
Facilitator self-feedback form
Article on ‘Watching your game tape’
Emergent Facilitation video
Unlocking the Magic of Facilitation
Meg’s facilitator hat (watch the video version of the show on YouTube to understand!)