Amanda Louder Coaching: Recent Episodes
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I help Christian men & women overcome their obstacles to create a more emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically intimate relationship
In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you feel stuck between two hard options—like speaking up and risking conflict, or staying quiet and feeling invisible. It often shows up in marriage, especially around […]
What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They think that if they learn the right position, or the perfect rhythm, or how to last longer, that it will magically fix all the issues […]
When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did that come from?” and your second is, “Do I have to say yes to this to make them happy?” These moments can stir up all […]
Have you ever felt like no matter how much you grow or how open you are to trying new things, it still doesn’t feel like enough for your partner? Maybe they’re asking for more – more intimacy, more variety, more connection, more emotional depth – and despite your efforts, you feel like you’re always falling […]
Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see in coaching: the higher desire partner feeling like they’re carrying the full weight of initiation, facing repeated rejection, and wondering if they’re the only one […]
Do you ever feel frustrated when your spouse doesn’t want sex the same way, or as often, as you do? In this episode, we explore how rigid expectations around sex can lead to disconnection and resentment in marriage. You’ll hear why focusing too much on “your” version of sex can actually block the emotional intimacy […]
Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can feel like an annoying chore that disrupts connection and intimacy. In this episode, we’re getting real about why this moment matters—and how to simplify the […]
What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the sacred covenants made in the Temple by members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—not as a checklist of rules, but as a […]
Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You’re not alone. Whether you’re the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less, the imbalance can create tension, guilt, and frustration on both sides. In my normal open and honest way, we are going to discuss why the […]
Katelyn Peach, Doctor of Physical Therapy, is back for this episode where we talk about pelvic floor physical therapy for men. One of the biggest misconceptions that Katelyn sees in her practice is that men think that they either don’t have a pelvic floor or since they don’t have babies, their pelvic floor is never […]
In this episode, Katelyn Peach, who is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, is going to be speaking with us about pelvic floor physical therapy for women. She treats patients with a variety of pelvic floor conditions so I was able to pick her brain on why you need to see a pelvic floor physical therapist, […]
Sex in marriage can sometimes feel imbalanced—one person initiates while the other holds the power to say yes or no, or one partner’s needs take priority over the other’s. But what if there was a way to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection? In this episode, we explore the concept of mutuality in marriage, a […]
Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked at more. And it usually starts outside the bedroom. In this episode, we’re going to talk about what it means to be “bad in bed” […]
Even though this topic can feel a little awkward, frustrating, and even scary, I think it’s important to talk about because all couples will probably have this happen from time to time in their sex lives. So, the question is, what happens when men lose their erections during sex? In this episode, we’re breaking down […]
I really would like you to check out this article from DatingAdvice.com. We talk about how years of chastity lessons can really affect a marriage. It’s a wonderful article! I can’t wait for you to read it. Read it here.
Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From the benefits, challenges, and health advantages, to how to introduce it to your partner, we’ll talk about the surprising impact it could have on your […]
Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our spouse declines? How do we channel that energy into something productive and healthy? And, how do we teach our children to understand unanswered arousal? We’ll […]
What is an archetype? In very simple terms, it’s a “should”. As the man, I “should” be the primary breadwinner. As the woman, I “should” cater to my husband’s sexual needs. But, are these “should’s”, these archetypes, really who you are deep down inside? In this episode, we’re going to talk about relationship and sexual […]
I often see people wanting to uplevel their sex lives, but ignoring non-sexual touch completely. But, non-sexual physical intimacy is just as important, if not more important than sexual intimacy. In this episode, we’re going to talk about touch and how important it is to our relationships. Let’s talk about why touch is so important, […]
I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder to have sex, but sometimes teenagers are even harder. They have crazier schedules, they stay up later, and they have more knowledge about what’s going […]
I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed our conversation and the insights that were shared and wanted to share those things with you. So, here is my conversation with Tyler and Brannon […]
What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that’s the reason you don’t have the sex life that you thought you’d have? I know that your intentions are good. I know that you know that sex is good for your marriage, but maybe it’s the […]
I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality. But, there’s a difference between fantasy and desire. A fantasy is more about thoughts where a desire is bringing that thought into reality. Let’s talk […]
In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women’s health. So, if you’re looking to improve your marriage or your self-case within your marriage, this interview is for you! Watch it here.
Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that now. In this episode, we’ll talk about why we want to have a healthy relationship beyond being a good example to our children. Then we […]
In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable – mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy of our relationships, but what is mining for conflict? It means actively seeking out and addressing underlying issues in a relationship. Finding these conflicts before […]
In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional intimacy affects relationships. I offered insights on fostering closeness and navigating challenges like infidelity. You can listen here.
In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It’s said in different ways, but it all comes down to this – Why does sex often seem so hard, even when we genuinely want to have it? Have you ever wondered that? Sex is a beautiful, integral […]
In this episode, I want to talk about something that is more and more relevant in our digital age – how devices are hurting marriages and sexual relationships. Because this is now the third leading cause of divorce in the United states, it seems like it’s something that needs to be discussed. So, let’s discuss […]
This is something I get asked all the time! I understand why people want to know, but the answer isn’t so black and white. In this episode we’re going to talk about what is normal when it comes to sex in marriage, and how to get to normal if you feel like your sex life […]
Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe you feel like you will never satisfy your spouse or maybe you’re met with “I’ll never be enough for you” when sharing your wants and […]
In this episode, we are going to talk about a topic that’s all too common but not often discussed—sexual martyrdom in marriage. I’ll answer questions like: What does it mean to be a sexual martyr? Why is it detrimental to your relationship and yourself? And how to recognize and shift out of this mindset. Let’s […]
A while ago, I was at an event with a lot of other women. A woman sat down next to me and asked, “What if the sex is really good, but the rest of the marriage isn’t great?” After talking with her about this question for most of the night, I knew this was something […]
In this episode, we’re tackling a delicate and crucial topic: managing your spouse’s sexuality. What does this mean? Why do people do it? How does it affect both higher desire and lower desire partners? Why isn’t it the best approach? We’ll answer all of these questions and more. This one may surprise you. Take a […]
When it comes to life, our perception is our reality. And these perceptions also shape our sexual relationships. Unfortunately, we often look at these perceptions as facts rather than realizing that they are an interpretation of facts. So, in this episode, we are going to talk about our perceptions, how they are shaped, and what […]
We often check in with our finances, our physical health, or our mental health, so why not our relationship health? In this episode, we will talk about why we should measure the quality of our marriages, how to measure both your relationship AND your sexual relationship. And what to do if we find things that […]
“If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d have more sex with me.” I recently saw in a Facebook group that someone said to their spouse, “If you love me, you’ll stop watching […]
Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should be more passive in bed. This can lead to resentment, especially when he is always being rejected. Now, I’m not saying that women always need […]
Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the stories that we are telling ourselves about our spouse and their inability to meet our needs, we can see that those stories are simply not […]
For the last couple of episodes, we’ve been talking about the different levels of sex. So, in this episode, we’re going to talk about the pinnacle of marital intimacy – Level 3 Sex. I’ll explain all about what Level 3 Sex is, why couples would aspire to reach it, and how both partners can contribute […]
In the last podcast, we talked about Level 1 Sex, what it is, and what we can do about it. So, in this podcast, we are talking about Level 2 Sex, what it is and why you’d want to level up your sex life. Level 2 Sex is not the end of your sexual journey, […]
In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might resonate with many of you – Level 1 Sex. What is it? What isn’t it? And most importantly, how can we move towards a more fulfilling experience in our intimate relationships? I’ll answer these questions and more as we discuss how each partner might contribute […]
I got to talk with these amazing women about modesty – what it is, what it isn’t and how we can stop judging others and have a more positive thoughts about ourselves. You can listen here.
Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with that disappointment. Do we pretend we’re fine? Do we get angry? Do we avoid the emotion? Or do we talk about it? We are surrounded […]
When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, “Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they are doing it. They don’t do it maliciously, but that doesn’t mean they don’t do it. In this episode, let’s talk about what it means […]
In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox – relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So, how do you use it in conversations? Let’s talk about that! Listen to this episode to know what to do before, during, and after having […]
Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do I talk about desire so often? Because a lack of desire is the number one thing that women come to me for help with. They […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I’m going to share with you the four things that we all want in our sexual relationships. We may call them different things, but everyone wants essentially the same thing. I am also […]
I am so excited for you to hear this interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson. We talk about what you and your partner need to know about women’s hormones. We as women don’t get a lot of information about hormones in general but especially during perimenopause and menopause. Even if you’re not quite there yet, you […]
I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to transition to a female-centric approach to sex and why men might not want to as well. But when it comes down to it, a female-centric […]
If your post baby bod makes you cringe at the thought of intimacy. This episode is for you! I spoke with Corey Pickett of Weight Loss for LDS Moms about intimate details from my own life about how I improved my body image. I began in an unhappy marriage to the wrong guy, eventual divorced, […]
When I say “physical intimacy in marriage”, what does that bring up? Usually it’s sex. But intimacy is so much more than just sex. It’s eye contact and hand holding. In this episode, we’re going to explore what intimacy is, why it’s important, why it sometimes declines, and how you can keep the flame alive. […]
I often get asked how to keep the flames of romance burning after you’ve been married a long time. So, that’s what we’re going to talk about today. How do you keep those flames burning and not get stuck in a roommate situation. I have 10 areas with specific examples in each of the ways […]
Are you one of those women who, when the topic of sex comes up, can’t help but cringe a little? Do you feel like it’s more of a burden than a pleasure? If so, you’re not alone. In this eye-opening episode, my guest Amanda Louder Christian Sex Coach will delve into the complex world of […]
Your brain is your biggest sex organ. Have you noticed what you’re thinking about sex? In this episode, we’re going to talk about the mind-body connection when it comes to sex. We’re going to look into gaining sexual thought awareness and how those thoughts shape our most intimate experiences. By cultivating awareness around our sexual […]
In Come Follow Me this coming week, we read about Paul’s sexual purity letter to the Corinthians. Because of this, I think it’s a great time to not only talk to your kids about sex, but also talk to their teachers about how they will teach this lesson. We need to break the cycle of […]
In the last episode, we spoke about erogenous zones. But if you are focusing solely on these areas without any warm-up or creating the right context for sex, you are missing out on a crucial piece – the importance of foreplay. In this episode, let’s talk about what foreplay means and how important it is […]
You may remember when Monica taught Chandler about erogenous zones on the TV show friends. (If you don’t remember this iconic scene, the link is below) Chandler was surprised to learn that there were more than 3 erogenous zones. Are you surprised too? In this episode, we’re going to talk about where the erogenous zones […]
Wanting sex so you can feel closer to your spouse or because you want to connect with them is great. But sometimes, we start to seek validation through sex. When we’re seeking validation through sex, we see it as our partner not loving us when we aren’t having sex. We also feel rejected, which can […]
I often hear from my clients that they feel guilty about certain sexual things. When we really look into it, I question whether they’re feeling guilty, which to me means that they are doing something outside of their integrity, or are they internalizing someone else’s emotions about the subject. So in this episode, we’re going […]
Let’s face it… Sex can feel scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if you have been in a relationship where there has been betrayal. I joined them to give you the first steps you need to gain feelings of safety and confidence in your sex life. The insights and tips I shared are game-changers. Listen […]
In this podcast, I’m talking with Crystal Haitsma about triggers. We hear the word all the time nowadays, but what does it really mean and how is it affecting our relationships? Listen in as Crystal and I define what triggers are and how self regulation can help us get over them. This is a great […]
So many women I’ve talked to have said that they don’t have any desire to have sex anymore. It’s just gone. Now, I’ve talked about desire a lot on this podcast, but today I want to talk to you about one thing that I haven’t talked about before and it just may blow your mind. […]
Do you not like sex or do you just not like the sex that you’re having? Oftentimes, we actually just don’t like the sex that we’re having. Listen to this teaser Embracing You podcast episode as I coach Quinn on how to make the sex that she is having more enjoyable so she can like […]
Do you worry that you aren’t sexually compatible with your spouse? I think truly being sexually incompatible is rare. But in this episode, we talk about those questions you may be having. What makes for sexual compatibility and what we can do to work on ourselves to make our relationships that much better? If you […]
One of the most common disagreements I hear from couples about sex are about emotional and physical intimacy and which goes first. In my mind, it looks a lot like a tug of war between the couple to show which is the right kind of intimacy for a marriage. It’s time to drop the rope, […]
When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex. I, like a lot of women, didn’t want it to always mean I had to have sex. I missed what it was like when we […]
Let me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help you have a better relationship. We often get into patterns and dynamics that seem helpful but end up causing more problems in the end. So […]
This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you’re a young adult, either single and dating or newly married or you […]
This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot of our young adults are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you’re a young adult, either single and […]
Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied. In the context of a monogamous relationship, the responsibility to fulfill that sexual need falls on the partner, but this belief often doesn’t create great […]
Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A Bit Better Everyday and I loved our conversation so much that I asked Ashlee if I could share it with you and she graciously said […]
Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex […]
Have you heard about sleep divorce? “Sleep divorce” is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to […]
Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in […]
What happens in the sexual relationship when you have two different personalities? One person's a planner and one person wants more spontaneity. Listen in as Olivia and I discuss the different personalities that she and her husband have and how to maximize her gifts to create a sexual relationship that works for the both of them.
