Love On Command: Recent Episodes

Shay Levister

Helping professionals end chronic single-itist & manifest love on command with proven scientific techniques without uncertainty and disappointment!❤

Have you spent your life seeing yourself through other people's judgments instead of recognizing your true worth?

In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore how masculine and feminine energy influence dating, attraction, and emotional well-being. We discuss why successful women often overperform in relationships, how childhood conditioning shapes the way you see yourself, and why trying to prove your value can prevent you from receiving the love you deserve.

The lesson is simple but powerful: You do not have to perform, pursue, or minimize yourself to be loved. When I help you heal the subconscious patterns controlling your choices, you can reconnect with your authentic self and begin creating the love story you truly desire.

CJ and I discuss:

Why God represents both masculine and feminine energy
How women unintentionally give away their power in dating
The emotional cost of carrying the masculine role
Why your energy speaks before you say a word
How childhood pain creates a "borrowed observer"
The difference between receiving love and performing for love
Why trying to impress a man can push you out of alignment
How emotional blocks affect love and connection
Breaking painful cycles after rejection or heartbreak
Rewiring the subconscious patterns keeping you stuck

You were never meant to prove that you are worthy of love. You were meant to heal, receive, and stand confidently in the truth of who you are.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

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If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

What if the very heartbreak you've been trying to avoid is actually the doorway to the life and love you've been praying for?

In this deeply thought-provoking conversation, CJ and I explore one of the greatest paradoxes of life: sometimes the greatest blessings are born from our greatest pain. We discuss why reaching the moment of saying, "I'm done," can become the turning point that shifts your entire timeline and opens the door to something far better.

We also dive into powerful spiritual concepts surrounding intention, prayer, surrender, free will, and why trying to force someone to love you can keep you from the love that was always meant for you. Using lessons from a recent movie, personal stories, and CJ's unique perspective, we unpack why God never violates free will—and why surrendering often creates the greatest miracles.

In this episode you'll discover:

Why heartbreak creates clarity.
How pain can become your greatest teacher.
The danger of chasing one specific person.
Why surrender attracts better than control.
The spiritual importance of honoring free will.
How loneliness can become the beginning of transformation.
Why gratitude creates momentum out of emotional darkness.
What "Amen" and "And so it is" symbolize in prayer and intention.
Why you are already enough, exactly as you are.
How opening yourself to receive allows love to finally find you.

If you've been feeling stuck, lonely, heartbroken, or wondering why love hasn't happened yet, this conversation is an invitation to stop fighting your journey and begin trusting where it's leading you.

Sometimes the timeline you're desperate to leave is the very thing preparing you for the one you've been praying for.

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Shay, Your Love Diva Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversation with CJ, I sit down with CJ for one of our deepest conversations yet about why some people keep attracting painful relationships while others experience healthy, lasting love.

Together, we explore the connection between the way you treat yourself and the relationships you attract. We talk about how childhood experiences shape your subconscious beliefs, why high-achieving women can be incredibly successful yet still struggle in love, and how unresolved emotional pain can become both a gift and a barrier.

CJ also shares a simple manifestation practice using two trees as a symbolic portal to help you intentionally focus on the life, love, and future you want to create. We discuss the importance of clarity, emotion, gratitude, and aligning your inner world before expecting your outer world to change.

If you've ever wondered why the same relationship patterns keep repeating—or how to finally step into a healthier timeline for your life and relationships—this conversation will give you a new perspective.

Whether you're healing from heartbreak, looking for lasting love, or simply seeking greater peace and alignment, this Porch Conversation offers powerful spiritual insight and practical wisdom to help you move forward.

Learn more at: https://bondingbiology.com

If you'd like to explore more of CJ's teachings, including his course Awakening the God Within, visit https://CJsLight.com

There comes a point in life where you have to decide what is truly worth your energy.

For years, I've watched incredible women spend their hearts trying to change people who were never willing to change. The truth is, sometimes the greatest act of self-love is knowing when to walk away—and knowing when something is truly worth fighting for.

In this episode, I sit down with my son, Mensa Genius CJ, for one of our most fascinating conversations yet. We dive into energy, frequency, healing, and why the patterns you experience in your relationships—and even in your business—may be reflecting something much deeper happening within you.

We explore questions like: • Are you attracting experiences that mirror how you treat yourself? • Can changing your inner energy change your outer reality? • What really happens when you choose yourself and commit to healing? • Why do some people stay stuck while others experience life-changing breakthroughs?

One of my favorite parts of this conversation is when we talk about the invisible barrier people cross the moment they finally choose healing. I've seen it thousands of times. A woman makes one decision to stop repeating the same patterns, and everything begins to change. It's one of the most beautiful transformations I witness.

If you've ever felt like you're repeating the same relationship, the same heartbreak, or the same struggles in different forms, this episode is for you.

If you're ready to heal the patterns keeping you stuck in love, begin your journey at BondingBiology.com.

If CJ's message about consciousness, energy, and awakening resonates with you, explore his complete teachings at CJsLight.com.

Your breakthrough begins the moment you choose a different path.

So many people think the battle is happening outside of them.

It's not.

The greatest battle you'll ever fight is the one between your higher self and your fear.

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, we dive into one of the most eye-opening conversations we've ever had. We talk about the voice that keeps you stuck, why fear sounds so convincing, how your daily decisions shape your future, and what it really means to raise your vibration.

We also explore how healing yourself can create a ripple effect through generations, why your intuition deserves to be trusted, and how choosing alignment over fear changes everything.

If you've been feeling stuck, repeating the same patterns, or wondering why the life you want still feels out of reach, this conversation is for you.

Your future isn't created by chance. It's created by the choices you make today.

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Welcome back to Love on Command!

If you're a successful, accomplished woman who has mastered your career but still feels like dating elite, marriage-minded men is harder than building your business, this episode is for you.

For years, I've been searching for an etiquette expert who truly understands the world high-achieving women navigate, and I finally found her.

In this episode, I'm joined by Elaine Swan, one of the nation's leading experts in etiquette, communication, and social intelligence. Together, we unpack the subtle dating habits, communication styles, and etiquette mistakes that can quietly push away the very kind of masculine, emotionally available man you want to attract.

We dive into:

Why being a boss in the boardroom doesn't always work in relationships.
The etiquette mistakes that can instantly turn off high-quality men.
How successful women can remain powerful without leading every interaction.
The importance of allowing a masculine man to pursue, provide, and pour into you.
Luxury etiquette, dining etiquette, and social intelligence every accomplished woman should know.
Why listening is one of the most attractive feminine skills.
How Love Blocks® can make you unconsciously sabotage connection, even when you're doing everything "right."

Here's what I want every woman to remember: You never have to become smaller to attract an extraordinary man. But you do have to heal what is blocking you from receiving the love you desire.

This conversation is packed with practical wisdom that can completely change how you show up in dating—and ultimately, the quality of the man you attract.

If this episode speaks to you, subscribe to Love on Command and share it with another incredible woman who's ready to attract love intentionally.

Learn more at BondingBiology.com.

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In today's Porch Conversation with CJ, we're diving into one of the biggest misconceptions about money, love, relationships, and personal growth.

Does the Bible really say money is the root of all evil? Why do so many successful women wait until they're in pain before they seek guidance in love? Is marriage something we should prepare for before we ever say "I do"? And how can parents nurture the greatness already inside their children?

CJ and I unpack these powerful questions through faith, personal experience, practical analogies, and honest conversations about what truly keeps people stuck. We explore why preparation is the key to success—not only in relationships, but in every area of life—and why waiting until you're desperate often creates unnecessary suffering.

If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, why fear seems to take over when it comes to love, or how to create a healthier future for yourself and your family, this conversation is for you.

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Welcome to Love on Command: Porch Conversation with CJ.

— Shay, Your Love Diva 💋 Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

Have you ever experienced something that couldn't be explained... but you knew it changed your life forever?

In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I have one of our deepest conversations yet. We explore miracles, healing, faith, intuition, and what it really means to step into the power God has placed within each of us.

I share some of the most personal moments of my journey—including surviving a life-threatening experience and witnessing what many would call impossible healing. Together, CJ and I explore these experiences through curiosity, wonder, and a desire to understand how our thoughts, words, and beliefs shape the lives we create.

My hope is that this conversation encourages you to look beyond fear, reconnect with your faith, and remember that there is so much more available to you than you've been taught to believe.

If CJ's wisdom resonates with you, I highly encourage you to experience his full course, Awakening the God Within, at CJsLight.com.

Thank you for joining me and CJ for another Porch Conversation with CJ. If this episode speaks to your heart, please share it with someone who needs hope today.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 BondingBiology.com ✨ CJ's Course: CJsLight.com

What if the reason love, money, or abundance hasn't arrived yet is not because it is not coming… but because the water has not turned on yet?

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we talk about patience, manifestation, surrender, money, love, receiving, and becoming prepared for the life you are asking God to give you.

CJ uses the metaphor of a water slide to explain why forcing the outcome does not work. You cannot slide when there is no water. You have to prepare, wait, trust, and be ready to move when the flow comes.

In this episode, we discuss why manifestation requires patience, why people lose what they are not prepared to hold, why receiving is a muscle, and how surrender allows God and infinite intelligence to bring something even better than what you asked for.

The lesson is simple but powerful:

Your job is not to force love. Your job is to prepare for it.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 bondingbiology.com

Support CJ and access his course at CJsLight.com.

What if the thing that broke your heart was actually the thing that set you free?

In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore one of the most powerful lessons in life: your perspective determines your reality.

Most people spend their lives focused on what's missing, what's wrong, and what they've lost. But what if every setback contains a blessing? What if rejection is protection? What if heartbreak is redirection?

CJ shares his unique perspective on: ✨ Why some people naturally see opportunities while others only see problems ✨ How negative thinking trains your brain to find more negativity ✨ Why heartbreak may actually be saving you from a future you don't want ✨ Turning criticism, rejection, and adversity into fuel for growth ✨ The power of transmuting negative energy into something that serves you ✨ Manifestation, mindset, and creating the life you desire

I also share my personal story of being pushed out of a successful pharmaceutical sales career after becoming one of the company's top performers. At the time, it felt unfair. Looking back, it was one of the greatest gifts of my life. What was intended to stop me became the very thing that launched me into my true purpose—helping women clear their love blocks, heal their attachment patterns, and attract extraordinary relationships.

The lesson?

Sometimes the person trying to block you is unknowingly positioning you for your breakthrough.

The thing you call a setback today may be the blessing you'll thank God for tomorrow.

Join us for a powerful conversation about perspective, purpose, and finding the gift hidden inside every challenge.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 bondingbiology.com

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What if the very qualities that helped you build your success are also the things keeping you exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from love?

In this episode of Love on Command, I sit down with Dr. Michelle Brown, enterprise-wide business strategist, leadership consultant, author, and former SWAT operator, to have a powerful conversation about what happens when ambitious women become trapped in constant achievement mode.

As women, we're often taught that being strong means doing everything ourselves. But what if that's exactly what's blocking us from our next level—in business, love, and life?

Dr. Michelle shares how she helps CEOs, entrepreneurs, and professional women identify the hidden gaps in their businesses that are costing them time, energy, and money. I share how the same patterns show up in love—where high-achieving women stay busy, overwork, and unknowingly use success as a shield from vulnerability, connection, and receiving support.

Together, we discuss why slowing down is not weakness, how nervous system regulation impacts your ability to attract the right opportunities and relationships, and why every successful woman needs trusted experts in her corner.

If you've built a successful career but still feel exhausted, lonely, overwhelmed, or like something is missing, this conversation is for you.

Remember, your next level doesn't come from doing more.

It comes from becoming the woman who can receive more.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

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I believe one of the greatest misunderstandings in personal growth is that people think they're searching for love when they're actually protecting themselves from it.

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we dive deep into what I've spent years teaching women around the world: the very thing you desire most may be the very thing you're unconsciously blocking.

CJ shares profound wisdom on communication, presence, surrender, heartbreak, abundance, and what it truly means to experience God through love. Together, we explore why so many successful women stay trapped in control, why heartbreak isn't the end of your story, and how the love blocks you developed to protect yourself may now be the very thing keeping you from the relationship your soul desires.

One of my favorite moments in this conversation is when CJ explains that when we block love, we're blocking one of the greatest experiences available to us as human beings. That insight alone has the power to change how you view your healing journey.

If you've ever struggled to trust, felt afraid to be vulnerable, wondered why relationships haven't worked out, or felt like you're carrying wounds from the past that keep showing up in your present, this episode is for you.

Because the goal isn't just to find love.

The goal is to become available for it.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 bondingbiology.com

🔗 CJsLight.com

What if the biggest thing blocking you from love, abundance, and happiness isn't what happened to you... but the identity you've built around it?

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore childhood programming, love blocks, manifestation, quantum entanglement, self-worth, trauma, and why some people remain trapped in cycles of pain while others completely transform their lives.

