You need to be blazing your own trails! You need to be a leader in your own life! It’s so easy to say that, “yeah, I'm blazing my trail. I am walking my own path!” but really zoom out and see. Are you really?
My role-play coach said, “You know what, let's just zoom out and really look at your life. When in your life were you in the best shape?”
It ended up being five years ago before I had kids. I was living alone and I was actually eating a vegan diet. I was cycling every single day. I had a membership. It was in a class & I had so much fun.
It feels so good to be the leader of my own life of my own decisions. I'm not following or listening to what other people are doing. I’m listening to my heart and my gut because that is what is leading me and telling me what I should do.