It's nice to have people around you that constantly check up on you etc. However, what we don't talk about enough is the extra burden placed on the other person to give an explanation. Which sometimes, might result to overcompensation. You appreciate the gesture, but deep down, you don't understand what's going on. Hence you can't give any explanation or suggest any solutions. "Talk to me" - I'd love to, if only I know what's wrong myself.