CJ shares profound insights about how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, why healing love blocks impacts every area of life, and how becoming the person you want to be is more important than simply trying to attract what you want.

One of the most powerful moments:

"They hide in the pain so they can have an excuse to complain, but they don't actually get better."

If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating relationship patterns, struggle to receive love, or feel stuck despite your success, this conversation offers a powerful perspective on what's really happening beneath the surface.

In this episode, CJ and Shay discuss childhood conditioning, quantum manifestation, abundance, self-acceptance, emotional healing, and the mindset shifts required to create lasting transformation.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 findmeloveshay.com

If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it… live it.

Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

What if the relationships you attract are not random… but reflections of the frequency you're vibrating at?

In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore prayer, manifestation, love blocks, emotional pain, trauma, vibrational frequency, and the spiritual patterns that influence love, abundance, and healing.

One of the most profound things CJ said: "Prayer doesn't work with what you want. It works with what you expect."

This conversation dives deep into how your expectations, fears, wounds, and subconscious patterns shape the reality you continue to experience in love and life.

In this episode, we discuss: ✨ Why prayer creates energetic alignment ✨ How painful experiences can become catalysts for transformation ✨ Why people stay stuck in unhealthy relationships ✨ The connection between vibrational frequency and attraction ✨ How fear influences the people and experiences you attract ✨ Childhood trauma, generational trauma, and inherited love blocks ✨ Why healing changes what — and who — can access your world ✨ The importance of guidance, mentorship, and doing the inner work

One of the most powerful metaphors CJ shared was this:

Sometimes the thing you fear most is like a giant monster plant blocking your path… But when you walk toward it, you realize it was never bigger than you.

So many women are living trapped inside fear, rejection, abandonment wounds, and subconscious love blocks that keep them repeating painful relationship cycles.

Healing is not about becoming someone else.

Healing is about raising your frequency enough that the experiences, relationships, and energies that once had access to you… no longer do.

This conversation is deep, spiritual, emotional, and transformational.

If you're ready to heal your love blocks, expand your capacity for healthy love, and become the version of yourself who can receive the relationship and life you desire:

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it… live it. Awaken the light within you and your family at CJsLight.com.

What if the reason you haven't manifested the love, money, or life you desire… isn't because it's unavailable to you?

What if it's because you haven't yet become the version of yourself who can fully hold it?

In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, my son CJ and I talk about lucid dreaming, alternate realities, meditation, manifestation, feminine energy, love blocks, and why so many successful women still feel unfulfilled in love.

One of the most powerful things CJ said: "If you don't do the work, the world you create will be half-built."

And honestly? He's right.

So many women are trying to manifest healthy love, wealth, peace, and abundance without first healing the parts of themselves that cannot yet sustain it.

In this conversation, we discuss: ✨ How dreams may connect us to higher understanding ✨ Why fear sabotages both love and money ✨ How meditation expands your capacity to receive love ✨ Why high-achieving women struggle to ask for help ✨ The energetic connection between abundance and relationships ✨ Why manifestation without inner transformation doesn't last ✨ How becoming is more important than simply attracting

One of my favorite analogies CJ gave was this:

You cannot eat a giant cake if your mouth, stomach, and throat aren't prepared to hold it.

The same is true for love, success, abundance, and the life you're asking for.

You must expand your emotional, spiritual, and energetic capacity first.

That is the work.

And when you do the work… You stop chasing. You stop sabotaging. You stop living from fear.

You become the version of yourself who can finally receive.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 findmeloveshay.com

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, I share one of the biggest discoveries that changed the way I understand love, heartbreak, healing, and the feminine nervous system.

For years, women have been told they're "too much," "too emotional," "too guarded," or "too broken" to receive healthy love.

But what if the issue isn't weakness…

What if the pain of heartbreak, rejection, abandonment, and emotional survival is literally being stored inside the body?

CJ and I explore: ✨ Why high-achieving women struggle to receive ✨ How heartbreak impacts the nervous system and inflammation ✨ The energetic connection between emotions, biology, and healing ✨ Why women stay trapped in overgiving and emotional exhaustion ✨ Frequency, manifestation, intention, and emotional energy ✨ The power of meditation, consciousness, and inner peace ✨ How healing emotionally changes the way you experience love, abundance, and life

This isn't just a conversation about relationships.

It's a conversation about becoming safe enough to finally receive the love, peace, softness, and connection you were always meant for.

If this conversation speaks to your heart, I invite you to begin your healing journey.

🔗 BossDiva.com 🔗 CJsLight.com

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, I sit down with my son as he shares his wisdom on love, energy, timelines, manifestation, and Awakening the God Within.

CJ explains how our thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and environment can shape the reality we experience — especially when it comes to love. We talk about love blocks, money blocks, mirror manifestation, the golden light bubble, and why high-achieving women can succeed in every area of life but still feel blocked in love.

This conversation is for the woman who looks successful on the outside but knows there is still something inside her asking to be healed, awakened, and remembered.

CJ's course, Awakening the God Within, was created to help children and adults reconnect with the light, love, and power already inside of them.

Watch this episode and open your heart to a new way of seeing love, life, and your own divine potential.

— Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

🔗 CJ's course: CJsLight.com 🔗 Love healing journey: BossDiva.com

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, we're having a real, honest conversation about something most people don't fully understand—love blocks.

I asked CJ a question that so many women are silently struggling with: Why is it so hard to love yourself when you weren't loved growing up?

And what he shared… changes everything.

Together, we break down how your thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs create a subconscious blueprint that shapes your entire love life. CJ explains why you can say you want love—but still not attract it—because your internal patterns are canceling it out.

We also talked about something that really surprised people: how your love blocks can also affect your money.

CJ explains how the same beliefs that make you feel unworthy of love can quietly limit your financial growth—and why some high-achieving women can succeed in business, but still feel stuck in relationships.

In this conversation, we walk you through:

What love blocks actually are (and how to identify yours)
Why "just love yourself" isn't real advice—and what to do instead
How your subconscious drives you to choose the wrong partners
The "blueprint method" to release old patterns and create new ones
Why you keep repeating the same relationship cycles
How to start embodying the version of you who attracts healthy love

We also share powerful insights on manifestation, energy, and how to step into the version of yourself that already has the love and life you desire.

This isn't about surface-level dating tips. This is about rewiring your identity so your results finally change.

If you've been successful in life—but still feel stuck in love—this conversation is going to open your eyes in a completely different way.

👉 If this resonates with you, don't just listen… take the next step. Begin your transformation at CJsLight.com.

In this episode, CJ and I have a deep and thought-provoking conversation about reality, energy, and the power of your belief system.

We explore how the way you think and what you believe shapes the life you experience, especially when it comes to love and relationships. I share how many successful women become so used to doing everything on their own that it starts to block the very connection they desire.

CJ brings a unique perspective as we talk about vibration, perception, and what it really means to create your own reality. Together, we dive into how shifting internally can change what you attract and how you experience the world around you.

We also touch on dating, alignment, and why it is not just about finding the right person, but becoming the version of you who is available for the kind of love you truly want.

This is a powerful, expansive conversation that will leave you thinking differently about love, life, and what is truly possible for you.

In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversations with CJ, we are having one of the most fascinating conversations yet. We talk about reincarnation, the purpose of life, soulmates, and why so many people feel stuck, unhappy, or blocked from the love and life they truly want.

CJ shares such a unique perspective on what it means to be here in this human experience. We talk about life as if you are coloring your own picture—and what happens when you forget that you are the one holding the crayon. We also get into why people suffer, how they lose their way, and what it takes to remember who they really are.

Of course, we also dive into love blocks—because so many people say they want love, but their thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and unhealed patterns are keeping them from receiving it. We talk about how to recognize when you're blocking your own blessings in love, why so many people sabotage healthy relationships, and why getting the right help can change everything.

We also talk about soulmates, self-worth, persistence, healing, growth, and what it really takes to create the life and relationship you desire instead of settling for what life hands you by default.

This episode is deep, powerful, and full of perspective-shifting moments that will make you stop and reflect on your own patterns, your own healing, and the kind of love you are truly available for.

And if you are tired of attracting the wrong people and you are ready to date with intention, clarity, and alignment, download Her Pocket Coach — the first AI-powered love coach in the privacy of your own pocket. It is designed to help you clear love blocks, date smarter, and align with your romantic best friend before you even start swiping.

Take your time with this one, because this conversation will give you a lot to think about.

In this powerful episode of Love on Command, I sit down with CJ for a raw, eye-opening conversation about what really keeps people stuck in life, love, and the patterns they keep repeating. This is the kind of conversation that makes you stop, reflect, and look at yourself differently.

Together, we explore the deeper truth behind identity, pain, visibility, self-worth, and what it actually takes to create a new reality in love. CJ brings a perspective that is honest, unexpected, and incredibly profound, and this episode is a reminder that healing is not just about talking about what hurt you, but about becoming someone new.

If you have ever felt unseen, disconnected, trapped in old stories, or tired of attracting the same experiences, this conversation will speak to you in a real way. This episode is about choosing yourself, seeing yourself clearly, and understanding that the love you desire starts with what you believe you deserve.

This episode is for the woman who feels like she's been doing everything right… and still ends up in the wrong situations in love.

Let me talk to you for real—because a lot of what you've been through, you didn't choose. You didn't choose the environment that made you question your worth. You didn't choose the criticism, the emotional absence, or the instability that shaped how you learned to receive love.

But now you're the one carrying it. And whether you realize it or not, it's showing up in who you're attracted to, who you entertain, and who you struggle to let go of.

And here's the part nobody really says out loud—it doesn't matter how many men you date, how successful you are, or how much you've accomplished… if your love blueprint is off, you will keep repeating the same cycles in different bodies.

You'll keep attracting what feels familiar, even if it hurts you.

You'll keep choosing chemistry over alignment.

You'll keep betraying yourself in small ways that slowly chip away at your self-trust.

And once a woman stops trusting herself in love, that's when things get dangerous. Because now, not only does she question her own decisions… she can't even recognize what's healthy when it shows up. The safe man feels boring. The consistent man feels "off." And the one who triggers her the most feels irresistible.

That's not love. That's conditioning.

In this episode, I'm walking you through what's really happening beneath the surface—emotionally, psychologically, and even biologically—so you can finally understand why this keeps happening and what needs to shift.

Because you're not broken.

But your approach might be.

And if you don't change it, it's going to cost you more than just time—it will cost you your peace, your confidence, and your ability to trust yourself.

So if you're ready to stop repeating cycles, stop settling, and finally experience the kind of love that feels safe, aligned, and real… this is the conversation you need to hear.

Ladies, let's talk about something real — there is a science to attraction.

If you start dating from a place of loneliness, desperation, or just wanting someone, you're already out of alignment with the kind of love you say you want. The way you start is usually the way you finish.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the three steps to mastering ethical seduction and how your feminine energy naturally influences a man's bonding biology.

We're talking about: ✨ What it really means to master your feminine energy ✨ Why men bond through emotions — not what you do for them ✨ The hidden behaviors that sabotage attraction without you realizing it ✨ How men categorize women when they meet them ✨ Why raising your "stock value" changes the quality of men you attract

After going on 100 dates in 3 months and studying the psychology and anthropology of attraction, I discovered a clear pattern: if you don't change your love blueprint, you will keep attracting the same relationship with a different face.

But when you shift your energy, clear what's blocking you, and align with the woman you're meant to be, everything changes.

The quality of men changes. Your options expand. And love starts to feel easy.

This episode is about becoming the woman who naturally activates the right man's commitment and devotion — without chasing, forcing, or settling.

Beautiful Boss Divas…

In today's episode, I'm breaking down something that every woman needs to understand if she desires lasting, powerful love.

Too many women are looking at relationships from the outside and creating fantasies in their minds about what they think love should look like. We put couples on pedestals. We attach our hope to images. And when things fall apart, we internalize fear.

But here's the truth: what you see is rarely what's actually happening.

I'm taking you behind the scenes into the emotional and psychological patterns that cause men to disconnect long before they physically leave. We're talking about identity shifts. Masculinity. Success gaps. Resentment. Emotional check-out. And the two core needs that, when unmet, quietly dismantle relationships from the inside out.

This is not about blame. This is about awareness. This is about understanding the patterns so you don't repeat them.

After interviewing thousands of men and working with couples for over two decades, I've seen the same triggers over and over again. And when you understand them, you move differently. You date differently. You choose differently.

This episode is about power. Your power. Your awareness. Your positioning.

Because no matter what you've been through… No matter who stayed or who left… You are always the prize.

Stay tuned.

In today's episode of Love on Command, it gets REAL—and honestly, it's a special one.

I'm Shay, your Love Diva, and today I'm sitting down with Jamil Damji—and let me tell you… this episode is a FIRST. Because Jamil isn't just a guest… he's the fiancé of one of my clients, and he is living proof of what happens when a woman is willing to do the inner work and call in real love the right way.

