Purposeful Parenting: Recent Episodes
Harriett
Does your child’s behavior cause you to question your parenting methods? Do you feel like you are pulling your hair out trying to get him under control? You know you want him to stay out of trouble, do well in school and become a successful adult, but each day you wonder if you are doing the right thing? Or, have you just started your parenting journey and you want to get off to a good start and stay on the right track? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then join me, a wife and a mother of 4 grown children, 3 girls and 1 boy, all graduates of the United States Military Academy at West Point. Each week I will share the struggles we encountered raising our children and the principles we followed to overcome them. These biblical principles have helped many parents and, if followed, will help you too. Tune in each Wednesday… I will give you a weekly dose of Purposeful Parenting.
Happy New Year! In this re-broadcast episode, Harriett talks about the most important decision you can make and that you can guide your child towards making.
In this episode, Harriett takes you back through the Gospel of Luke to reflect on two key moments: the angel Gabriel's announcement to Mary that she would bear the Son of God, and the humble yet glorious birth of Jesus in Bethlehem. She invites you to listen with open hearts as she reads these timeless scriptures and remember that holy night that we are celebrating today. Merry Christmas!!!
This episode is designed to bring you and your children together to explore holiday traditions from all over the world. By exploring Christmas traditions from other countries, we can help our children grow up with more understanding, curiosity, and respect for others.
Storytelling is extremely beneficial for children and their development. It nurtures their imagination, language skills and emotional intelligence. This episode then, is for your little ones. Harriett tells a story about a well-known reindeer named Rudolph who learns the true meaning of Christmas.
Are you looking for fun activities to do with your children this Christmas season? In this episode, Harriett shares some ideas that will keep your little ones entertained and excited for Christmas even more than what they already are.
In this episode, Harriett shares a heartwarming story that your little ones will love as the forest animals teach them about Thanksgiving, hope, and gratitude.
Do you know that Sarah Josepha Hale is known as the "Mother of Thanksgiving"? In this episode, Harriett tells you about Sarah Josepha Hale. She also shares other fun-facts about Thanksgiving that you can share with your kids around your Thanksgiving table.
Gratitude is more than just saying, "Thank You." In this episode, Harriett talks about what gratitude is, why it is important and how you can foster gratitude in your children.
The holiday season is a perfect time to teach your child gratitude by using crafts and other activities. In this episode, Harriett shares 25 crafts and activities that your child can do and have fun while learning about gratitude.
Do you celebrate Halloween? Have you told your child what Halloween is all about? In this episode, Harriett shares a story that may help you decide if you want to celebrate or continue to celebrate Halloween the way the world does.
Children are observant beings. They watch what you do and will repeat it...action by action. In this episode Harriett talks about observational learning and shares a short story that shows just how closely children watch and learn from you.
Love is an emotion; but have you ever thought about it as a character trait? In this episode, Harriett talks about love as a character trait and a character strength. She tells you how to teach your children love.
There are four character traits that parents should know in order to raise children with a strong moral foundation. In this episode, Harriett tells you what these traits are and how parents should deal with them.
Usually when we think of character, we think of individuals. But did you ever think about families having character? In this episode, Harriett talks about families of good character and why they are important.
Are you dealing with a strong-willed child? Are you wondering if your child is strong-willed or just out right rebellious? If you answered yes to either of these questions, you might want to read the book that Harriett reviews in this episode, You Can't Make Me (But I Can Be Persuaded) by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias.
Do you have a child with an intense desire to assert control over his/her environment and make his/her own decisions? If so, you are probably dealing with a strong-willed child. In this episode Harriett talks about the characteristics of a strong-willed child, challenges they pose, the positive potential and strategies for nurturing strong-willed children.
In this episode, Harriett covers the principles that we can learn from the parable of The Prodigal Son.
Parenting is very challenging and rewarding. Unfortunately, there are times when we may find ourselves navigating the turbulent waters of raising a difficult child. In this episode, Harriett shares a biblical story of a child's return to grace. It is a message about faith in God's ability to work in the hearts of our children and faith in the power of prayer.
Harriett ends the summer of rebroadcasting with the episode entitled, The Last Time.
In parenting there are so many "last times", and with them come many emotions. For some of you, this may be the last time you have a child at home. Whatever "last time" you are experiencing, Harriett encourages you to cherish each "last time" and hold them close to your heart. I've enjoyed revisiting some of the podcasts, I hope you have too. I hope you had a great summer and that you continued to "Parent on Purpose".
How often do we have to be reminded to watch what we say and how we say it? Words hurt and this rebroadcast reminds us that the nursery rhyme, "Sticks and Stones", is not true. Words can hurt or encourage, and they can be lasting. This is a podcast worth revisiting.
This is a rebroadcast to remind you to remember to "Lighten Up". In this episode Harriett tells you to look for the laughable moments as you parent. Parenting is serious business, but it also provides laughter that must be remembered when times get tough.
Mothers cannot be reminded enough to remember to make time to take care of themselves. In this episode Harriett talks about why self-care is important and encourages you to do it. This rebroadcast is another reminder.
