Approach with the zen like Aura or use the take no prisoners of attitude of David Goggins with your life? The truth is we need a bit of both. If too ordered we never know the demons that reside within us. If we embrace an excess of chaos the ensuing landslide of erratic and uncontrolled actions streamline our behavior, with no caveat in sight. Hence we need to understand the key is walking the line, embracing every bit of us, the good and the bad, the beautiful and the ugly to bring ourselves closer to a life of true MEANING.