We talk about how he met his woman, what made her stand out instantly, why he wasn't interested in "fixer-uppers," and what high-performing, elite men are actually looking for when they're choosing a wife—not just a date.

And ladies… he breaks down the exact qualities that make a man want to lock it down, commit, and build a life with you.

So if you're a successful woman who doesn't need a man—but you do desire a partner you can build with—this conversation is going to shift your perspective in the best way.

Press play, take notes, and get ready… because you're about to hear it straight from the great guy's mouth.

Welcome back to Love on Command. 💋

Ladies… let's be honest. Most women are out here dating completely backwards. You're asking yourself, "How do I get him to like me?" or "How do I finally find my person?"—but what if I told you the real answer isn't more dating… it's understanding the science.

Because love is not just magic. Love is biology. Love is predictable. And when you understand what's happening biochemically in the attraction process, you stop guessing, you stop wasting time, and you finally start moving with strategy.

In this episode, I'm going to show you why men bond the way they do, what hormones are actually driving commitment, and how your personal love blueprint affects the kind of men you attract, choose, and hold onto. Most women don't realize they are triggering emotional bonding long before a man ever decides to commit—and that's where heartbreak happens.

If you've ever felt like you've done everything right—successful career, beautiful life—and still wondered, "Why haven't I found my person?"… this conversation is for you.

Because once you understand the phases of bonding, your archetype in love, and the deeper science behind attraction, you will never date in the dark again.

Let's get into it.

Ladies, we need to talk.

If you are successful in your career, disciplined in your life, and powerful in every room you walk into—but somehow keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or weak men—this episode is for you.

In this conversation, I'm breaking down the real reason dating keeps hurting you, and it has nothing to do with you being broken. It's about your patterns, your strategy, and the archetype you're unconsciously dating from.

I'm going to show you why dating in the dark is dangerous—and why high-achieving women cannot date the same way everyone else does. Just like you wouldn't run a business, treat a patient, or walk into court without a plan, you cannot afford to approach love without self-awareness and diagnosis.

If you've ever asked yourself: "Why am I winning everywhere except love?" "Why do I keep attracting the same kind of man?" "Is something wrong with me?"

This episode will change the way you see dating forever.

You are not broken. Your strategy is.

And today, we turn the lights on.

There are a lot of Build-A-Bears in this world. Loud men. Raggedy men. Men who never learned how to stand on their own two feet because they're still emotionally nursing from their mother. And yet… there are still GOOD men here. Masculine men. Provider men. Men who want to lead, protect, and commit.

So why do so many women keep attracting the wrong ones?

In this episode, I speak directly to the woman who has been hurt, disappointed, and rejected for so long that she learned how to survive without a man. I understand you. I've lived it. But that survival mode is keeping you trapped. It's blocking the very love you say you want.

I'm sharing the truth about polarity, feminine energy, and the invisible love blocks that quietly sabotage relationships before they even begin. After working with thousands of women, I've seen the patterns. I know why some women effortlessly attract high-quality men and why others keep repeating the same painful cycle—even in marriage.

This conversation is not soft. It's not popular. And it's not meant to entertain you. It's meant to wake you up.

Because the most expensive decision you will ever make in your life is the man you choose.

If you're ready to stop attracting Build-A-Bears and start choosing differently, this episode is for you.

— Shay, Your Love Diva 💋

In this episode, I'm breaking down the top dating mistakes that keep powerful, intelligent women stuck in cycles of disappointment instead of in the arms of a high-value man who can truly love their soul.

I'm going to lovingly—but directly—call out the patterns that sabotage love, including:

Believing a man's words instead of his actions
Moving too fast with the wrong man and skipping proper vetting
Dating from insecurity instead of dating for growth
Confusing dating with intimacy and giving benefits before commitment

Dating is not about hope, potential, or chemistry alone. Dating is an interview process—and not everyone deserves access to your time, your heart, or your body.

I'll teach you how to slow down, raise your standards, protect your energy, and position yourself to attract a man who is emotionally available, intentional, and capable of building a future with you.

If you're tired of wasting time… If you're ready to stop repeating the same love lessons… And if you desire a romantic best friend who meets you at your level—

This episode is for you.

How many of you feel like the clock is ticking?

You want marriage. You want a family. You want children. And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve.

In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or beneath-their-level men. Women who have tried everything: therapy, retreats, coaching, matchmaking — and still haven't gotten the result they want.

I'm here to tell you this: your age does not disqualify you, and your desire does not make you unrealistic.

This is not about chasing men. This is about becoming the woman who naturally attracts the right one.

If you're done wasting time, done ignoring red flags, and ready to get what you actually want — this episode is for you.

Ma'am… we need to have a grown conversation.

In this episode, I'm breaking down something most people don't want to talk about—because it's not "popular," it's not trendy, and it doesn't sound like the feel-good advice floating around online. But it might be the information that saves you.

I'm Shay—your Love Diva. I'm a master's certified love strategist, and yes, I'm also a woman of science. I graduated pre-med biology, spent over a decade in pharmaceutical sales, and I've helped high-value women uplevel their love lives using the science of attraction for over ten years.

And today, we're talking about what happens when you're sexually intimate with a man—because it's not "just sex."

Even with a condom, you're still exposing your body to him. And according to research, semen isn't just fluid—it's biological data: proteins, hormones, and molecular messengers that communicate with your immune system and reproductive system. Meaning your body can adapt, adjust, and respond to a man's presence in ways you may not even realize.

So if you've ever wondered why you felt anxious after sleeping with him… why you felt emotionally off… why you stayed attached to an ex you know was toxic… we're going there.

Because the real question is: is he worth it? Is he worth how your body may be responding long-term? Is he worth what he might be leaving behind—biochemically, emotionally, mentally?

This episode is for the woman who's done being reckless with access to her body and is ready to start moving like a wife—strategic, intentional, and protected.

Hey my loves, it's Shay, your Love Diva, and today we're getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase. You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you're sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap.

In this episode, I'm teaching you what the pull away phase really is, why it happens, and how to respond like a woman (or man) who knows their worth. We're talking about the biggest mistake people make — chasing — and what to do instead so you stay grounded, confident, and emotionally in control.

Because baby… if they wobble, you don't collapse. Press play and let your Love Diva walk you through it.

In this episode, I'm going to share some science that might surprise you. I break down why your body may not fully "move on" from every man you sleep with, and what research suggests about how past partners could leave biological effects that last longer than we think.

I explain:

the fly study that brought back the idea of telegony
what microchimerism is (male cells staying in a woman's body for years)
the possible ways sp*rm could influence the body even without pregnancy
what's proven, what's still a theory, and what that means for you

This isn't about shame. It's about being informed and choosing your partners wisely.

If you're ready to date with more clarity and intention, download HerPocketCoach and let me help you choose better men for your future.

Ladies, listen… in today's episode, I'm going to break down something that most women feel, but can't quite put into words. The dating atmosphere has changed — dramatically. Men aren't showing up in their masculine anymore. A lot of them are operating way too far in their feminine energy, and it is stressing women out.

I'm going to tell you exactly why this is happening, how we accidentally helped create the problem, and most importantly, what you must do if you want to attract an elite man — a man with character, values, valor, and real masculine leadership. Not just a man with money… a man who is wealthy in every way that matters.

I'm talking about:

Why equality pulled an okey doke on us
How women ended up doing everything while being paid less
Why depression, anxiety, and burnout skyrocketed among women
How dating men beneath your level destroys your feminine energy
Why financially misaligned relationships are literally harming your health
And the #1 rule my high-level clients must follow: stop dating broke men

I'm also sharing why I've opened my programs to women in their 20s — because these younger women are paying attention, moving smarter, and setting standards that many older women never learned to set.

Ladies, this episode is your wake-up call. Your elevation call. Your "stop settling and step into your feminine power" call.

If you are ready to attract a man who provides, protects, and pours into your soul… the kind of man who is your peace, your safety, and your partner… then this is the episode you need.

Hey beautiful Diva, it's your girl Shay, your Love Diva — and in this episode, I'm breaking down why you keep attracting the same kind of man, the same heartbreak, the same story… even after all the therapy, all the journaling, all the healing work.

I'm gonna show you how your brain has been trained—just like a ski path that's been carved in the snow—causing you to repeat the same patterns over and over again without even realizing it. And more importantly, I'm gonna show you how to rewire that pattern so you can finally attract healthy, high-value love that lasts.

I'll also share the real story of how I went from broken patterns and painful relationships to helping women around the world create elite love, legacy, and emotional freedom.

So if you're tired of skiing into the same tree in love, baby, this episode is your reset. Let's rewire that mind and attract the kind of love your soul's been craving.

Hit play, and let's dive in.

Let's be honest, babe — how many times have you said, "I just didn't feel the connection," and walked away from someone who could've actually been good for you? Today, we're going to break that pattern — because that "chemistry" you keep chasing? It's not connection. It's your trauma calling.

In this episode, we're diving deep into the science and psychology of attraction — what really happens in your body when you feel butterflies, and why those butterflies are often a warning, not a green light. You'll learn how your subconscious is wired to recognize what's familiar, not necessarily what's healthy… and how to start reprogramming that pattern so you can attract love that feels calm, safe, and secure — not chaotic.

We're talking biochemistry, emotional rewiring, and feminine awareness — because once you understand how your body and mind respond to love, you stop falling for potential and start choosing alignment.

So get comfortable, take a deep breath, and let's talk about why that spark you keep waiting for might actually be the very thing holding you back from real love.

In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who's still exploring life, to the Prince who's building his empire, and finally, the King who's ready to love and lead with purpose.

You'll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren't yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who's prepared to meet you at your level.

This conversation isn't about judgment — it's about awareness. When you understand how men evolve, you stop taking their confusion personally and start making wiser choices in love.

If you've ever wondered why he pulled away, why he can't commit, or why he suddenly transformed after the breakup… this episode will give you the clarity you've been searching for.

✨ Tune in to learn:

The 4 main phases of a man's evolution — and what each one means for your relationship
How to know if he's a Knight, a Prince, or a King
What to do if you've been loving a man still "in the tunnel"
The mindset of women who attract men ready for lifelong partnership

Because once you understand the masculine journey, you'll never chase potential again — you'll attract readiness.

In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who's still exploring life, to the Prince who's building his empire, and finally, the King who's ready to love and lead with purpose.

You'll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren't yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who's prepared to meet you at your level.

This conversation isn't about judgment — it's about awareness. When you understand how men evolve, you stop taking their confusion personally and start making wiser choices in love.

If you've ever wondered why he pulled away, why he can't commit, or why he suddenly transformed after the breakup… this episode will give you the clarity you've been searching for.

✨ Tune in to learn:

The 4 main phases of a man's evolution — and what each one means for your relationship
How to know if he's a Knight, a Prince, or a King
What to do if you've been loving a man still "in the tunnel"
The mindset of women who attract men ready for lifelong partnership

Because once you understand the masculine journey, you'll never chase potential again — you'll attract readiness.

Ma'am, let's be real for a second — have you ever caught yourself falling for a man you knew wasn't good for you, but something about him just pulled you in anyway? You're not crazy, and it's not because you don't know better — it's because your brain chemistry has been tricking you.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reason why you keep attracting men who can't meet you at your level. We're talking biochemistry, childhood wiring, and how your hormones make dysfunction feel like connection. You'll learn what actually makes a man bond for life, why broke men drain your feminine energy, and how to reset your attraction to call in elite, emotionally mature love.

This conversation is deep, honest, and eye-opening — and by the end, you'll understand that it's not about changing who you are… it's about remembering the power you already hold.

💋 Let's talk about healing your chemistry, raising your standards, and finally attracting the kind of love that feels safe, sexy, and real.

Ladies, let’s talk truth. You don’t have to settle. You don’t have to reward a man just for being a “good guy.” That’s baseline. In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between the Build-a-Bear — the man you have to fix, motivate, and carry — and the Elite Man, who’s already in his purpose, ready to pour into your life, and equipped to lead, love, and protect you.

I’m sharing how I went from attracting broken, draining relationships to being married to my best friend — an elite man who believes in me, invests in me, and makes my life softer and more abundant every single day. You’ll learn the exact energetic balance that magnetizes a high-value man, and how to clear the subconscious love blocks that have been keeping you from the love that’s already calling your name.

Because here’s the truth: real love isn’t luck, it’s alignment. When you embody your feminine energy, you naturally attract the man who was designed for you — the one who will love your soul and build an empire with you.

This is your sign to stop settling for potential and start receiving partnership. Your elite man is already waiting — it’s time you align with the frequency of love that matches your worth.