Summer can be viewed as a time to loosen up so to speak. Unfortunately, the tendency to loosen up on parenting can also happen. This can lead to passive parenting if one is not careful. What better time to rebroadcast this episode, Hazards of Passive Parenting. Harriett tells you how to recognize the signs of passive parenting and gives you the proactive steps you need to take in order to avoid becoming a passive parent.
Who rules the world? This episode is worth rebroadcasting in order to either remind you of the answer or for you to learn it for the first time. Harriett learned the answer from William Ross Wallace and she shares it with you in this episode
Summer is a great time to remind moms of everything they do. In this episode, Harriett tells you, "You change the world with every child you raise." This is definitely a podcast worth rebroadcasting.
Harriett chose this episode as a rebroadcast because there is nothing more important than praying for your child. Furthermore, there is no better pattern to use than the one Jesus prayed for His disciples. This episode is certainly worth hearing again and again and again!
Harriett continues rebroadcasting for the summer as she talks about trust. In this episode Harriett tells parents that they must earn their child's trust. She also emphasizes the qualities that contribute to building and sustaining your child's trust.
In continuing with the "summer rebroadcast" theme, Harriett shares what she learned to do when she had, "one of those days." See what she has to say in this episode, "Real Talk."
It's summer and with everything going on, this is a good time to rebroadcast some of the earlier episodes that you may or may not have heard. In this episode, which aired in August 2020; Harriett tells you what Purposeful Parenting is and talks about the ONE source that contains all the principles needed to help you "Parent on Purpose."
Happy Father's Day to you fathers. In this episode, Harriett's husband Dennis, shares some practical parenting advice. The three points he shares are truths that will help fathers "Parent on purpose."
What are you made of? How do you respond to the challenges of life? How would your children respond? How would you want them to respond? In this episode, Harriett tells you how to prepare your child to respond when "life bumps" into him/her. She does this by sharing an analogy with you and asking you, "What's in your cup?"
"One's character is dependent on his/her ability to be transparent and unwilling to bend the truth." In this episode Harriett talks about why children lie and what parents can do to stop it at an early age.
In this episode, Harriett talks about your parental authority, where it comes from and what to do to make sure you do not relinquish it.
Harriett's husband, Dennis interviews her in this milestone episode.... EP 200. Find out how Purposeful Parenting came about as well as some other things about Harriett, the person behind the podcast.
In this episode, Harriett talks about man's law and God's law. She tells you why it's important to teach your children God's law and why God's law is THE LAW.
In this episode, Harriett gives a review of a book on Menopause. She highly recommends it as it delves into the physical, emotional and societal aspects of an often thought of taboo subject.
Compassion is more than sympathizing with those who are suffering, it includes helping when you can. In this episode, Harriett shares a story that you can share with your children in teaching them compassion. More often than not, we don't see it, but compassion often goes full circle, as seen in this story, "What Goes Around" (author unknown).
Are you parenting together? Are you unified in your parenting approach? If not, there are dangers ahead. In this episode, Harriett shares what one of her listeners is going through and the challenges it has caused simply because they are not on the same sheet of "parenting music".
Throughout life your children are going to have to make choices. It's up to you to teach them choice making skills. In this episode, Harriett covers decision making principles for teaching your children how to make wise choices.
Unfortunately, in today's world, we hear about mass shootings and other traumatic events all too often. Needless to say, you play a crucial role in helping your children navigate through these events. In this episode, Harriett gives you ways to help your child through traumatic events.
Just like your children need to know the real meaning of Christmas, they need to know what Easter is really about. You must teach them.
Harriett concludes this series, Teach Your Child To Guard His/her Thoughts . In this episode she tells you how to help your child RECOGNIZE, REJECT, and REPLACE negative thoughts.
In this episode, Harriett tells you the things you should teach your children to think about in order to remove negative, destructive thoughts.
The mind is the most intricate and baffling computer ever conceived. It programs you for success or failure. Proverbs 23:7 tells us, "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." In this episode, Harriett gives you specific reasons why you should teach your children to guard their thoughts.
Love has the ability to withstand the tests and challenges of time, making it a foundational and reliable force in relationships. In this episode, Harriett tells you what to do and not do to teach your children the true love.
In this episode, Harriett shares with you the love you want to model for your children.
Electronic Devices have become an everyday part of our lives. They can benefit children but must be used in moderation. In this episode, Harriett gives you some of the pros and cons of electronic devices and stresses the use of moderation.
In this episode Harriett encourages you to celebrate milestones as your child works towards his/her goals. She also covers the long-term impact of goal setting and gives you a workable plan that you can use to help establish a goal setting routine.
In this episode Harriett gives you strategies to use to support your child as he/she works towards reaching his/her goals.
Your Child can set awesome, achievable goals by being SMART. In this episode Harriett tells you how.
Did you know that goal setting plays a role in your child's development? In this episode, Harriett tells you why.
Have you ever looked at life as being like the seasons of the year? In this episode, Harriett wants you to think about the season of life that you are in. She encourages you to live it to the fullest because "winter" will be here before you know it.
In this episode Harriett talks to her oldest grandson, Colin. What he says about freedom just might surprise you.
