"Nothing locks people in error as much as the daily repetition of error."
https://www.brainpickings.org/2018/09/26/rilke-breakup/
* definition of honorable human relationships * Letters on Life * public library * “for one human being to love another… is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks… the work for which all other work is but preparation,” * the art of the kind, clean breakup * challenging necessity of giving space in love * “the highest task of a bond between two people [is] that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other” * Letters on Life * love and loss * why frustration is necessary for satisfaction in love * what it really means to love * the combinatorial nature of inspiration * the lonely patience of creative work * what it takes to be an artist * how hardship enlarges us