What if finding the love you deserve isn’t about luck, but about science and strategy? In this episode, I reveal how a dating experiment with over 100 dates and 4,000 interviews led me to uncover the step-by-step formula for attracting elite, high-value men. You’ll hear the truth about why so many successful women settle for less, how hidden love blocks keep you stuck in painful patterns, and the exact shifts that allow you to magnetize wealthy, faithful, deeply devoted men who want to support your dreams. Get ready, because this conversation isn’t about surviving in love—it’s about thriving in it.

I’m Shay, Your Love Diva, and I’m here to tell you the truth that no one else will. I went from getting played by men who didn’t show up, cheated, or treated me like I wasn’t enough… to attracting wealthy, successful men who want to pour into me, commit to me, and love my soul. In this episode, I break down exactly how I learned to trigger curiosity, anticipation, and polarity—the secret formula that turns the dating game upside down. If you’re ready to stop sabotaging your love life and start attracting the man of your dreams, this is your blueprint.

Welcome, beautiful Diva. I’m Shay, and in this episode, we’re diving deep into the truth about love, connection, and the science behind attraction. So many women lie to themselves about what they truly want, but I’m here to tell you—it’s okay to admit you desire love, marriage, and your soulmate. You were already created as a wife, and when the right man finds you, he finds a prize.

I’ll guide you through the phases of attraction and courting, explain how oxytocin and vasopressin shape how men and women fall in love, and reveal why timing, discernment, and your feminine energy are everything. This isn’t about playing games—it’s about understanding your power, moving with wisdom, and allowing yourself to receive without guilt.

If you’ve ever wondered why men bond more slowly, why giving too soon sabotages your relationships, or why successful men crave women who let them provide, this episode will transform how you see love forever.

Ladies, let me learn you something—because this right here will save you from years of heartache. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly how you know if a man is who he really says he is. And let me tell you, it’s not about what comes out of his mouth—it’s about time and tests. That’s called vetting, and baby, you can’t rush it.

We’re diving into the science of bonding hormones, why men lose interest after sex too soon, and how your unhealed childhood wounds might be making you a magnet for the wrong type of man. I’m going to teach you why men can spot your insecurities faster than you can, and how to shift your vibration so you no longer attract low-level, Build-a-Bear type relationships.

This episode is about reclaiming your power in love. No more rushing. No more ignoring red flags. No more being easy prey. I’ll show you how to create a game plan, put men through the right kind of tests, and stand in your worth like the high-value woman you are.

So grab your journal, lean in, and let’s talk about how you can truly discern a man’s intentions and protect your heart while still being open to love.

Ladies… have you noticed what’s happening in the dating world right now? More ghosting. More men expecting you to prove yourself. More “build-a-bears” walking around wanting to be earned instead of stepping up as providers. It’s not just you — the dating game has shifted, and not in your favor. But here’s the truth...

I used to get played — lied to, cheated on, even ended up marrying a man who wasn’t even legally single. I went from heartbreak to heartbreak, found myself homeless with a child, and realized I was stuck in the same generational cycles my mother and grandmother went through. So I made a promise to my daughter: I would break the pattern. And I did.

In this episode, I share how I went from being overlooked to deeply valued — from men disappearing on me to men showing up with cars, homes, and real commitment — and I didn’t have to compromise my values or give away anything sacred to receive it.

I’ll walk you through the science of attraction, the six core needs of a man, and the top mistake so many strong women make: choosing from a place of pain rather than power.

If you’re tired of being stuck, confused, or playing small in love — this episode will help you shift. The dating world has changed, but you can change your experience with strategy, healing, and a deep sense of self-worth.

Let me show you how.

I used to believe that once I hit a certain financial milestone—once I made that million dollars in a single month—I’d feel on top of the world. But when I got there, the high never came. Instead, I found myself sitting in a dark, hollow space wondering… what is all of this really for? That moment forced me to reevaluate everything.

Then I received an email from one of my most difficult clients—Deirdre—and her story pulled me straight out of that darkness. She had been living in pain, disconnected from her children, surrounded by clutter, and preparing for death. And through our work together, she didn’t just shift—she transformed. Her body, her home, her relationships, her entire spirit was renewed. That’s when it hit me: this is what I was put here to do.

In this episode, I open up about the moment I reconnected to my real mission. I share what it means to feel your soulmate approaching, how our choices align—or misalign—with our timelines, and what happens when we hesitate instead of choosing ourselves. This isn’t just about love or success—it’s about honoring the divine timing of your life and refusing to let self-sabotage steal your future.

If you’ve ever felt the pull toward more, if you've felt your soulmate before you've seen him, or if you’ve questioned your path even at your highest moment—this is the episode your soul's been waiting for.

Ma'am… if you don’t know who you are, you’re going to attract love from the lowest version of your story—your trauma, your insecurity, your broken expectations. And then you wonder why the connection drains you.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the truth most women were never taught: men are not all the same—and they’re not all in the same stage. Some are stuck in their Knight phase, chasing fun with no vision. Others are Princes, ready to build—but only with the right kind of woman. And then there are Kings… the ones who give, lead, and provide from a place of purpose and healed masculine energy.

I’ll walk you through:

Why asking for “the bare minimum” is costing you everything
The energetic mistake women make when choosing partners
The difference between a man who’s ready and a man who’s comfortable
How your nervous system might still be wired for men who keep you guessing
What it really takes to attract a man who wants to give you the castle, not just visit yours

If you're tired of dating men who say all the right things but show up with the wrong energy… this is the conversation your heart has been waiting for.

Press play—and let’s recalibrate your standards, your energy, and your love life.

Ladies… let me talk to you real quick.

If you’ve ever found yourself falling too fast, getting attached to a few sweet words and a little chemistry, and then wondering why he disappears, this episode is your wake-up call.

I’m breaking down the science behind why you bond before he even begins to care, and why that keeps putting you in relationships where you overgive, overthink, and end up overlooked.

You’re not crazy. You’re not needy. You’re wired to fall fast — but you were never taught how to date from your feminine power.

In this episode, I’m going to show you the energetic and biochemical traps that most high-achieving, heart-centered women fall into — and how to recalibrate your dating approach so you’re no longer drawn to men who drain you.

We’re talking:

Masculine vs. feminized men (and how to spot the difference fast)
Why dinner dates might be setting you up to bond too soon
What’s really happening in your body when you feel “chemistry”
And how to start dating in a way that protects your energy and aligns with the love you actually deserve

It’s time to stop being impressed by potential and start being chosen by alignment.

What’s the difference between a woman who looks feminine and a woman who embodies feminine energy?

In this episode, we go deep into the subtle energetic shifts that separate a woman who draws high-value masculine men toward her effortlessly—and one who constantly finds herself being ghosted, misunderstood, or left feeling like “pretty” just isn’t enough.

We’re not talking about performing softness, dimming your light, or using femininity as a tactic. We’re talking about recalibrating your energetic field so that love doesn’t just notice you—it chooses you.

You’ll learn: ✨ Why feminine embodiment creates magnetic polarity (and how to activate it) ✨ The #1 turn-off for masculine men (and how to shift it without losing your power) ✨ What it really means to create space for love, not just success ✨ How to stop attracting men who drain you—and start aligning with the one who wants to pour into you

This isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about coming home to the version of you that love is already looking for.

Hey Queens 💋 It’s Shay, and in today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the exact shifts that took me from attracting emotionally unavailable, feminized men… to being fully magnetized to masculine, high-value providers who lead, protect, and pour into me.

I’m not holding back. Because the truth is—it’s not about your looks, your degrees, or how “healed” you think you are. It’s about your energetic alignment. It’s about what your nervous system is subconsciously choosing on autopilot.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

👑 The real reason smart, spiritual, powerful women keep attracting men who drain them 👑 How your childhood conditioning is secretly creating your love patterns 👑 What it actually means to embody feminine energy and stop overfunctioning 👑 Why the love you’re dreaming of is waiting for you to realign with it—not chase it 👑 And the three codes you must activate to become the woman love is already seeking

Listen… you are not too much. You are not too late. You are simply overdue for a recalibration of your love blueprint.

So turn this all the way up, grab your journal, and let’s get into the divine strategy that will rewrite the love story your body has been carrying.

Because baby girl—when you’re energetically aligned, you don’t chase love... you attract it.

Ladies… we need to talk.

If you’re still calling it “talking” after three months, I love you—but you are playing yourself. There is no such thing as “talking” in grown-woman dating. That’s just a holding pattern for a man who’s keeping his options open.

In this episode, I’m breaking it all the way down. We’re going deep into why so many high-potential women get stuck in situationships, why you’re still attracting emotionally unavailable men, and how your nervous system might be addicted to the chaos you think is chemistry.

Here’s what we’re covering: — What it really means when he hasn’t claimed you by Month 3 — Why butterflies are not romance—they’re a trauma response — The science of bonding: when a man actually falls for you — How to stop settling and start dating with divine standards — The 5 non-negotiable levels of compatibility you must vet for

Listen, I’m not here to sugarcoat anything. I’m here to help you stop wasting your time, heal your love blocks, and finally attract the man who’s ready to love, lead, and claim you.

So if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still ending up disappointed—press play. You’re not crazy. You’re just not dating with the tools you were never taught to use.

This episode will change that.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many high-value women stay single, situationshipped, or endlessly heartbroken — and it has nothing to do with your looks, your past, or your worth.

We’re diving deep into: The 5 phases of every relationship — and the exact spot where most women get stuck The science of masculine bonding (and why you fall fast while he falls slow) The truth about testosterone, oxytocin, and what’s really happening in his body when he says he’s "just not ready" Why being amazing isn’t enough to be chosen — and how to shift from “situationship energy” into becoming the woman he instinctively wants to commit to How to release outdated dating patterns and start embodying the version of you that aligned love is already looking for

If you’ve ever felt like love skips over you — or that men adore you but never fully claim you — this episode will feel like turning on the lights in a room you’ve been stumbling through for years.

This is not about chasing, fixing, or shrinking. It’s about remembering who you are… and moving like it.

Sis… this episode is a testimony.

After 10 years of no contact—no texts, no calls, no clue what he was doing—God brought him back. And not just back… but better. Evolved. Ready. Aligned.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing the raw, unfiltered story of how Love Bugg and I reconnected after a decade of life, heartbreak, and growth. You’ll hear what really happened behind the scenes—how I healed, how he transformed, and how divine timing led us both back to the kind of love that doesn’t play games, doesn’t make you beg, and doesn’t disappear when things get real.

Inside this episode: The spiritual breadcrumbs that led me back to him How I knew he was the one—without needing to chase What vasopressin does to a man’s brain when he truly bonds Why masculine men don’t cheat when they’ve chosen their queen The difference between a man who’s interested and one who’s invested

If you’ve ever doubted love… If you’ve ever been told to “just settle”... If you’ve ever felt like maybe it’s just not going to happen for you…

Let this be your reminder: What’s meant for you will always find its way back—once you’re healed enough to receive it.

Don’t forget to follow the show, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with another queen who needs to hear it.

In this episode, I’m taking you deep into the psychology of masculine commitment—the real science behind what makes a high-value man not just desire you, but choose you. This isn’t about playing games or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about understanding how the masculine mind bonds, what ignites long-term devotion, and how to awaken the part of you that naturally draws commitment without chasing it.

We’ll explore the subtle shifts in energy, language, and presence that create magnetic polarity, and I’ll walk you through the core principles that high-caliber men respond to instinctively. If you've ever found yourself in situationships, half-commitments, or confused dynamics, this episode will bring clarity, power, and a whole new standard for how you show up in love.

This is about seduction, yes—but the kind rooted in truth, self-worth, and feminine depth.

Let’s begin.

Welcome to the Love On Command podcast! I’m Shay, your certified love transformer and master love coach. Join me as I dive deep into the complexities of dating, relationships, and self-discovery. In each episode, I share my nearly 20 years of experience helping women heal, transform, and attract the right partners.

Are you frustrated with the dating game? Do you feel lost, hurt, or disappointed? I’m here to reveal the reasons behind these feelings and empower you to trust your intuition and judgment again. With insights drawn from my extensive research, including over 100 dates and interviews with thousands of men and women, I uncover the science of attraction and the patterns in male behavior.

I emphasize the importance of understanding your feminine energy and power, guiding you to recognize your worth and discern the intentions of those around you. I challenge common misconceptions about dating and relationships, helping you navigate the confusing advice that often leads to frustration.

Whether you're seeking love, healing from past relationships, or simply looking to enhance your understanding of yourself, Love On Command is here to support you. Remember, no matter your past experiences, you are always the prize. Tune in each week for empowering discussions, practical advice, and the inspiration you need to take control of your love life.

Join me on this transformative journey and rediscover the confidence to attract the love you deserve!

In this episode, I’m breaking down why FaceTime and dinner dates are not enough—and how too many women are unknowingly setting themselves up to be consumed like a buffet instead of being savored like fine dining. I’m walking you through the psychology, the energetics, and the strategy behind holding your value from the very beginning. Because here's the truth: if you're giving him access to all of you too soon—your time, your energy, your body—you're killing the very desire you're trying to build.

