On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman who wonders what to do about her husband, who claims to have a porn addiction. Guest: David J. Ley Mentioned in this episode: Ethical Porn for Dicks by David J. Ley The Myth of Sex Addiction by David J. Ley Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

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