In this episode Harriett completes the lighting of the Advent Wreath by sharing the last three candles. She also encourages you to make an important decision if you haven't done so already. This decision is the most important one you will make.
Eliminate stress and strain that so many feel during this time of year. In this episode Harriett continues to light the Advent Candle with you and your children. Today we light the second candle...the Peace or Bethlehem Candle.
Christmas season is a great time to start family traditions. In this episode, Harriett shares some of her family traditions and then she tells you one that she highly recommends that you should do if you don't do it already. The goal of this special tradition is to help your child learn and stay focused on the true meaning of Christmas.
The book "The Working Mother's Guide to Sanity" by Elsa Houtz is an indispensable resource for mothers. It is geared towards mothers working outside of the home. However, according to Harriett, whether you work inside or outside of the home, this is a must read for mothers.
Have your ever drank from a saucer or seen someone do it? Harriett has, and in this episode, she shares with you a poem that reminds her of her childhood and how her parents drank from a saucer and what it meant according to John Paul Moore the author of the poem, "Drinking From My Saucer."
Teaching children gratitude is an important aspect of their social and emotional development. In this episode, Harriett gives you strategies that you can use to teach your child the abstract concept of gratitude.
There are benefits when you practice gratitude. Gratitude helps your child's overall well-being when he/she practices it. Harriett covers some of these benefits in this episode of Purposeful Parenting.
Increasing your child's Emotional Intelligence is crucial for his/her overall development and success. In this episode, Harriett covers why your child's Emotional Intelligence is essential for his/her development and she tells you ways to increase Emotional Intelligence.
Your child's emotional intelligence depends on you! Dealing with ones emotions can increase or limit success. In this episode, learn about emotional intelligence, an extremely important skill that your child needs for personal and professional success.
Ep 170: Do you have tendencies to be a "Passive Parent"? Passive Parenting can have profound negative effects on a child's development and well-being. In this episode, Harriett tells you how to recognize the signs of passive parenting and the proactive steps you need to take to avoid becoming a passive parent.
Do you ever wonder if you are praying the right things for your children? If so, this episode is for you. Harriett gives you a pattern to use based on how Jesus prayed for His disciples.
Suffering will happen and it is up to you to teach your child to suffer. In this episode, Harriett shares with you what she is experiencing in the area of suffering and reminds you that your child learns from your suffering and, "What your child believes before suffering is critical to help them when suffering comes."
Do you know that your child is like an arrow? In this episode, Harriett tells you how they are alike. She explains how knowing this comparison, can help you "Parent on Purpose".
In this episode, Harriett reviews a book, Mama Bear Apologetics by Hillary Morgan Ferrer. With Harriett's insights from the book (and a little AI), you can see why this book is a must read and a must study in order to help your child defend his/her doctrine on faith and to stand firm when challenged.
Is the word "rod" in Proverbs 13:24 a concern or challenge for you? In this episode, Harriett shares something she read by Chuck Swindoll that explains Proverbs 13:24 beautifully and more importantly, biblically.
You are a Consultant whether you want to be or not. In this episode, Harriett tells you why.
Indifference and noninterference are never good, especially when parenting. In this episode, Harriett covers the last of the 3 ineffective parenting styles.
While discipline is important, an overly authoritarian approach can stifle a child in more ways than one. In this episode, Harriett describes this ineffective way of parenting.
In this episode Harriett tells you why being a "helicopter parent" is ineffective and has many fallacies.
Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to get your child to take responsibility for anything? And, do you wonder what you can do to change his/her behavior? In this episode Harriett covers some points that can help put you on the right track.
Who rules the world? It may shock you to learn the answer. William Ross Wallace answers the question and Harriett shares it with you in this episode.
Learning is not a one-way street. In this episode, Harriett tells you, what you, the parent, can learn from your child.
When Harriett was raising her children, the book by Anne Ortlund, "Children Are Wet Cement", was one that she read several times. With her memory of the book (and help of AI), Harriett pulls together a book review that she hopes will encourage you to read the book that is, if you have not already done so.
The teenage years (13-18) are characterized by increased independence, identity formation and exploration of adult responsibilities. In this episode, Harriett talks about how parents must strike a balance between support, autonomy, and open communication.
Pre-teens are navigating between childhood and adolescence. Various emotions and challenges require patience, understanding, and responsiveness from parents in order to guide the pre-teen successfully through this stage. In this episode, Harriett covers some of the key aspects to effectively parent your child through this stage of development.
Do you know what happens when football players are asked to follow toddlers around? Harriett tells you about it in this episode.
Guiding an infant from 0 to 12 months is an important and rewarding journey for parents. In this episode, Harriett takes you through a few of the highlights.
When do you think parenting starts? In this episode Harriett tells you when she believes parenting begins.
In this episode, Harriett introduces a series...Understanding Children's Developmental Needs. By understanding the unique needs of each stage, parents can support, guide and nurture their children appropriately.
How is your commitment skill? In this episode Harriett gives you ways to instill the value of commitment in your children.