We’re talking about setting a standard that says you are high-ticket, high-value, and not everyone gets the privilege of your presence. I'm also diving into the six phases of a relationship, the science behind male attraction, and what actually creates that magnetic pull that keeps him thinking about you long after the date ends.

If you've ever wondered why he pulled back after dinner, why he stopped putting in effort after you gave him your time, or how to cultivate real feminine power without chasing or overgiving—this episode is your blueprint.

Listen in, take notes, and let this be the last time you show up to a first date hoping to be chosen. From now on, you are the one doing the choosing.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the fascinating world of dating, relationships, and personal empowerment. I’m Shay your love Diva, and today we’ll be exploring how your unique love archetype impacts your dating life and how you can harness this understanding to attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

We’ll cover everything from the science behind attraction to the six key phases of a relationship. Plus, I’ll be sharing some powerful insights from my work with women across the globe—helping you identify and break free from the patterns that may be holding you back in love.

By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to better understand your love archetype and the confidence to navigate the dating world with clarity and grace. So, get comfortable and let’s dive in—your love life is about to transform!

In this episode of Unlocking Love, I’m diving deep into the subconscious blocks that may be sabotaging your love life. I’m going to help you uncover the hidden patterns you may not even know are holding you back—from generational influences to the subtle messages you're unknowingly sending. I’ll break down the science of attraction and why knowing your love archetype is key to attracting the right partner. If you’ve been dating with insecurities, struggling to heal from past traumas, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong men, this episode is for you. I’m sharing powerful insights and strategies to help you break free from old patterns and open the door to healthy, high-value relationships. Let’s transform your love life together and set you up for lasting, meaningful connection.

Hey love, in this episode, I’m breaking down the top 5 mistakes that might be blocking you from finding the relationship you deserve. I’ll share the sneaky ways we self-sabotage, why being “too busy” is hurting your chances at love, and the truth about feminine energy that no one talks about. Plus, I’m spilling the #1 mistake I see high-achieving women make that keeps them stuck in a cycle of heartbreak. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally attract your romantic best friend, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in!

In this episode, I’m breaking down the science of attraction and how to call in a financially successful man who matches your energy and ambition. You’ll learn how to tap into the power of your feminine energy, navigate the six phases of a relationship, and avoid the traps that keep women stuck in cycles with emotionally unavailable men. I’m sharing my personal experiences from my dating journey, including what I learned from dating successful men and how I attracted my husband, who still makes me blush after 10 years! Tune in to discover the biochemical processes that shape attraction and bonding, and how you can use them to your advantage in dating. This episode is packed with tips, insights, and real talk to help you level up your love life—don’t miss it!

Hey loves, it’s Shay here! In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into why giving too much in a relationship can actually make men less interested. It might seem like you’re showing love and care, but sometimes, over-giving can cause imbalance and even push someone away. I’m sharing insights on how to find the perfect balance of giving and receiving and how to keep your energy aligned to attract the right kind of attention. Trust me, you won’t want to miss this! Let’s talk about how you can love yourself and set boundaries without losing your power. Tune in!

In this episode, we're diving into the dynamics of attraction and the science behind why some women find themselves in unfulfilling relationships. Join me as I share personal experiences and insights, revealing how understanding male psychology can empower you to attract the right partner. Discover the essential rules of the game, learn how to shift your energy, and understand the types of men to look out for. Get ready to take control of your love life!

Welcome to Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into the intricate dance of love, relationships, and self-discovery. In this episode, I unpack the essential steps you must take before jumping back into dating—because if you're still healing from heartbreak, battling insecurities, or facing financial challenges, it’s time to pause and prioritize your healing journey.

Join me as I share insights on the importance of recognizing your love blocks, understanding the different faces of a man—from his public persona to his secret self—and how your past can shape your present relationships. I’ll guide you through the transformative process of healing, empowering you to attract the right partner who truly aligns with your worth.

Get ready for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms and encourages you to value your time and emotional well-being. It’s time to step into your power, embrace your femininity, and attract the love you deserve. Tune in and let’s end the cycle together!

Do you really know who you're dating? In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind men's behavior and uncover the 3 faces every man has: public, private, and secret. I break down why rushing into a relationship or marriage too quickly can prevent you from truly getting to know who you're with. Learn the importance of taking your time, vetting his character, values, and intentions to avoid toxic relationships and heartbreak.

We also discuss how unhealed love blocks may cause you to attract the wrong men over and over again—and how to break the cycle. Tune in to discover why proper discernment in relationships is crucial, just like any other major life decision, and how you can start attracting the love you deserve.

If you're ready to stop the pattern of attracting narcissists and want to find a man who truly loves and values you, this episode is for you!

Ready to stay single forever? In this playful yet insightful episode, I'm flipping the script to reveal 10 surefire ways to keep attracting toxic relationships and living a life of mediocrity. Using a little reverse psychology, I’ll show you how the mind resists change and how you can use that to your advantage. From dating the wrong types to staying stuck in old patterns, we’re diving deep into the self-sabotaging behaviors that keep you from the healthy love you deserve. So, do I have permission to be your coach today? Tune in, and let's trick your brain into choosing better!

Perfect for women ready to break free from dating disasters, this episode is your guide to decoding your patterns and turning them around for good.

Did you know that female eagles put their potential mates through a series of challenges to prove they’re worthy partners? In this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of eagle mating rituals and uncover what they can teach us about modern dating.

Why are so many women still trying to qualify themselves for men who haven’t earned their place in their lives? It’s time to shift the narrative, ladies. Stop settling and start raising your standards. Learn how to embody the strength of an eagle and choose a partner who truly matches your worth and vision for the future.

🔥 In This Episode:

The inspiring eagle mating process and its lessons for dating today
How to stop proving yourself to those who aren’t worthy
Identifying a partner who truly aligns with your values and goals

Hit play and transform how you approach love and relationships! It’s time to set boundaries, understand your worth, and never settle for less than you deserve.

Ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? In this compelling session, I’ll break down the biochemical and psychological factors that drive romantic connections. Discover how understanding your own and your partner's hormones, like vasopressin, can empower you to attract the love you desire. With over 180,000 women transformed through my unique approach, I’ve turned heartbreak into happy endings, offering insights from my personal journey of overcoming adversity to mastering the dating game.

I’ll share my incredible story—from aspiring pediatric cardiologist to dating guru. I’ll reveal how I conducted groundbreaking experiments, dating 100 men in just over three months, to uncover the secrets of successful relationships. Learn how to avoid common pitfalls, understand the rules of the dating game, and harness your feminine energy to attract the right partner.

My advice isn’t just theory—it’s a roadmap to real results. Whether you’re dealing with love blocks, recovering from a toxic relationship, or seeking to enhance your dating strategy, this session is packed with actionable insights to transform your love life. Join me and discover how you can use the science of attraction to create the relationship and life of your dreams.

Are men truly wired for monogamy? In this episode, we delve into the biological and biochemical factors that influence a man's commitment. From the surge of testosterone to the vital role of vasopressin and dopamine, we break down how science drives male bonding and the instincts behind monogamy. Join us as we uncover the signs of a man who’s genuinely committed versus one who's just playing games. This episode offers empowering insights for women navigating relationships, highlighting the importance of recognizing true commitment and knowing when it’s time to move on. Tune in for essential relationship advice and truths you won't want to miss!

In this episode, we dive deep into the "Pull Away Phase" in relationships, often referred to as the "Rubber Band Phase," as explained by Dr. John Gray in his book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. This phase can be confusing and frustrating, but understanding it can significantly affect how you handle it. We explore: * The biochemical reasons behind why men pull away. * How this phase typically occurs around 2.5 to 3 months into the relationship. * The importance of confidence and independence in navigating this phase. * Common mistakes women make during this phase, like sending long texts or trying to force commitment too soon. * The role of testosterone and cortisol in a man's behavior during this phase. * The dangers of rushing into relationships, including the risk of attracting narcissists. * The importance of patience and vetting your partner before making long-term commitments.

If you're struggling with understanding your partner's behavior or want to strengthen your relationship, this video offers valuable insights. Resources: * Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by Dr. John Gray * Dr. Leanne Brizendine's research on the male brain * Dr. Don Maslar's studies on human attraction

Hey there, beautiful Divas! Join me on a fabulous wine tour in Cape Town with our charming guide, Gray, as we sip and chat about the ins and outs of love, dating, and relationships.

In this episode, we dive into the heart of South African romance, exploring everything from the traditional Lobola (bride price) to the modern dynamics of dating. Gray shares his unique insights on how men choose their partners, what makes someone "marriage material," and the cultural nuances that shape relationships in South Africa.

Curious about the real deal behind marriage proposals and relationship expectations? Tune in to hear Gray’s take on what it means to be a man in love, how education and financial stability play a role, and why commitment matters.

Get ready for a heartfelt conversation that breaks down barriers and offers a fresh perspective on love. Don’t miss this chance to enrich your understanding of global romance and gain valuable relationship advice!

Subscribe now and let’s discover love together!

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the intriguing science behind first dates and why a dinner date might be the worst choice if you're looking for a long-term relationship. We explore how the dinner date can inadvertently sabotage your chances of finding a committed partner by focusing on curiosity, anticipation, and polarity.

Learn why setting boundaries and making strategic choices about your time can significantly impact how a potential partner perceives you. From the animal kingdom to modern dating practices, we break down the psychology of attraction and the importance of maintaining your feminine energy.

You can tune in to find practical advice on navigating dating with intention and setting yourself up for a successful and fulfilling relationship.

Join me as we dive deep into why some women find themselves doing it all in relationships, only to get minimal effort in return. We’ll uncover the science behind true emotional connection and how biochemical responses play a role in commitment. Learn the secrets to distinguishing between genuine affection and mere manipulation. Plus, I’ll reveal why it’s crucial to set high standards and truly vet potential partners. Tune in for insights that could transform your approach to love and relationships!

Welcome to The Love on Command podcast, where we decode the mysteries of relationships with sass and wisdom! Join me as I spill the tea on navigating love phases, dodging red flags, and reclaiming your power. From attracting quality partners to avoiding heartbreaks, we're diving deep into what makes love work. Get ready to laugh, learn, and boss up in your dating life with me, your host, delivering truth bombs straight to your earbuds!

Welcome to this episode where we explore the intriguing dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships, all through the lens of biology. Drawing from my experience in science and pharmaceutical sales, we'll uncover how a man's behavior directly impacts his biochemistry, influencing everything from testosterone levels to stress responses. I'll highlight why embracing masculine energy is crucial for fostering healthy connections, and we'll dissect the consequences of feminizing men in modern relationships. Join me to discover why mutual investment and self-respect are pivotal in creating and sustaining meaningful partnerships.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we dive deep into understanding and overcoming love blocks to attract the relationships you truly deserve. Join us as we explore powerful strategies, insights, and stories from over 20 years of experience, helping women heal, activate their feminine energy, and become an irresistible magnet for love. Get ready to transform your love life and unlock the secrets to attracting the partner who is perfect for you. Tune in, and let's start your journey to finding true, lasting love.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, where we delve into relationships, exploring how masculine and feminine energies influence dating and attraction. Discover why being in your masculine energy might hinder finding the right partner. We'll decode the science—from biochemistry to subconscious patterns—shedding light on why some effortlessly attract great relationships while others struggle.

Join us for strategies to heal past wounds and embrace your authentic feminine energy. Whether you're navigating dating, strengthening connections, or curious about personal growth, we're here to empower you. Let's transform your approach to relationships, uncovering insights, inspiration, and actionable steps to cultivate meaningful connections and unlock your true magnetic potential.

Tune in for a deeper, more fulfilling love life.

In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of love on our lives, emphasizing its status as a vital human need rather than a mere want. We explore how love, beyond emotional desire, becomes a core element of our existence, influencing us on both biological and spiritual levels.

Through personal stories and insightful revelations, we challenge the common dismissal of love, advocating for its transformative power. We celebrate the beauty of genuine, nurturing partnerships while debunking misconceptions about relationships.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of attraction, relationships, and self-discovery, urging listeners to seek wisdom in their pursuit of love. With a blend of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt sincerity, we redefine the narrative surrounding love, empowering listeners to embrace its profound gift.

Welcome to the Love on Command Podcast, your ultimate guide to mastering the intricacies of love, dating, and relationships. In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of romantic connections, offering invaluable insights and advice that you won't want to miss.

Join us as we explore the unique dynamics between men and women, drawing on expert advice from relationship coach Alison Armstrong. Understand how men and women differ fundamentally and how this knowledge can work to your advantage. We'll discuss the different stages men go through in their lives and relationships, and how recognizing these stages can help you better navigate your own love life.

