Welcome back to our Case Study Series. In this episode, I am talking with Naomi. Her main concern is that she might be losing more than $300.000/year because of the Entrepreneurial Impostor Syndrome. This is something that so many people feel, and it is becoming more obvious every day. Let's solve the problems Naomi has, and I hope this will help some of you deal with yours.
Problems and challenges * When I need to pitch myself to new clients I get nervous - I am not as good as other entrepreneurs * If I have not done a task before and got perfect results I am scared I might not get the results they want, it will be my fault, they are angry with me, I have let them down, their are disappointed, I feel like a failure, ashamed, embarrassed * Belief that everyone is making stuff up all the time, don’t know all the answers, just trying their best * My work is so easily tracked so it is very obvious when my work is good or bad. Nervous that I will judged by my clients that I am not good enough * Not confident enough in what I have to offer * Constant Worry and anxiety that maybe I am doing something wrong or I am not doing the best that my client could have gotten from someone else * Always thinking to myself “Why would they trust me?” * Effects/Results + Holds me back from pitching and outreach. Only doing 5-10% of what I could be doing + I could be making another $27k/month or $324k/year + Holds me back from being a superstar and changing the planet for the better helping a lot of people + Spend 20% more time on projects that I need to make them perfect in my own mind. This 288 hours per year of extra work I don’t need to be doing + Drains my energy - only 4/10 energy + Health: I make worse health decides when I feel this way - Eat 1-2 more dessert servings than usual - I work out more to contact my negative emotions and stress about this. For 2-3 hours. + I rely on others to give me confidence, so when they are not around I have a big problem * Nervous, uncertain, scared, stomach tense, rapid shallow breath + 6 y.o. Parents sat me down told me they were getting divorced + Send the energy of certainty and calm to her + What color is this to you in this moment - purple + How many ancestors have you got on your mom’s side? + Fathers? + Past lives with this pattern? + Percentage left? 60% + WWIT to get it to 50%? * Cut cords with family + How many in place? 3 + Where was it attached in your body? - Hip - How kept in place - not noticing + 2nd - heart - rope + 3rd - upper back, between shoulders, grey, shame * WWIT for it to be safe, right and good to see all my reality clearly? + Trust + WWIT to trust? - Seeing the patterns I run - Inward journey - Meditation and psychedelics - Gratefulness * What percentage left now? 50% * Did you or parents checkout during your birth, pregnancy and conception? * Clear from DNA, cells, organs, chakras * What percentage left now? 49% * WWIT to get it to 48 ¾ % * What are you afraid of if you let this go? + Confident, + Role model - Steve Jobs * Spiritual Advisory Board - Steve Jobs, Frank Warren, Gandhi, Benjamin Franklin, Albert Einstein, Nelson Mandela + What would they say? - Just do it - Do it while I feel uncomfort rather than wait to feel comfortable before I do it - Trust yourself - Ask them for the exact words to write or say in your work * At 40% * WWIT to get 30%? + practice + Discipline + What other area of your life do you have discipline in? - In yoga - How - Think about the results you want rather - Not giving myself outs, no alternative - Do it with other people - Pay a teacher * At 30% * Ask your future self what helpful to clear this fully? * What yoga pose would help? Warrior 3 * What location would help? A Coworking space * Schedule it 11.00am until I finished * Set a mini goal to know when I am done * Photos of happy clients on top of my laptop * Me Smiling * At 0%
Tools from the book * TLC * WWIT * Youngest Age Pattern Recycler * Percentage Cleared * Spiritual Advisory Board * Cord cutting