Domestic Violence. Sexual Abuse. Harassment. All various terms for an underlying issue that has plagued society for years! My very own saying - Abuse can happen anywhere at any time and to anyone holds truth upon learning Abuse in Sport exists. Parallel worlds collide. In an environment where children, youth, female and males should be lifted, challenged as well as motivated to accomplish their very own greatness, they are also experiencing darkness. Abuse is Abuse, the feelings are the same no matter the environment.
As a survivor of domestic violence, I will point out some of the most important factors that athletes would be experiencing. Although each victim would be experiencing different emotions, obstacles and time lines, from my very own experience these factors are the base -
How the athlete feels
The obstacles the athlete faces
The timeline
If you know of anyone in your Athletic environment experiencing abuse or anyone for that matter, it is imperative to assure them you are there for them. Do not turn your back on them. Do not comment - "It's all in your head' or make them feel that they are questioning themselves. Motivate them to seek help. Report it to your local police.