Show Description: Episode 38: We've all inherited family patterns of behaviors that may be harmful. We can break these generational patterns so our children can be free.
Top Takeaways:
· [2:29] The Family Mold
· [4:06] Awareness of the Pattern
· [5:38] Reframing Our Thought Patterns
· [7:10] Why We Have to Break the Pattern
· [8:37] Altering Our Coping Mechanisms
· [10:17] Empathy and Forgiveness
· [11:47] Moving Forward by Modeling a New Pattern
Episode Links:
Ø Childhood trauma
Ø Look with a compassionate eye
Ø Learn to take responsibility
Ø Behaviors we learned
Ø The addict’s pain
Ø How she handles the fear
Ø Handle unworthiness
Ø Fear of being alone
Ø Harmful behavior
Ø The term codependency
Ø Codependent No More
Ø Me feeling afraid
Ø A way to respond differently
Ø The explicit intention of altering my behaviors
Ø Awareness
Ø Stop making excuses
Ø To reframe my perspective
Ø Personal boundaries
Ø Way to handle conflicts
Ø Dysfunctional mannerisms
Ø Bad habits
Ø Time of discomfort
Ø Trusted tribe of friends
Ø Responding with love
Ø We can better understand
Ø Developing our communication
Ø Blame
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