The Love Intervention: Recent Episodes

Kohani

Our thoughts, experience and perspectives on dating, courtship and marriage.

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Even more stories that outline the growth of our relationship over the years. Find out how we made being together literally 24/7 work for us.

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More stories from the early years of our marriage.

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Before and after our wedding we cleaned the church. We had a fight on our honeymoon. We started our first days of living married with a house guest. Watch the episode for what we learned.

Additional music written and produced by Stephan Evans

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This episode includes the cringe worthy of our marriage proposal, our engagement, living together prior to getting married and the lessons we learned through of this.

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In this episode we discuss the importance of taking the time to get to know each other in multiple situations.

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In this episode we discuss what it took for my wife to give me a second chance at love.

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The events and reasons that lead to us breaking up.

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The story of how we started our 22 year relationship.

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This season we will share the growth of our relationship and the lessons we learned along the way.

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We are back!! Listen to this preview of our upcoming episodes entitled "Lesson in Love".

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Intimacy in relationships is vital to their success...but what does it even mean? We Discuss this with our special guests this week:

Akilah Gipson-Saunders @akilahisshe @bodywerkfit & Carse Bailey @bailey_thechosen1

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Our conversation with the Tatums regarding the effects of self esteem on our relationships

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Thanks to our Special Guests: Ron and Ronic Tatum have been married for over 7 (8 this December) Ron serves as Elder and Youth Pastor of Inglewood Southside Christian Church. Ronic is a Board Certified Family Nurse Practitioner.

Follow them: Ronic IG @deltagirl09 Ron IG & Twitter @mrron9

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Upcoming episodes for the month of December. We discuss Self Esteem with the Tatums, Intimacy with Akilah & Carse and finally examine Reasons for Marriage with a host of guests. You don't want to miss any of these.

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Because humans are imperfect, compromise is necessary for successful relationships.

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Forgiveness is an essential building block for successful relationships. Our discussion in this episode provides great insight into this important topic.

Thank you to our special guests: Pastor Michael Saunders- Instagram @MichaelSaundersMinistries Miss Mosi- linktr.ee/missmosi

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Being vulnerable in relationships is scary. However, if we can practice it, our interactions will be much more meaningful.

Thank you to our special guests:

Pastor Michael Saunders- Instagram @MichaelSaundersMinistries

Miss Mosi- linktr.ee/missmosi

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Sibling relationships can provide valuable practice and insight to successful loving relationships.

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This excerpt if from season one of The Love Intervention. Here we consider how our parents help shape the way we love and learn to love.

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Trust is critical to the development of healthy relationships. In this episode we explore various aspects of relational trust.

Thanks to: M.N.N.I. www.flightsquadmusic.com; www.soundcloud.com/mnni417; www.facebook.com/mnni417; www.instagram.com/mnni

Donisha

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Security is defined as....freedom from care, anxiety, or doubt; well-founded confidence. We explore how security impacts the structure of our loving relationships.

Thanks to: M.N.N.I. www.flightsquadmusic.com; www.soundcloud.com/mnni417; www.facebook.com/mnni417; www.instagram.com/mnni

Donisha

Question 1: Have you experienced being supported or being willing to support a romantic partner...and did this lead to a better relationship?

Question 2: In your opinion, is it your job to help your partner feel secure? Why or why not?

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We discuss the idea of togetherness and what that means in romantic relationships with our special guest JaNae Harris

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Take a look at some snippets from the upcoming season. We had some meaningful conversations that we believe will bless you!

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We’re excited to share our new season with you.

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Support leads to trust...trust is key to joyful marriages.

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Marriage is not a contract, it’s a covenant.

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Letting go of unimportant faults from your partner can relieve strain on your marriage.

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Discussion of marital roles as outlined in the book of Ephesians.

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Keeping score of your spouse’s giving can encourage gratitude.

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Moving on from past hurts and disappointments is critical for marriage health

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What the Bible says about marriage is what matters.

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Prayers and scripture to encourage each other.

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There will always be forces attacking your marriage. Work on your the strength of your union and watch your back!

