Most of us have a lot of excuses why our lives are not exactly the way we would like them. We need to slow down our brains to the point that we can recognize the self imposed barriers we have imposed upon ourselves. The more and more we dive into our brains we realize that virtually all barriers are indeed, self imposed! This is so enlightening because this means they are in our control!
- How many of you feel like you are exactly where you want to be in your life?
- I hope there are some but most of us have a tendency to think about wanting more and we think more about all the stuff we don’t have sometimes.
- When this happens our default brains want to take us to excuse land and we start to find evidence that supports these excuses
- Even when we think we are owning why we aren’t living the life of our dreams we immediately follow up those ownership thoughts with an excuse or reason why we think that way
- Our brains really want to justify so that we can feel in alignment with what we believe
- This is a sneaky little trick our brains play on us so that all seems well in brain land
- But what if we slow down and isolate the barriers in our way,
- We start to see that for the most part all barriers in our lives are self imposed. They are the byproduct of the justification and stories we have been telling ourselves our whole lives.
- This sometimes can feel a bit convicting but I want you to understand that this is so enlightening!
- We can actually see the barrier for what it truly is and this gives us total control over the barrier and our lives
- Our destination becomes clear once we remove the self imposed barriers and the clearer the destination becomes the clearer the path to walk becomes.
- You are going to have to walk the path but once it's clear this is much easier than the muddy road.
- If this is a struggle for you right now then come work with me! I’ve got you on this one.