NOT HER AGAIN?! She keeps saying I'm not good enough! She wont stop telling me this. She is suppose to be supporting me and encouraging me to be better. When I wake up she tells me this. When I lay down she reminds me of this fact. I keep trying to over come her negativity but I keep hitting a wall. Who is she? It's your own monkey mind.  Learn how to tame the monkeys in your mind and overcome those negative moments.