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The words we share with our loved ones is vital to the growth of our relationships.

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We can choose to cover our imperfections together.

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God’s design for sex is the key to joyful marriage relationships.

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Avoid fault finding by focusing on the positive.

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God doesn’t always work things out the way we expect.

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How our relationship with God influences our human relationships.

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Some things that we have learned during our last 20 years of marriage.

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Ideas, tips and strategies to assist couples in maintaining a healthy marriage.

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Some people gave us some good marriage advice. Here’s a few of them.

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Tips and strategies for keeping your relationship strong during the Coronavirus pandemic.

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Tips and strategies to assist with management of children’s conflict during the stay at home directive.

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Wedding planning tips, how to’s, do’s and don’ts.

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In this final premarital counseling themed episode, we discuss what you should consider about sex and sexual relationships.

Article 1 Link - https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/romance-and-sex/understanding-the-deeper-purposes-of-sex/

Article 2 Link - https://applygodsword.com/3-reasons-sex-is-very-important-in-a-christian-marriage/

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Couples that have conflict related to money and finances are not arguing about the money. In this episode we give some suggestions about preparing to have a healthy financial plan for your marriage.

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Article 1 Link -https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/marriage-and-money-what-does-god-expect/

Resource 1 Link -https://www.cliffsnotes.com/study-guides/economics/money-and-banking/functions-of-money

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Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Conflict resolution is vital to making open communication possible. We discuss our experiences with these critical components of any relationship, especially marriage.

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Article 1 Link - https://bible.org/seriespage/5-foundation-five-conflict-resolution-marriage

Resource 1 Link - https://www.gotquestions.org/marriage-conflict.html

Resource 2 Link - https://www.dictionary.com

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Preparing for marriage requires that we consider the influence our family has had on our relationship development.

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Article Link https://www.today.com/news/what-we-can-learn-our-parents-marriages-wbna30832540

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Whether you are planning to get married next week or in the next 10 years, the trading provided through a good premarital counselor is critical to the success of your future marriage.

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Article 1 Link -http://cmr.biola.edu/blog/2016/aug/16/5-benefits-premarital-counseling/

Article 2 Link - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-connected-life/201706/do-you-really-need-premarital-counseling

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It is important to communicate love in a way that people understand it. The 5 Love Languages have provided a framework for many couples to grow their love.

Links: Article 1 Link - https://www.marriagetrac.com/what-are-the-five-love-languages/

Resource 2 Link - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Five_Love_Languages

Resource 3 Link -https://www.marriagetrac.com/relationship-quiz/love-languages-quiz/

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In this episode, we take a closer look at what it feels like to be loved. We contrast what everyday people may call love with the Bible’s definition of Love.

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In this episode, we answer viewer/listener questions about our show.

  1. Why did we start the podcast/show?
  2. How do you feel about the podcast/show?
  3. What do you hope would come from season 1 of the podcast/show?
  4. What do we hope people do after watching or listening to the show?
  5. Is the show only for Christians?

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In this episode we discuss the common beliefs regarding living with someone before marriage. We also examine the possible advantages and disadvantages of cohabitation.

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What is your relationship status? The answer to this question can be...single, in a committed relationship, engaged, married or it's complicated. When do each of these answers apply? That's our discussion for today.

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Let’s talk about sex! So much of what we believe about sex has nothing to do with what God intended. In this episode we explore the common understanding and misunderstandings about how we form feelings regarding sexual relationships.

Article:

https://probe.org/what-god-says-about-sex/

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In this episode we explore loving relationships before and after marriage. We delve into dating, courtship and marriage. We also discuss the types of love that sustain a healthy marriage.

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We can learn valuable lessons about ourselves and how we will relate to people from our friendships. Friendships are the first relationships we can choose to engage in. How we choose these and the interactions that we work through will be valuable to our development.

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Believe it or not, our sibling relationships can have significant impact on our later romantic relationships. Understanding the inherent and developed dynamics between brothers and sisters can assist in developing healthy loving relationships.

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Good or bad, we learn how to love from our parents. As we develop our relationships it is good idea to consider the impressions that our parents have made on us.