Learn how to identify a man's intentions, avoid being a placeholder, and ensure you are treated with the respect and love you deserve. We'll also cover the importance of setting standards and maintaining them, the power of feminine energy, and the art of timing in communication.

Whether you're single and looking to start a relationship or married and seeking to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with powerful strategies to help you understand and connect with your partner on a deeper level. Tune in and transform your approach to love and relationships with the Love on Command Podcast.

Stay tuned, beautiful boss divas, for a full and powerful episode that will change the way you view and handle your love life!

Join me as I dive into the secrets of creating lasting love and fulfilling relationships. With over two decades of experience helping successful women find their perfect partners, I share practical tips and transformative insights on embracing your feminine energy, attracting high-quality men, and maintaining a loving, supportive partnership. Whether you're single, dating, or married, discover how to become the best version of yourself and build a relationship where love flourishes. Tune in for empowering advice, real-life stories, and strategies to make your love life thrive.

In this episode, we dive into the attraction phase of relationships, exploring how different personality types draw specific kinds of partners. For Type A women, known as "rubies," their career-driven, masculine energy often attracts men in their feminine energy. This dynamic can lead to increased stress and exhaustion, as these women typically have lower estrogen and higher cortisol levels. We’ll discuss how this energy imbalance draws in "feminized" men or narcissists, who further drain their energy.

We also examine other personality types, such as "amethysts" and "citrines," who have faced extreme trauma. These individuals often attract partners who recognize and exploit their pain, resulting in abusive and manipulative relationships. The importance of healing to break these destructive patterns and attract healthier partners cannot be overstated.

Additionally, we debunk the romanticized idea of love at first sight, explaining that initial attraction is driven by biochemical reactions, particularly the triggering of a man's testosterone. By understanding these dynamics, women can recognize and address their love blocks, ultimately transforming their attraction patterns to find fulfilling and balanced relationships.

Join us as we explore these insights and empower you to create healthier relationship dynamics.

In this episode of our podcast, I dive deep into the transformative potential of feminine and sexual energy. We explore how societal norms often lead women to feel used and disconnected from their true power. Drawing from historical sources and modern insights, we discuss reclaiming feminine energy as a potent force for manifesting love, wealth, and health. Addressing issues of sexual trauma and societal conditioning, we offer practical guidance on harnessing sexual energy to heal and create the life you desire. Join me for an empowering conversation on reclaiming your feminine power and stopping the leakage of your sexual energy.

In today's episode, we explore Sarah's remarkable journey through Diva University, a transformative experience that saw her overcoming deep-seated fears, dismantling limiting beliefs, and reclaiming her self-worth.

Join us as we follow Sarah's courageous steps towards personal growth, which not only empowered her but also led to positive changes in her relationships and overall life. Through dedication, guidance, and perseverance, Sarah exemplified the importance of investing in oneself and seeking support systems conducive to healing and growth.

Listen in as Sarah's story serves as a beacon of hope, encouraging listeners to trust the process, embrace vulnerability, and prioritize their personal development. Through her journey, Sarah reminds us of the power we hold to rewrite our narratives, break free from the past, and create fulfilling futures filled with love and possibility.

In this episode, I'll be diving deep into the intricate science of attraction and the six essential phases that define every relationship journey. Drawing from my extensive experience as a master certified love strategist, I'll introduce you to five distinct love archetypes—ruby, amethyst, onyx, diamond, and creme—crafted over my two-decade-long career dedicated to helping women heal and discover their ideal romantic partners. Throughout our conversation, I'll unveil how each archetype approaches the realm of dating, attracts potential partners, and navigates the intricate landscape of relationships. From shedding light on trauma responses to unraveling subconscious patterns, I'll share invaluable insights aimed at empowering women to embark on a journey of transformation in their love lives. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on a journey toward understanding and harnessing the power of love in its myriad forms.

Join me for an insightful discussion on the crucial importance of self-value in relationships and dating. I passionately advocate for women to prioritize their time and avoid freely giving it away. Excessive phone calls and early dinner dates can inadvertently signal low self-worth. Instead, I propose coffee dates as a practical means to vet potential partners and establish mutual respect and compatibility.

With an emphasis on dating with intention, I share personal anecdotes and illuminating insights supported by scientific research. Let's delve into how nurturing a healthy, supportive relationship can positively impact various facets of life, from career success to overall well-being. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration of finding lasting love and building a fulfilling partnership.

In this episode, we will cover the profound reasons behind the dissatisfaction experienced by many women in their relationships, whether they are single, dating, or married. Join us as we explore how societal expectations and misconceptions have led women astray, leaving them drained and disconnected.

We'll delve into the science of attraction and relationship dynamics, uncovering the secrets to fostering genuine connections and deepening intimacy. Learn about the stages of healing, activating feminine energy, and embracing your authentic self to attract the love you truly deserve.

Discover practical strategies and transformative insights that will empower you to navigate the dating landscape with clarity and intention. This episode is a roadmap for women seeking to reclaim agency in their love lives and cultivate relationships rooted in mutual respect, joy, and fulfillment.

In this empowering episode, join us as we hear about Khadija's inspiring journey of transformation. Khadija opens up about her life before Boston University, where she navigated the challenges of divorce and a profound sense of loss and stress.

Through her commitment and investment in herself, Khadija discovered a path to true self-worth and confidence. She shares how participating in the transformative Bosti program allowed her to shed fear and embrace love, ultimately leading to a profound shift in her life and relationships.

Join us as Khadija discusses the incredible changes she experienced—moving from stress to self-assurance, from fear to love. Through her heartfelt words, Khadija encourages listeners to invest in themselves and prioritize self-love. Discover how she unlocked her feminine energy and found joy, and gain insights into the program that helped her blossom into the woman she was meant to be.

In this episode, we meet Maria Castillon, a successful entrepreneur whose journey from Mexico to Silicon Valley led her to helm a multimillion-dollar furniture company. Despite professional achievements, Maria felt a personal void and turned to self-care and personal development.

Joining Shay's Boss Diva program was pivotal for Maria. Guided by mentorship and tools like meditation and coaching, Maria regained clarity and confidence. As she healed personally, her business thrived, expanding globally.

Maria's story extends beyond business success. She redefined her relationships, prioritizing self-worth over validation. Now in a fulfilling partnership, Maria advocates fearlessly investing in personal growth, emphasizing that self-worth attracts fulfillment and success.

Explore the fascinating world of dating and attraction through this insightful presentation. Discover the intricate biochemical responses that drive romantic connections, with a focus on triggering vasopressin in men and managing oxytocin in women for lasting relationships. Learn why rushing physical intimacy can hinder long-term bonding and the importance of allowing time for a genuine connection to flourish. Gain valuable insights into power dynamics within relationships and empower yourself to recognize your worth. Ultimately, embrace a message of empowerment and self-value as you navigate the journey of love and connection.

Unlock the secrets of love, dating, and relationships in today's powerful episode. Join us as we debunk myths and explore the true dynamics at play. From understanding masculine and feminine energies to navigating the courting phase, this episode is packed with insights. Don't miss out!

In this episode, we're diving into feminine energy, intuition, and seduction. I'm speaking directly to women who've faced betrayal in relationships, stressing the need to trust their intuition and feminine power.

I begin by acknowledging women's innate ability to sense relationship issues, emphasizing the strength of feminine intuition. I discuss how societal pressures lead women to ignore red flags, disconnecting from their authentic selves.

Exploring feminine energy, I explain its association with women due to biological factors like estrogen levels. Society's push for equality often causes women to adopt more masculine traits, diluting their feminine power.

I also delve into the historical context of seduction, highlighting how women's innate allure has been exploited. Women must reclaim their feminine power and heal past traumas to attract healthier relationships.

Ultimately, this episode aims to empower women to embrace their intuition, tap into their feminine energy, and navigate relationships with confidence and authenticity.

Hey there, beautiful Diva! Welcome to another insightful episode where we'll dive deep into the fascinating world of dating and relationships. Today, I want to share some invaluable nuggets of wisdom that will help you navigate the twists and turns of the romantic journey.

Let's start by unpacking some intriguing concepts, shall we? Ever heard of the "Pull Away Phase" or the "Coolidge Effect"? Well, buckle up, because we're going to explore why men sometimes seem to lose interest out of the blue, and how understanding these phenomena can empower you in your love life.

Now, let's talk about triggering vasopressin and ramping up curiosity, anticipation, and polarity. These aren't just fancy terms; they're keys to unlocking deeper connections and fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships. And hey, setting standards and healing past wounds? Crucial steps in attracting the partner you truly deserve.

So, grab a cup of tea, cozy up, and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with a newfound clarity and confidence to navigate the romantic landscape with grace and authenticity. Let's dive in!

Welcome to Love on Command podcast, where we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, dating dynamics, and self-love. As a certified Love Transformer and one of the top love coaches in the world, I bring you raw, unfiltered truths about love, dating, and femininity. Join me as I share insights, advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the intricate world of love and relationships. From understanding the pull-away phase to mastering the art of seduction, we cover it all. Get ready to transform your love life and unleash your inner diva.

In today's episode, we explore the intricate link between mental and physical well-being. I propose that a significant portion of weight gain is linked to inflammation, often stemming from past traumas and negative relationships. It's crucial to address these emotional wounds and boost self-worth for overall health and fulfilling relationships. Through personal anecdotes and client interactions, I highlight the transformative power of healing emotional scars on all aspects of life. Let's prioritize self-love, empowerment, and acknowledging our inherent worth for a healthier, happier existence.

In this thought-provoking podcast, join us as we delve into the profound influence of feminine energy and sexual power. From the societal shifts in masculinity to the ancient wisdom of feminine seduction, we explore how women's innate power has been historically marginalized and how reclaiming it can lead to profound personal transformation. Learn how to harness your sexual energy for manifestation, heal past traumas, and step into your true worthiness. Tune in for enlightening discussions and empowering insights to reclaim your feminine power and create your desired life.

Welcome to today's episode where we delve into the intricacies of attracting a deeply fulfilling relationship with a compatible partner. As your guide, I emphasize the crucial role of embracing truth and readiness for transformative change to enhance your journey towards finding love.

We explore the common challenges confronted by women, particularly those over 40, shedding light on tendencies towards excessive independence, operating predominantly in masculine energy, and the lingering impact of unresolved traumas on relationship dynamics.

Moreover, we dissect the phenomenon of attracting partners who resonate with one's current state rather than aspiring to match one's desired level of personal growth. Throughout our conversation, I extend a compelling call to action, urging listeners to embark on a profound self-reflection journey. It's imperative to discern what you genuinely seek in a relationship and take proactive measures to heal, evolve, and align with your ideal outcomes in love. Join me as we navigate this path together towards fulfilling and authentic connections.

Welcome to the podcast where we break down the intricacies of modern dating and relationships. Join us as we dive deep into the phases of relationships, from attraction to commitment, and learn how to navigate the complexities of love in today's world.

In this episode, we explore the five phases of a relationship and delve into the biochemical reactions that drive attraction. From understanding the power of sexual energy to recognizing the importance of the pull-away phase, we uncover the secrets to building lasting connections.

Listen in as we discuss the pitfalls of rushing into intimacy, the dangers of ignoring red flags, and the importance of setting boundaries. Discover how to harness your feminine energy, reclaim your power, and create the love life you deserve.

Tune in to learn how to navigate the dating landscape with confidence and grace. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical advice that will help you find and maintain a fulfilling relationship.

Join me, Shay, the love expert, as we unravel the mysteries of successful dating in this episode. We tackle the controversial issue of men expecting women to go 50/50 on dates, diving deep into the underlying reasons for such expectations. Discover the importance of treating dating as an interview process, learn to identify red flags, and explore a proven formula for attracting high-quality men. Drawing from 20 years of documented success and a unique dating experiment, I provide insights and share a feminine dating cheat sheet to guide those navigating the complexities of modern dating. Don't miss out on this episode for essential advice on finding love and forging meaningful connections in today's intricate dating landscape. I am Shay, and we're diving into the heart of dating wisdom!

In this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey, unlocking the secrets of love with Shay, Your Love Diva. Learn the crucial principles for attracting the right man and establishing a lasting relationship. Explore the significance of polarity, pitfalls of dating in masculine energy, and the surprising impact of dinner on long-term commitment. Tune in to elevate your love game and embrace the truth – you are always the prize.

Join our empowering podcast episode as we dive deep into breaking through love blocks and transforming your life. In this soul-stirring discussion, we confront common beliefs and fears that hinder your ability to attract and sustain the love you deserve. From debunking the notion of being cursed to unraveling the fear of abandonment, we provide insights that empower you to embrace the magic of love in your life.

Discover the profound impact of subconscious beliefs on your relationships and learn how to heal from past traumas. Our expert guide challenges the myths and misconceptions around love, offering a transformative journey towards understanding the true essence of love and relationships.

