Let's see if you can catch an Unhelpful Programming that we received (which affects our Confidence) from this Scenario.

A bunch of kids who I coach to play a game (cricket), played a game & lost. They played well but we lost the game. Before the game reached its completion 2 kids walked up to me and asked "What mistakes did I make?" & "What do I need to improve on?". That's All they asked & nothing else.

Did you Find the Programming?

Okay, Here's another one.

A kid scored 95% in 6 out of 7 subjects in the exams & scored 67 in the last subject. He shared his score with his parents & they asked him "What went wrong with the last one?" "Why did you score less in that compared to others?"

I think you kind of see it this time.

So, if you got it comment below on why I call it an unhelpful programming. If you feel you're curious to know why I call it Unhelpful, Listen to this episode.

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