In this episode, Harriett does a book review on Gavin De Becker's book,"Protecting The Gift: A Profound Guide to Personal Safety And Empowerment. De Becker"s approach to child protection is both enlightening and empowering. It is a valuable resource and goes beyond traditional personal safety guides. A must read and study!
Genuine affirmation is an essential ingredient in child development. Poor grammar but true statement was just what a little girl needed. Harriett tells you why the housekeeper's poor grammar gave a little girl the sense of self that she desperately needed.
Moms, you do more than you give yourself credit for. You change the world with every child you raise! Harriett explains how in this episode.
Have you ever thought about being a Mother to yourself? In this episode Harriett tells you why you should think about it AND do it.
Can you relate to this? Do you want to slow down? As you listen to this episode, Harriett wants you to assess where you are and if you need to slow down. Perhaps you need to say, "Slow Me Down Lord."
Be Honestly Honest with your child at all times. In this episode, Harriett reminds you that you are your child's teacher in all things and why being Honestly Honest is important.
What? More Than Eggs and Bunnies? Just what does that mean? Harriett tells you the answer and more in this episode.
What does See, Understand, Commit, Communicate, Exemplify, Seek, Spend "spell"? Harriett gives you the answer in this episode.
Remember the nursery rhyme, "Stick and Stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me?" This was usually said to stop name calling and other verbal bullying. However, it is false! Words do hurt and can cause lasting damage. Harriett tells you more in this episode.
How do you measure up in the love department? After this episode, take a look at the eleven qualities of love and see where you are strong and where you are weak. You'll be glad you did.
Love this way, NOT the way the world says to love. Harriett tells you the difference in this episode.
How do you love your children? In this episode Harriett tells you how you should love your children.
What makes the world go round? What does the world need now? If you don't have this, you are, "...only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal" what is it? In this episode Harriett tells you the answer to each of these questions.
Parenting is serious business but you have to take time to "Lighten Up." In this episode, Harriett shares with you things that you have probably experienced as parents that are "lighten up" moments. Recognize these moments, laugh at them and even cherish them. But, always Parent on Purpose.
You cannot touch this, but you can feel the sweetness that it pours into everything. You need it, your children need it and without it you would not be happy. Find out what it is in this episode.
In this episode Harriett shows you how to make deposits and why they pay off. She also tells you why you should forgo the withdrawals.
Do you like challenges? Are you up for one? In this episode, Harriett gives you a challenge that could change your life...if you let it.
Teach your child how to live disciplined and successful lives by teaching them these 5 things.
There's a special book for you! In this episode, Harriett tells you the name of the book and how it can help you gain wisdom and "Parent On Purpose."
Looking for a special recipe? Harriett has one for you that is bound to be a hit in your family. You will love it too. Remember to serve it fresh everyday.
In this episode, Harriett tells you why being "stuck in the mud" might be a good thing.
Christmas is all about Jesus. The Christmas story is a story to be told year-round. However, hearing it as we prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus and light the last Advent Candle, is especially touching, amazing and awe-inspiring. Gather around as Harriett shares the story, The Birth of Jesus, as told in the Gospel of Luke.
There's a formula for peace. In this episode, Harriett talks about the Third Advent Candle and gives you the formula for a special peace.
During this time when depression and despair can run rampant, focus on the JOY that no one can take from you. In this episode, Harriett tells you how to go from momentary happiness to a JOY that continues regardless of your situation.
Do you know the meaning of the Christmas Wreath? In this episode Harriett tells you the meaning of the wreath and how it's related to "A Love Worth Giving."
Christmas is coming! Do you want to eliminate stress that usually goes along with preparing for Christmas? In Part I of this 4-part series, Harriett tells you how to prepareand enjoy Christmas. Make it a "No Stress Christmas."
In this episode Harriett shares with you a memory that her daughter Kirsten reminded her of and how this memory helped her through a sad time.
As your children grow up they start to do things for themselves. In fact, some get upset if you try to help them do something they know how to do. Think about it, if your child is older, when was the last time you helped him put his coat on? When was the last time you had to tie his shoe? So many last times! Harriett reminds you of some of them in this episode and why you should be aware of them.
King David shows us how God leads His sheep in the right direction throughout life. In this episode, Harriett shares The Good Shepherd's Blueprint. It's a must have for parents.
Have you ever compared parents to shepherds and children to sheep? Check out the comparison in this episode. Think...protect, provide, guide.
Do you know that you have access to a "life-giving" fountain? Well you do! Find out in this episode what it is and how you control it.
You know you love your child. But, how do you love him/her? In this episode Harriett gives you 10 ways to love your child that you may or may not have consisdered.
People have asked me, "How did you get your children to where they are now?" In this episode Harriett gives 3 things that she considers important that she and Dennis did when raising their children.
Are you skeptical of promises? Have you been hurt by having promises broken over and over again?Take heart! There are some promises that will never disappoint. In this episode Harriett tells you about these promises and the importance of teaching them to your children.
In this episode Harriett answers the question, "How Do I Seek God's Guidance and hear from Him? She gives you 7 Steps to take in seeking guidance and hearing from God.
