This podcast is a little longer. Hope and I discuss your strengths as a man dealing with deep pain and betrayal. We also cover:

Should I just join the fantasy? Can I punch the guy in the face? What can I expect if she's really working recovery? The importance of the "fidelity contract" Boundaries Letting go and moving forward Not bringing the other guy/her compulsive or addictive behaviors into the bedroom yourself

We also tell you how to get a hold of us and keep connected with other men who want to learn to handle betrayal in healthy, productive ways.