Tune in for a powerful session that will inspire you to break free from self-imposed limitations and open yourself to the abundant love that awaits. Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships or seeking a deeper connection with yourself, this episode is a beacon of wisdom and encouragement.

Unlock the secrets to a fulfilling love life and embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and attracting the love you've always desired. Don't miss this opportunity to shift your perspective and create a love story that aligns with your highest aspirations.

Subscribe now for a dose of love, empowerment, and transformation. Your journey to breaking love blocks starts here!

Unlock the secrets of dating and relationships in this eye-opening podcast episode. Join us as we delve into the biological intricacies of attraction, understanding the hormones like vasopressin and dopamine that play a pivotal role. Learn why the way you start a relationship matters and discover the science-backed strategies to build lasting connections. Don't miss out on the essential insights for navigating the world of dating with confidence and authenticity. Tune in now!

Join me in this journey. Let's uncover the complexities, empower ourselves, and learn to navigate the dating landscape with newfound awareness and resilience. This episode is your beacon toward reclaiming control, understanding, and embracing your strength in the world of relationships.

In today's episode, I delve deep into my personal journey – from a place of despair and financial struggle to finding abundance and purpose. I share the pivotal moments that shifted my perspective, the power of investing in oneself, and how aligning with abundance transforms not just your financial state, but your entire life. Join me as I uncover the keys to manifesting wealth and purposeful living.

Join us as we delve into the secrets of seduction and uncover the real essence of lasting connections. Discover how to elevate your dating game and cultivate healthy, meaningful relationships. Learn the power of attraction, the phases of courtship, and the profound impact of energy control. Uncover the truths about intimacy, hormonal health, and the pursuit of genuine, lasting love. This episode is packed with insights to transform your approach to relationships and empower your journey towards love and fulfillment.

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of love blocks, uncovering how they can obstruct the path to genuine love. Join us as we identify these barriers and dismantle them, paving the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Join us on the Love on Command podcast for an inspiring journey with Sheema, a phenomenal boss diva. She shares her transformation from attracting the wrong partners to manifesting her dream life and career success. From dealing with love blocks to embracing self-worth, her story empowers anyone seeking love and self-growth.

Embark on a transformative journey with Brenda Hall as she shares her empowering story on our podcast. From battling anxiety and depression despite external success to finding healing through Boss Diva's program, Brenda's narrative dives into the complexities of inner fulfillment. Her journey underscores the power of investing in oneself, overcoming deep-seated patterns, and prioritizing mental health for true abundance. Join us as Brenda inspires with her shift from emotional distress to empowerment, offering invaluable advice for those seeking similar transformation.

In this episode, the dating landscape gets a major makeover. Discover the secrets behind dating multiple people simultaneously, why first-date dinners are a thing of the past, and how to elevate your allure through strategic, seductive dating tactics. Welcome to a paradigm shift in finding love.

In today's podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of modern dating with the amazing Alison Wellington, a certified dating and relationship coach. We get real about the impact of social media, how gender roles are evolving, and the unique challenges of online dating. Alison shares her personal journey, highlighting the significance of self-reflection and accountability in building fulfilling relationships. The bottom line: while technology expands our dating options, finding true love demands a journey of self-discovery and genuine connections. Join us for some eye-opening insights and a heart-to-heart on the realities of modern love!

In this episode, we delve into the scientific aspects of dating and love. We discuss the common misconceptions surrounding dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of dating with intention and common sense. The episode highlights the value of dating multiple people and the need to avoid emotional blindfolds. We also explore the biochemical processes that occur in both men and women during the courting phase, shedding light on why it's essential to let a man work to earn your commitment. Ultimately, this episode empowers women to make informed choices in their dating lives and to appreciate the true value of their time and affection.

In this episode we discuss how the quality of a relationship is determined by the version of oneself that enters into it.

In this episode, I'm discussing the profound experiences and transformative journey I underwent with Ayahuasca. It's an introspective narrative about my decision to explore Ayahuasca despite not being inclined towards drugs initially, the emotional and spiritual impact it had on me, the healing it brought to my life, and the profound changes it induced in both myself and my husband. I also touch upon the process and its deeper meaning, clarifying misconceptions and detailing the spiritual growth it facilitated. Overall, it's a candid exploration of the Ayahuasca experience and its incredible effects on personal and spiritual development.

In this captivating episode, we delve into the powerful journey of turning your dreams and illusions into tangible reality by investing in personal growth and self-improvement. Join us as we explore practical strategies, and expert insights that will empower you to bridge the gap between imagination and achieving the love you've always envisioned.

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve deep into the complex issue of how society sometimes treats women's bodies as commodities. Join us as we explore the societal pressures that make some women feel obligated to offer exclusivity without commitment. Our candid discussions shed light on the intricacies of this phenomenon and the importance of redefining norms. Tune in to gain fresh insights and foster a more inclusive, equitable world.

Description: Join us on this eye-opening podcast as we delve deep into the complex world of modern relationships. Explore the nuances of when someone addresses you as a friend while secretly pursuing a romantic or physical connection. Discover the signs, strategies, and empowering insights to help you navigate these situations with confidence and grace. Tune in for candid discussions, expert advice, and real-life stories that shed light on the "friendship" disrespect phenomenon. Elevate your relationship game and embrace healthier connections. Don't miss this episode!

Explore the Intricate Connections: Archetypes, Traumas, and the Men They Attract. Uncover the profound interplay between diverse archetypes and their underlying traumas, delving into how these shape the men they draw into their lives. Join us for insightful discussions that unveil the intricate dynamics that influence relationships and behaviors. A transformative podcast journey into psychology, attraction, and self-discovery.

This insightful episode delves into the subtle nuances and unspoken insights that men need to navigate the dating landscape successfully. Discover the secrets to decoding body language, understanding emotional cues, and grasping the unexpressed expectations that women might not reveal outright.

Discover the transformative journey of JD Beasley as she shares her empowering story on our podcast. Join us as we delve into her experience at Diva University, where self-love flourished and led her to find a partner who treated her like the queen she truly is. Tune in for inspiring insights on personal growth, self-discovery, and the path to deserving love.

Join us in this thought-provoking podcast episode as we unravel the intriguing topic of the gene that has been associated with a propensity for infidelity in men. We discuss the interplay between biology and behavior, addressing questions about nature versus nurture, the ethical implications of genetic determinism, and the role of personal choices in relationships. Tune in for a captivating exploration of the genetic factors that may contribute to infidelity and the broader implications for understanding human behavior.

Welcome to our empowering podcast, where we delve into the vital topic of understanding what actions a woman should take when faced with a man pulling away. Join us as we navigate through valuable insights and expert advice on maintaining healthy relationships and communication. Discover practical strategies to nurture emotional connections and foster mutual growth. Tune in now to unlock the secrets to handling these challenging situations with grace and confidence.

Join us as we challenge misconceptions and explore how the right kind of seduction, rooted in science, can enhance confidence and build meaningful connections. Discover the secrets to embracing your inner allure and attracting the partners you deserve.

Join us in this inspiring episode as we delve into Sallie's transformative journey with DIVA University. Discover how confronting her emotional unavailability led to profound healing, paving the way for a higher quality of life. Tune in for powerful insights and lessons on emotional growth and empowerment!

Unlock Your Potential: Empowering Women to Break Free from Traumatic Pasts and Embrace the Present. Join us for transformative insights and practical advice on how to overcome past traumas and live a fulfilling life in the present moment. Don't let the past hold you back - it's time to reclaim your power and thrive!

In this empowering episode, we will uncover valuable insights and practical strategies to help women maintain healthy boundaries, establish emotional equilibrium, and foster more fulfilling connections in their romantic lives. Tune in to discover the secrets to finding harmony in love and creating lasting, meaningful relationships.

Discover the inspiring journey of Gayla as she shares her transformative experience after joining BDU. In this captivating podcast, delve into her remarkable story of personal growth, love, and an elevated quality of life.

In this transformative podcast episode, discover how Tami's journey with our program not only empowered her personal healing but also paved the way for healing her family relationships. Join us as we delve into the profound impact of Tami's experience and the remarkable journey of healing, growth, and renewed connections."

In this empowering podcast episode, join me and my special guest, Sam Gutierrez as she shares her incredible journey of personal growth and transformation after joining DIVA University. Discover how she conquered her deepest fears, broke free from love blocks, and experienced a profound shift in the quality of life. Get ready to be inspired and motivated to embark on your own transformative journey with the help of DIVA University.

On this week's episode, we will talk about "Unleashing Feminine Power" with our special guest, Fila Antwine. A thought-provoking episode where we dive deep into the struggles faced by women who find it challenging to attract the love they truly desire due to being disconnected from their feminine energy. Join us on this empowering audio journey as we explore the transformative path towards reclaiming and embracing your authentic feminine essence.

In this powerful podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey of healing from trauma by confronting the self-betrayal patterns that keep us locked in pain. Join me and my special guest, Erica Turner, as we explore actionable strategies, expert insights, and inspiring personal stories to guide you towards breaking free from the chains of self-betrayal. Discover how to reclaim your power, cultivate self-compassion, and embark on a path of healing, ultimately creating a brighter future filled with resilience and self-love. Tune in now and embark on your own journey of liberation and transformation.

Join me and my special guest, Barbara Gianquitto in this transformative podcast audio as she shares her soulful journey of healing her own heartbreak through the power of writing and journaling. Discover the cathartic release and emotional freedom that comes from putting your thoughts and emotions onto paper, all while creating a safe and judgment-free space for yourself. Gain valuable insights, practical tips, and heartfelt advice on navigating the healing process, embracing self-expression, and finding solace in your own words. Tune in to this empowering podcast episode and embark on a profound healing experience that will nourish your soul and help you reclaim your joy after heartbreak.

Welcome to this empowering podcast episode where we explore the profound connection between your body, healing, and manifestation. Join us as we delve into the transformative journey of deepening your connection with your body, uncovering its innate wisdom, and harnessing its power to manifest your desires. With our special guest, Allana Pratt, let's discover practical techniques, insightful anecdotes, and expert advice on how understanding and honoring your body can lead to profound healing and attract the abundance you seek. Tune in now and embark on a path of self-discovery, self-healing, and manifesting your deepest desires through the wisdom of your own body

On this week's episode, Deirdra will share how she was able to transform her wounds to wisdom and listen as she unveils her extraordinary healing journey that ignited profound transformation

On this week's episode, listen as we discover true love in the present moment on this conversational journey with Alex Stockwell.

In line with the recently concluded Love Mastery Retreat, we're gonna have a sit down with the Queen of Burlesque herself, Perle Noire as she talks about the arts behind her craft and how Burlesque can even help you heal your deepest traumas. Stay tuned divas!

On this week's episode, we had the chance to talk to Mecca Tart, who's also an expert on marriage and relationship as she helps us understand how your character reflects the man that you attract and how can you take care of your marriage

On this week's episode, we will talk about the conflicts of single parenthood and co-parenting with our special guest, Sindy Buchanan.

In today's episode, we will learn about what it means to communicate with your nervous system through Somatic Experiencing Therapy with a licensed expert and a fellow relationship coach, Lauren Zoeller as she also tells us how it can heal traumas and help with your dating pattern.

In today's episode, we will talk about the LOST art of seduction and how we, women have mistakenly think of marriage as the ultimate prize

On this week's episode, you will hear it from the experts as I sit down with Allison Wellington, a licensed councellor while we talk about practices ans advice when it comes to dating and love. Stay tuned Divas!

In today's episode , we will discuss about men's behavior when it comes to attraction and dating that will make you, ladies, identify a mascuine man and a man who's in his feminine energy.

In today's episode, we will hear it from Dr. Nelson Bulmash as he discusses about women's mental and physical health and the role that it plays in attracting The One..

On this week's episode, we had the chance to talk to a certified Boss Diva, Alicia as she discussed about the power of her feminine energy and how it helped her heal from traumas and love blocks that keep her from finding The One.

On this week's episode, we'll hear it from Diva University graduate Anastasia and her journey through healing her traumas that caused her love blocks.

On this week's episode, we'll hear an interview with Skye Legrand as she talks about her past traumas and her journey to healing and finding her romantic bestfriend.

On this week's episode, we will hear an interview of one of my Boss Diva University graduates, Dajah and how she's able to end her love blocks as she goes through the journey of finding her romantic bestfriend.

Here's is the second part of my interview with April as she discuss about the power of femininity.

In this week's episode, we'll hear part 1 of April Jackson's interview as she talks about how powerful women can be when tapping on their feminine enegry

On this week's episode, we got the chance to hear from one of my Boss Diva aluma, Meoshi Jackson and her journey to finding her romantic best friend.

In this week's episode, we will get to listen to one of our love specialists Scarlett as she discuss about her journey to healing from her past traumas.

