The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life.

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The "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society. We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl. And this is true of nice women as well.

I completely disagree. I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills.

A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person.

Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships.

And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more.

• I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum. Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others *

1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say 2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled 3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy 4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common case

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