I’ve always seen the term “what if” as something that feels negative, like worrying about something.

When I was younger, and was worrying about something that was probably never going to happen, I would find myself asking myself and whoever else would listen…. what if __________ fill in the blank happens?

Every time I would say “what if… blah blah blah”, my husband Joe’s response, literally every single time, and to this day, is “what if does not exist until what is”.

This saying basically means that there is no such thing as what you’re worried about until it actually happens.

My brother Aaron sent me a book called “Can’t Hurt Me” by David Goggins.

Have you read it? Get your hands on it today if you haven’t.

Aaron and I both have a favorite of the mentalities in this book, and it’s called “what if”.

But not the what if I’ve always thought is the thing.

This is a what if that is positive and gives you an “I can do anything” approach.

His “what if” mentality, is about your response to someone telling you that you can’t do something.

Someone tells you that you can’t start a business, you turn it around in your mind and say to yourself, “but what if I could”.

It’s like a mirror to the person doubting you, not your capabilities.\

It turns it back on them and shows a reflection to how they actually think. In this example it would be that they thing starting a business is impossible, so they’re reflecting it back on you.

The real WHAT IF is WHAT IF you never find that person within you who can do the things you’re being told you can’t?

OR

WHAT IF you can, and WHAT IF you do.

So WHAT IF we keep helping more and they keep making a difference in the world too?

Go ahead, watch us all, we can make a difference, and we do make a difference. Including, and especially, you.

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