In this week's episode, we had the chance to speak with one of our Love Specialists and a BDU alumna, Esther as she talks about healing her past traumas that caused her to have love blocks that kept her from finding "the one"

In this week's episode, we had the pleasure of talking to one of our Love Specialists and a BDU alumna, Esther. She was able to share her journey to healing and

overcoming her love blocks that prevented her from finding "the one".

In this week's episode, we will discuss about the phases of relationship and some of the mistakes that women commonly make during the early stage of dating.

In this week's episode, we will talk about the most common reasons as to why men cheat and what you could do to cheat-proof your relationship.

In this week's episode, one of my BDU graduates, Sabrina willl share her journey of healing and

removing her blocks that keep her from meeting "the one".

On this week's episode, we will have a talk with one of my BDU graduates Surya as she talk about her past traumas, love blocks and her journey through healing and finding happiness.

In this week's episode we'll talk about our BDU alumna Aimee and her journey towards healing her pas trauma that led to her love blocks.

On this week's episode, we'll talk about how women of today are dating backwards which results to attracting the wrong type of men.

On this week's episode, we'll talk about the power of your feminine energy.

In this week's episode, we'll have a talk with a BDU alumna, Cinthia as she discuss

about her past traumas, love blocks and her BDU journey towards healing and getting

herself ready to find her high-value masculine man.

In this week's episode, I'll share a part of my radio guesting at Power 108.9 where we talked about dating, love, relationship and heartbreaks

In this episode, we have a student testimonial from Sheri Roberts as she goes through her journey toward healing and finding her romantic bestfriend.

In today's episode, we'll here an interview and a testimonial from one of our BDU students Guilse

In this week's episode, we will hear about parts of an interview with one of our Diva, Sam, and her experience throughout the program

In this week's episode, we will discuss the law of attraction and the two things that are proven necessary for a man to produce Vasopressin.

This week's episode will discuss how seduction originated from women and how to be a master seductress without being objectified.

In this week's episode, we will talk about how to heal your love blocks before you enter the dating game

In this week's episode, we will talk about the art of seduction and how to break the pattern of attracting feminized men.

In this week's episode, we will talk about masculine energy on women being taken advantage of by feminized men and why women should not make the first move or ask a man to go out on a date.

In this week's episode, we'll discuss some of the excuses men give to avoid commitment and make women question their worth.

In this week's episode, we will be talking about your past traumas and unhealed experiences that keep you from attracting your soulmate

In this week's episode, we'll talk about how women today forget their work, attracting narcissists who take advantage of their masculine energy

This week in Love on Command, We discuss reasons why dinner is a bad first date and why you should do coffee instead.

In today's episode we can discuss about feminine power transformation.

This week, Elisa joins us and lets us in on how her journey is going, the dating scene, and where she is in the relationship department.

In today's episode we can discuss about wife energy.

In Today's Episode We will discuss about Activation of feminine energy.

In today's episode, we discuss Who you are and you should understand your values.

In today's episode, we discuss men's dating habits, women doing too much and blah blah blah...!

In this week's podcast, we are going to touch upon dating secrets, do's, and Don'ts. Why men aren't dating 1 woman at a time and why you shouldn't either.

Today we discuss some of the basic human needs.

This week, Sarah joins us and lets us in on how her journey is going, the dating scene, and where she is in the relationship department.

Part 2 of The Magic Of Attracting Love, we're discussing Twin Flames, Attracting the Love that you deserve, and answering user questions.

Today on Love On Command, we sit and chat with Ashlee as she updates us on what's been going on with her, on her journey to Love.

#ShayYourLoveDiva

Ladies, let's talk about the Magic Of Attracting Love.

Ladies, let's talk about the Magic Of Attracting Love.

Ladies, let's talk about the Magic Of Attracting Love.

Ladies, let's talk about the Magic Of Attracting Love.

Today we sit down with Alexandria as she talks about the wonders Diva University has brought to her life as well as how things are going with her on the dating scene.

Today we sit down with Alexandra as she talks about the wonders Diva University has brought to her life as well as how things are going with her on the dating scene.

Michelle shares her experience with how she has changed inside, how others have noticed that change and why she is excited about what's to come.

Jessica has changed her whole outlook on life and has learned to put herself first so she can attract the love that she desires.

Takiyyah tells us about her new man, job, and outlook on life.

Tiffany reveals things that Shay told her that quickly came true.

D.I.V.A. Nici shares with us how she has taken what she has learned in D.I.V.A. University and applied it to other areas of her life.

Boss Diva Tammie states that she is able to bring a man to his knees. D.I.V.A. University has helped her realize the power she possesses within.

Here, Les Brown and Shay discuss loving yourself more than anyone else, sustaining a relationship, and the difference between being paid to do something vs. being called to do something.

Here is my first interview with Les Brown. We discuss everything from dating, to loving yourself first, to sustaining a healthy relationship.

Here Tis shares with us the positive upside of her joining Diva University.

This week, D.I.V.A. Cherryl lets us know that sometimes, you just have to look within to see what needs to be healed so you can move on.

D.I.V.A Meoshi reveals how she came up with her Pattern Interrupt phrase and questions "what's normal?"

This week, special guest Asia sits down with us to discuss when she realized she needed to make a change in her life.

In This episode of the Love On-Command Podcast, we talk to Antrice, who shares with us her experience with using the Diva Love Method.

On this episode of Love On Command Podcast, we discuss activating the Divine Feminine power within.

"Many are confusing love with a soul-tie. The fruit may look similar but the root is oftentimes very different." - Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

In this episode, we focus on the importance of tapping into your divine feminine self and the 6 phases of a relationship.

Brace yourself for an uncomfortable yet so necessary conversation!

"Many are confusing love with a soul-tie. The fruit may look similar but the root is oftentimes very different." - Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

In this episode, we will be discussing soul-ties. How they were created and how you can prevent them.

Brace yourself for an uncomfortable yet so necessary conversation!

What happens when the desire goes elsewhere?

What do you when a man you love and care about cheats on you?

Blame yourself? I say DON'T!

Listen closely, as I unpack why men cheat and characteristics to look out for that will let you know he is really ready to commit. I also include the six human needs that may help you cheat-proof your relationship or marriage.

Buckle up!

What happens when the desire goes elsewhere?

What do you when a man you love and care about cheats on you?

Blame yourself? I say DON'T!

Listen closely, as I unpack why men cheat and characteristics to look out for that will let you know he is really ready to commit. I also include the six human needs that may help you cheat-proof your relationship or marriage.

Buckle up!

There are good men out there Diva. I know it may seem like you never run into them, but they're out there and I'm going to help you be in the right place at the right time and attract him.

There are good men out there Diva. I know it may seem like you never run into them, but they're out there and I'm going to help you be in the right place at the right time and attract him.

Want to know how to set a man's heart on FIRE! Listen closely Divas, I have the secrets of seduction.

Want to know how to set a man's heart on FIRE! Listen closely Divas, I have the secrets of seduction.

Do you feel like you can't break away from your ex? Are you battling whether to let him back into your life? Breaking a soul tie is essential to moving on from your ex and moving towards attracting your soulmate.

Do you feel like you can't break away from your ex? Are you battling whether to let him back into your life? Breaking a soul tie is essential to moving on from your ex and moving towards attracting your soulmate.

Learn how to dos AND the dont's of dating, including online. The real and raw truth about dating.

Learn how to dos AND the dont's of dating, including online. The real and raw truth about dating.

What are Love Blocks?

How do you overcome Love Blocks?

In this episode we talk about what keeps you from attracting your true love.

Let me tell you WHY you loving him is NOT enough!

Nothing just happens to us, unless we let it. This part of my story on why I know helping women find self-worth and their forever soulmate is truly my purpose.

Listen to the end for Manifesting Gratitude Meditation.

Do you date "nice guys"?

What do I mean by "nice guys?"

Listen up Diva, while Shay breaks it down.

Shay takes on the topic of Why & How A Man Treats A Woman and how it can be interpreted by women.

Let's dive in Diva!

Let me know... do you agree?

Be aware of the dating advice that male gurus give. The can't speak for all men and experiences when dating a man.

The two Divas talk healing, relationships and the journey to finding true love.

Women who unknowingly fall for the married men who lie about being married and don't find out until her heart is already into him. This is a scenario that can happen to anyone.

Shay 'Your Love Diva' sits down with Nikkie Pryce to have an open, transparent and honest conversation about love, relationships and taking responsibility for your own healing enabling women to overcome and love again.

Listen Divas!

Continuing last weeks conversation, here are the top 5 signs of knowing if you are being played.

Can Casual Sex Lead To True Love??

Why "Just Be Yourself" Is bad dating advice.

Certified Relationship Coach and Best-Selling Author of "Come and Talk to Me: The Women's Guide To Way Men Don't Communicate", Clarence has joined us for a @maletranslations. Lean in Divas... You'll want to soak this all in.

Listen as I help our listeners understand the Science of Attraction, phases of a relationship and MORE!

While I get ready for Date Night, I discuss how to know when a man is playing you and give an update on a client's situation that was shared on a previous live chat.

What's your take on being married but living apart? ...

Today, I am going to share a video about 3 Steps To Attract A Rich Man.

Dear Love, You are beautiful. You matter and you deserve the best. Stop settling for men below your standards. I have helped hundreds of women find love with high-value men.

You do not have to hurt, be lonely or settle any longer.

Let me teach you how to: How to have a great first date. How to be irresistible to men. How do I attract wealthy men Places Wealthy men hang out. Be the woman he chooses to be faithful to for the long run.

What does it look like when you doing too much too soon? How do you avoid doing too much too soon? Can you come back from doing too much too soon?

Have these questions... I got you Diva! Lean in.

Listen while Shay gives you the inside on how to maximize your dating experience in 30 days. Not just with anybody... but with affluent men who are ready for a commitment and looking for true love!

Join Shay, your love diva, doing an interview for SwagHer about 2020 dating goals. In this video you will get a first row seat to listen to Shay talk about what needs to be your goals as far as dating in 2020. The year isn't over... don't give up Diva!

How To Find Love - in this video I will share with you, 3 Proven Steps To Finding A Loving Relationship fast. I will go over what finding love means and how to approach your love searching journey the right way, so that the end result will be finding a loving relationship and a long lasting true partnership with your spouse.

Not only are you getting the inside scoop on tricks Men use to get Women hooked. But you will also get to sit in on Coaching Sessions and Reading by Your Love Diva.

Do yo find yourself chasing the attention of men? Maybe not at first, but eventually you somehow wind up the pursuer instead of the one being pursued...

When you allow a man to chase you, you're allowing yourself room to see how he operates. You blind yourself when you are doing the chasing and leaving nothing for him to do for you.

Let him show you, you are worthy of his time and effort.

Everyone woman has the right be who she wants and do what she wants with her body. However, having the right to not be ashamed of being a slut is causing confusion amongst those who identify as feminist for deeper reasons. Feminist have fought for centuries for woman to have rights... educational, political, and so on.

I wanted to share this because it is still very relevant.

Share your comments, agree or disagree.

It's easy to carry over the boardroom into the bedroom, but it can be destructive for a relationship.

Here are some of the top and MOST IMPORTANT reasons why Type A personality women have the tendency to turn men off.

Yes Queens, this will be a hard pill to swollen for some of you. But, I want you to listen, it will make all the difference in your current or next relationship.

Shay & Carlin Levister continue their conversation on love and relationships!

Shay "Your Love Diva" Levister, who is a Certified Love Transformer® who helps celebrities and elite single to manifest love on command with affluent men seeking commitment without the disappointment and uncertainty that often comes with dating, shares the secret to the one thing when Manifesting love, that is blocking your manifestations!

Shay 'Your Love Diva' and Carlin Levister give you an inside and some insight into their marriage!

#cutestcoupleEVER

Shay "Your Love Diva" Levister, who is a Certified Love Transformer® who helps celebrities and elite single to manifest love on command with affluent men seeking commitment without the disappointment and uncertainty that often comes with dating, shares the secret to the one thing when Manifesting love, that is blocking your manifestations!

Welcome back! My featured guest, Sherri Holmes and I dig even deeper into her personal struggles and recent triumphs. We continue to discuss how she balances the many hats she wears.

In this episode, the Beautiful and Divine Sherri Holmes shares her special love journey in a polyamorous relationship. She is being transparent about it all. Her story is inspiring and encouraging to those who may feel like they are being blocked from living and standing in their truth. Sherri educates us in the reality of a responsible non-monogamous relationships. Even if this is not your cup of tea, the honesty and openness of this woman is noble. This is just part one!

In this podcast episode, Your Love Diva, is talking about the dating life after 40 and mainly, should you date younger? This was asked by one of our members and can really help you in getting some insights about the 40+ dating scene.

In this episode, Shay, Your Love Diva, will talk about how to avoid attracting a liar into your life. We will talk about methods to avoid being lied to by managing the things we can control from our own end. We will talk about honesty in your own life, former tragic and painful experiences, bad vibes and all sorts of elements you can work on to avoid attracting a liar into your life.