There is one person who knows you intimately and He wants a relationship with you. He wants you to communicate with Him in an open and honest way. This is a NEEDED relationship! In this episode, Harriett tells you more about how much He knows about you and why this is the most important relationship you will ever have.
Someone important wants to speak to you. Are you listening? Are you ready to listen? In this episode, Harriett tells you how to hear from the most important person in your life? Are you listening?
Have you wondered if God is communicating with you? In this episode, Harriett shares some of her experiences and how God made Himself known to her.
Today's world is challenging and downright frightening at times. Where do you go to find peace? Who do you talk to? Harriett answers these questions in this episode.
This nation was born out of faith in God. Freedom will only continue if that faith remains forthright and strong. Our nation is declining because it has removed God from His rightful place. In this episode, Harriett reminds you that you, as parents, play a major role in restoring the faith.
Man shall not live by bread alone! In this episode Harriett tells you what you need to do to nourish your whole mind, body and soul. She tells you how and why you need to do this and why you need to teach it to your children.
We all tend to worry about something. How you handle worry makes a difference. Why? Because your children learn from you. They see how you handle worry and that becomes their way of handling it too. In this episode, Harriett tells you how to go "Beyond Worry."
Who is Christ to you? In these challenging times you need to know the answer. In this episode, Harriett shares who Christ is to many and who He is to her.
In this episode Harriett talks with you about the importance of being prepared and what you can do to prepare for what's coming. She stresses the fact that you are not to be afraid because God shields us and "under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness will be your shield and rampart." ~ Psalm 91:4
Do you realize that you are not worth anything if you are not in the right place? In this episode, Harriett tells you exactly what this means and how it applies to your children.
In this episode Harriett gives the danger signals of family disintegration. Find out the signs and symptoms and how to avoid and/or cure it.
In today's world, it is more important than ever to live confidently and it starts in the home. Your home should be a place were tenderness is ever present and a place that is safe from ridicule.
Your walk, your talk, your actions are all teaching your child something. Check yourself and make sure your children are learning the right things from what you say, do, and the places you go.
"Make no mistake, favoritism has a damaging effect on the whole family." ~ Chuck Swindoll
In this episode, Harriett talks about the damaging effects of favoritism. She will also cover "Signs of Favoritism."
Do you know if you speak "Weasel" to you child? Find out if you do and if so, why you should stop and how to stop.
In this episode, 11 year old Piper gives valuable insight into what parents need to consider when communicating with and when disciplining their children.
Harriett spends time talking to their oldest granddaughter. Listen to what Brynn has to say about parenting.
In this episode Harriett talks about "Cutting The Devices" in order to build a strong family foundation.
Do you want to know how you can REALLY relax. Actually, it is possible for you to relax like you never have before. If you are not sure how, listen to this... Harriett tells you how-to in this episode.
Families are being attacked and there are a multitude of reasons to worry about your children. Yes, the world has gone crazy, but you can relax. In this episode Harriett tells you how and where to relax.
Trust, a key ingredient in building a strong family foundation can be broken unknowingly. In this episode, Harriett tells you how you can unknowingly break your child's trust in you. She also tells you how to build your trust with your children.
Communication is vital in building a strong family foundation. "To change the world is to change the family" and move both in the direction that God wants them to go. In this episode, Harriett shares a few Bible verses that are vital in establishing the communication that God wants families to have.
Did you know that "The circumstances amid which you live determine your reputation but, the truth you believe determines your character"? The same goes for your family. A strong family foundation is the making of strong family character.
In this episode, Harriett tells you a story about 2 men building their home and how their as to where to build made a difference with the outcome of their homes.
The word "Family" stirs up different emotions in people. All families will experience times of love and happiness, pain and frustration. Strong families however, weather the storms of pain and frustration and the images that come to mind are of love and happiness, not of the pain and frustration they went through. In this episode, Harriett introduces the series on Characteristics of Strong Families.
In this episode Harriett talks about being a positive parent and gives you ways to "catch" this "parental contagion".
Do you know the characteristics of true love? It is the vital ingredient in all relationships and must be demonstrated. In this episode, Harriett gives the key to demonstrating true love.
How does your child know that you love him? Have you ever asked him? What would your child say love is? In this episode Harriett talks about ways that children learn that they are loved. She also shares some things children, to include her grandchildren, have said about love.
In this episode Harriett tells a true story about a young boy who was excited to give, did not receive but was thrilled to say, "Not A One". This story is a life lesson that is important for children to learn.
Valentine's Day, a day to emphasize love! It is also a perfect time to teach your child key concepts about love. In this episode Harriett gives you ways to get the concepts of empathy, kindness, and unconditional love, across to your child.
Our children learn from us. If we do certain things, our children will respond in a fairly predictable manner. If is, "a word to introduce a possible or unreal situation or condition." In this episode, Harriett gives you "ifs" to do and "ifs" not to do.
Practicing "Self-Care" does not mean you are choosing yourself over others. "Self-Care" means that you are aware of your own needs. Harriett recommends taking a big dose of "Self-Care" to maintain your strength and energy level in order to care for your family. Find out what she has to say about the importance of "Self-Care" in this episode of Purposeful Parenting.
