How do you react to conflict in a relationship?  What are the “termites” you throw when faced

How do you react to conflict in a relationship?  What are the “termites” you throw when faced with conflict?  And do you repair conflict or avoid conflict?

References:

https://www.gottman.com/blog/category/column/the-four-horsemen/

https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/

conflict?  And do you repair conflict or just avoid?

References:

https://www.gottman.com/blog/category/column/the-four-horsemen/

https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/