I know that pain hurt and you never saw that betrayal coming. You didn't realize it was a scam. He never really loved she was just using you. But you holding on to that pain or reliving that circumstance only make you a victim all over again. You have to decided to move on from the hurt and pain. It time you learn the lesson that needs to be learn. Because holding on to the past or the pain is going to make you bitter and hateful. Allow yourself to let go of the hurt they cause is necessary.