You probably made New Year's Resolutions, right? There is one Resolution/Decision that is a must. Harriett tells you what it is in this episode.
Did you know that children, just like adults, can experience Holiday Let-Down, or what is also known as Post Holiday Blahs/Depression? In this episode, Harriett tells you how to recognize it and how to avoid it and/or treat it.
Teach your children as you usher in 2022. In this episode, Harriett gives you some ideas as to how you can celebrate the New Year with your children.
What's the first word that comes to your mind when you think about Christmas? In this episode Harriett tells you what that word is and why. Merry Christmas!
Current events may be causing added stress. However, we can have a wonderful Christmas if we remember what Christmas is about. The book, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry is a perfect reminder that love ALWAYS carries the day. Harriett encourages you to share this story with your children so that they will learn the true meaning of gifting and receiving.
What 7 words make you think of Christmas, the REAL meaning of Christmas? In this episode, Harriett takes you back thousands of years to tell you about the 7 Words of Christmas that Robert Morris covers in his book, Seven Words of Christmas. These words are indeed the heart of Christmas.
In this episode Harriett tells the story about Love coming to earth. The poem, "Oh, Mary, How Could You," by Greta Zwaan, tells how the life of an engaged couple played a role in Christmas.
Are you ready to count your blessings? No matter what you are going through, there is always something to be thankful for. In this episode, Harriett shares a Thanksgiving story that shows how a little help from someone can get another to think differently about themselves and others. This is a perfect Thanksgiving story to share with your children. Happy Thanksgiving!
It is important to teach your child gratitude. In this episode Harriett tells you why it is important, how to teach your child gratitude and why "gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul." ~ Henry Ward Beecher
You have boundaries and others may challenge them. It is up to you to communicate and follow through with your boundaries so that your child can learn how to set healthy boundaries and how he/she should respond when others infringe upon his/her boundaries.
Harriett's experience growing peppermint showed her how peppermint without boundaries reinforces the need for children to have boundaries, and the right kind of boundaries.
Even peppermint needs boundaries. In this episode, Harriett tells you about her challenge with growing peppermint and relates it to you and your child. She reminds you that your child is a force that God has put on this earth and you hold his/her destiny in your hand.
Remember the phrase, "Little girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice"? And this, "Little boys are made of frogs and snails and puppy dog tails." In this episode Harriett shares 2 poems by Alan Beck that captures the real differences between a little boy and a little girl. As you listen to both poems, she ask you to "dream" along and remember things that your child has done. They are perfect poems to remind you of the wonders that God created when He gave your child/children to you and how He created them so that they are able to put smiles on your face and laughter in your heart.
Things in today's world can be scary, uncertain and very stressful. Sometimes as parents we forget that our children are watching how we deal with the world around us. But we must always parent on purpose.In this episode, Harriett shares a story that demonstrates how to do this.
Samson's parents knew exactly what Samson was born to do, and they taught and guided him in that direction. Samson seemed unconcerned about God's objective for his life but despite Samson's failings, God used him anyway. In this episode, Harriett tells you things that can block your child's calling.
In this episode, Harriett tells a story about a son, born to be a hero, raised to be a hero, but fell short of what he could have done. Why? What's missing? Listen to the story and you'll see. Ponder Ephesians 5:17, "Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is."
We know there are shelters for different emergencies. But, is there A Perfect Shelter? Harriett says there is. In this episode, she tells you about The Perfect Shelter. She also gives you a 21 Day Challenge that will help you, help yourself and your child during these troubled times.
In this episode Harriett shares some of the feelings she has experienced during these days filled with turmoil throughout the world and especially in the United States. She gives things to remember during these trying times and she tells us about Someone Special who walks with mothers and how to remind yourself of this so that you can Parent On Purpose.
Fear is a big part of our experiences and it can be a gift or a curse. In this episode, Harriett talks about how to help your child handle fear so that it can be a gift. She also recommends books that can help you help your child. And, as always, she shares some of her favorite verses that help her face fearful times.
What do you do when you wake up to a world that you don't recognize? What do you do when everything seems out of control? In this episode, Harriett talks about "A World Gone Wild" and how you navigate it and comfort your family.
Are you a Mother that God delights in? Find out if you are in the episode. In this episode Harriett tells you how to be a Mother that God delights in.
God's Wisdom is needed in every mother's life, and He wants you to have this Wisdom. There are however, things you must do. In this episode, Harriett covers 6 things that you need to do so that God can teach you to walk in His Word and gain His Wisdom.
This is Part II of the series on Wisdom...the most important ingredient needed in Purposeful Parenting. In this episode Harriett tells you about God's wisdom with children and how you and your children reap lasting benefits when "God's wisdom is whispered into hearts."
Do you want to know what the main ingredient in Purposeful Parenting is? If so, you will want to listen to this 4 part series during the month of August. After reading Jack Countryman's book of verses, God's Wisdom For Mothers, Harriett was led to share the importance of being a mother with this ingredient. She explains the importance of it, how to obtain it and why it is the main ingredient in Purposeful Parenting.
