I once had a conversation with my friend who was absolutely beaten down & felt sad with everything happening in his life.
He was complaining about the expectations he had to meet, what would happen with an exam result, how was he supposed to get married if he can't make a living.
I listened to everything he said patiently & asked him:
What do you really want?
He said I want to make money.
I said Great. But, what do you Really want?
He said happiness & peace of mind
I said Wonderful. But, what do you really want?
This went on for quite some time, until he was confused & silent. He said I don't know.
Seeing him confused & worried I said, It's Ok, We really don't know what we want.
We think we want that & need this & get that & go there & be that, but in our CORE, we really have no idea what we are after.
Then, I told him the one thing that we really want (It's a secret for now)
Now, he thought of his 1st answer & said but I want money. I replied, why do you really want money? It was to feel worthy of achieving the one thing.
And then every answer for what he wanted ended on the one thing.
This blew his mind.
He thought he needed this & that. When I showed him the real core want of our soul. He had a smile & thanked me.
So, listen to this episode to find out what's the one thing that we all Really want?
You can basically connect your dots from everything you want back to this one thing.
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