August is the first year anniversary for Purposeful Parenting Podcast. This makes it the perfect time for a series of podcasts on God's Wisdom for Mothers. You'll want to listen because, "God's wisdom whispers into a mother's heart."
In this episode, two of Harriett's daughters discuss how they view Birth Order based on their place in the family. There are interesting revelations as Harriett, Allison and Kirsten talk Birth Order.
What is the most important thing your child should memorize and then Hide? God's Word encourages us to raise children in the way they should go and when they are old, they will not depart from it (Proverbs 22:6 ). The answer to the question then is, God's Word. In this episode, Harriett tells you why this is important and gives you ways to help your child "Memorize and Hide".
Harriett's youngest daughter joins her on this episode. Hear how Kirsten, the third child of 4 children and the 3rd daughter viewed growing up in the Rowe household. Kirsten covers the role her parents played in her activities, school work, and how she viewed discipline. She also shares how she and her husband Scott are bringing up their son Trey to learn to trust Jesus as his Lord and Savior.
Do you listen to your child? Do your REALLY listen? In this episode, Harriett talks about actively listening to your child. She tells you what actively listening is, why it is important and just how to actively listen.
This episode covers the last 3 parts of the Armor of God...The Shield of Faith, The Helmet of Salvation and The Sword of the Spirit. Harriett discuss the importance of each of these and gives ways to make use of them in order to recognize and fight against false teachers.
The armor of God is our spiritual defense needed to fight against false teachers. In this episode, Harriett covers the first 3 pieces of armor...1) The Belt Of Truth, 2) The Breastplate Of Righteousness and 3) Feet Fitted With The Gospel Of Peace.She stresses the importance of this armor as parents protect their children from false teachings.
Parents, there are things going on in the world today that you MUST be aware of and you must make sure your child does not become a victim. In the episode today, Harriett talks about these things that go against what God says. The more you know, the better you can, "Parent On Purpose."
Does your family eat meals together or does each family member run in and grab something to eat at different times because of your busy schedules? If so, Harriett gives suggestions as to steps to take to start eating at least one meal as a family. She also covers the many benefits from eating family meals.
It is important to sit down and have family meals together. Blessings are verbalized, revelations take place and memories are made and remembered at "The Table."
Children raised by single parents can be just as happy and mentally strong as children living with two parents. In this episode, Harriett covers key points that lead to positive single parenting, and what is needed to build strong relationships in a single family home.
In this second episode for single parents, Harriett reminds you that God knows where you are in life and that He has a plan for you and your children. She walks you through the first step in your relationship with God. She covers the importance of praising God in every situation, showing how praise brings about a change in your attitude which allows you to show true gratitude. She stresses that this is for people in general, not just parents.
In this episode, Harriett begins a series on Single Parenting. She wants single parents to know and understand that God's directives for raising their children are the same for 2 parent families. And that, "Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears BUT also twice the hugs, twice the love and twice the pride." ~ Unknown
Love is not just an emotion or a thought, it must be demonstrated. In this episode, Harriett shows how to demonstrate love to your child as described by Apostle Paul in
1 Corinthians 13 : 4-7.
Are you at your wits end trying to figure out how to stop your child from whining? In this episode Harriett talks about how whining got started, the role you play in it and how to bring it to a halt.
In this episode, Harriett talks about something that is happening in today's world that parents need to be aware of and intentionally guard their children's heart.
In this episode, Harriett shares the speech she gave to students during their Career Day. She wove a tapestry of stories together about her life and the lives of her family members as she gave them the blueprint of how to go about being all God created them to be.
In this episode Harriett gives ways to build your child's self-esteem. She also covers what happens to a child's self-esteem when bullied if the parent is unsupportive, over-supportive or uninvolved.
Have you ever wondered about your child's self-esteem? In this episode Harriett discusses the characteristics of a child who has a healthy self-esteem. She also discusses what a child will experience if he has poor self-esteem. And yes, a child can have an inflated self-esteem and she covers those characteristics too.
In this episode, Safe-Guarding Your Child's Self-Esteem, Harriett covers the 6 Vital Ingredients of self-esteem and gives ideas as to how to go about safe-guarding your child's self-esteem.
In this episode, Harriett covers the benefits of Emotional Intelligence, how to know if your child is developing Emotional Intelligence and what you, the parent can do to enhance/increase your child's Emotional Intelligence.
Emotional Intelligence (EI) is ones ability to recognize and understand emotions in ourselves and others. In fact, it is a strong indicator of leadership and personal excellence. With that in mind, it is important to help your child increase his/her EI Score. In this first episode of this series, Harriett discuss Emotional Intelligence as it relates to ones IQ and personality.
There are a lot of decisions to make throughout ones life. In this episode, Harriett talks about the most important decision, as she sees it, that you can make in your life and that you can guide your child towards making. This decision is key in Purposeful Parenting.
Have you had a day or days when you felt overwhelmed and at the end of your rope with your child? Are you faced with trials and difficulties and many are centered around your child? Harriett refers to this as having "David and Goliath Experiences." In this episode she tells you how to successfully deal with this experience.
Do you encourage or praise your child? Have you ever thought about the difference? There is a difference and they have different effects on children. In this episode Harriett discusses the differences, gives examples and tells you the effects of encouragement and praise.
This episode with Allison and Lauren takes place after the interview is over but the recording is still going. They use this opportunity and ask Harriett to critic how she felt she did as a parent...interesting! Here's a spoiler alert (just in case you have "little ears" around)...they discuss learning about Saint Nick.
Allison and Lauren talk about their children. They discuss how they approach study habits, teaching their children how to advocate for themselves and how they teach their children about their faith and loving Jesus.
In this episode, Harriett interviews their 2 older daughters, Allison and Lauren. They remember their childhood interactions with each other and talk about some of the traditions they found meaningful.
In this episode Harriett shares 6 principles that she was always aware of when raising their children. It's a new year and a new beginning and it is important to "Start Where You Stand"
In this episode Harriett shares two true miracles, one involves her family. She encourages you to pray with your child, let them know when a "huge miracle" happens and let them know when and how your prayers are answered. Teach your child to expect answers to their prayers and that God always gets it right.
Teach your child to pray and expect answers and teach them that God's answer is always best. In this episode Harriett talks about faith-filled prayer and the importance of teaching it to your children. "The Problem in praying for miracles with our kids comes only when we begin to direct their faith to the results of our prayers instead of the miracle worker Who is God."
She shares a true story demonstrating a miracle of love.
This is the season of Hope. In this episode Harriett tells you a story about Hope, what it is and how you, the parent should teach your child about hope and let him/her see you demonstrate it.
In this episode Harriett discusses the importance of family traditions. She explains why it is important to continue or create family traditions during this time of Covid. She also offers suggestions for starting family traditions during this time.
Do you know your parenting style? In this weeks episode, Harriett discusses the four types of parenting styles. You'll see how each style differs in the areas of discipline, communication, expectations, and nurturing. You will also see the effects each parenting style has on children.
In this episode Harriett names and explains the Fruits of the Spirit. She tells you how The Holy Spirit gives you the power needed to respond to your children in a loving way. She also takes you through what you need to do in order to have the Fruits of the Spirit become evident in your life.
Children should learn to deal with adversity according to their developmental level. In this episode, Harriett uses two short stories to explain why it is important to allow children to struggle. Parents must teach and yes, role model the healthy way to deal with adversity.
Are you a disciplined parent? In this episode, Harriett gives the characteristics of disciplined parents and tells you what you can do to become one.
Your child must be taught about distrust...that feeling of doubt that one has towards something or someone. In this episode, Harriett tells you how you can help your child tune into the "Still Small Voice" that can help guide him/her away from harm. She also covers other actions you can take to help keep your children safe.
Trust is foundational to human relationships. More often than not, parents tend to forget that they must earn their child's trust. In this episode, Harriett emphasizes the qualities that contribute to building and sustaining your child's trust.
In this episode find out the most important thing that a child should learn. Harriett tells you what it is and what you, as the parent should do to help your child learn it.
The Love Language of Acts of Service is the last of the 5 Love Languages. In this episode Harriett tells you two stories. One story shows you the response of a child whose love language, Acts of Service, is not met. The other story, taken from the 4 Gospels in the Bible, shows the use of all of the Love Languages: Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, and Acts of Service.
A child whose love language is gifts, sees gifts given to them as expressions of love. There are dos and don'ts to giving gifts to these children. What are they? In this episode, Harriett covers what to do and what not to do if your child's love language is gifts.
Have you ever had "one of those days? Nothing seems to go right, the kids are running all over the place, the house is a wreck and you need to make an appointment but you can't find a babysitter. You're sinking and there's no life preserver.
Harriett has been there, done that. In this episode she shares how she learned to cope when she had, "one of those days."
In this episode Harriett talks about the importance of quality and quantity time and how quality time is especially important for the child whose love language is Quality Time. She discusses the benefits of spending time with your children and how even the smallest amount time spent with them can make memories that can last a lifetime.
Words can hurt children. The wrong words, the wrong tone and even the wrong body language can scar a child emotionally and shatter his self-image and is especially harmful if the child's Love Language is Words of Affirmation. In this episode, Harriett discusses healthy ways to communicate with your child using biblical principles.
Words are powerful and can either build up or tear down a child. If Words of Affirmation is your child's Love Language, the wrong words can be extremely detrimental. "The way we talk to our child becomes his/her inner voice." In this episode, Harriett covers things to avoid doing when communicating with your child.
Is Physical Touch your child's love language? If so, you'll want to listen to this episode. You'll learn what to do to keep his/her emotional tank full.
Are you wondering what exactly Purposeful Parenting is? In today’s episode, Harriett defines Purposeful Parenting and tells you how she learned to “parent on purpose.” She also reveals the ONE resource that contains all the principles of parenting that she ever needed.
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Harriett uses this episode to introduce you to the importance of knowing and "speaking" your child's "Love Language." Love is the foundation of the family and your child needs to
"hear" that you love her/him in her/his "Love Language."
Harriett heard over and over how a person’s story can help others. However, she didn’t think her story would be dramatic enough to help others. In today’s episode, Harriett will share with you how she finally realized that she has a story that CAN help others.
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