Through my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of […]
Nicole has been working with me for a while in my program and through our work, some things have been brought to her awareness. Out of the unconscious and into the conscious. And now that they are conscious, and she’s aware, it’s time to work on them and work on the feelings that they are bringing up in her body.
How does your body image affect your partner? That’s what my guest Amber Price and I are talking about in […]
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What happens when we have sex when we don't really want to? What happens when we avoid and resist our emotions and what our body is trying to tell us? That is what is happening with Linda. Listen as I coach her on what she needs to do.
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In this episode, we talk about the top 4 reasons for low desire in women that I see in my […]
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In this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a […]
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What happens when we have sex when we don't really want to? What happens when we avoid and resist our emotions and what our body is trying to tell us? That is what is happening with Linda. Listen as I coach her on what she needs to do.
In this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to […]
I joined them on Path to Podcast Success, and you won’t want to miss our deep dive into all things […]
In this episode, we talk about love after divorce and how I found joy in the journey. Listen here.
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This episode is a great example of exactly what we talked about in the Sex For Saints podcast episode 253 - Consenting to Unwanted Sex. We're going to learn more about that and what that might actually look like in a relationship.
Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer […]
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I'm really excited about today's episode because we do not have just the wife here today, but we have a couple, and this couple has been working hard for the last couple of years to change the dynamic in their marriage and their sexual relationship. Things have changed drastically for them, as you'll hear a little bit about it in the episode, and they are now ready to take things to the next level. But they have a few questions and concerns. So let's talk to Jen and Floyd.
How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions […]
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In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is […]
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When you've lived the life that you thought you were supposed to live. You've followed the path that you thought you were supposed to. Why then do we feel so disconnected and unhappy sometimes? That is the question that we are talking about with Isabella today. I think you're going to love this one.
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My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain […]
In this episode, I talk about different things couples can do to improve their sex lives. We discussed good orgasms, sex […]
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This is a really interesting episode because sometimes we think that we've tried everything to figure out what's going on with us and our sexuality, and yet we get in our own way. And a lot of times it can be really discouraging and we can feel a lot of really negative emotions about our sexuality that actually get in the way of us creating the relationship we want. So listen to this episode, and I would love to hear what you think afterwards.
What is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer […]
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In this episode, I am going to be talking to Grace about a few different things that are just kind of basics when it comes to sex. So many of us were missing a comprehensive sexual education. So we need to have some of that basic foundation. The primary thing that I'm going to be talking to her about is her anxiety. So many women come to me with anxiety in general, and then definitely anxiety about sex. We're going to walk through some ways to work through some of that anxiety, and I hope it's helpful for you.
In this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works […]
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I’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, […]
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Often the way that we show up in life is a direct result of our family of origin and how we were raised. Listen, as I coach Felicity in how to overcome one of the ways she is showing up in her marriage because of what she learned in her family growing up.
I often get emails from listeners asking about how nudity and modesty work together. Now, I don’t have all of […]
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In this episode, I talk about how I know how difficult it can be to find confidence as a wife […]
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Sexual shame is very prevalent in the work that I do with most of my clients, but it's not always obvious. Many don't realize that they have sexual shame, but it shows up in their life nonetheless. Listen, as I coach Emily on her sexual shame and how you can use the same tools I teach her in your own life.
What is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into […]
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Trigger Warning: Sexual abuse and sexual assaultIn her previous episode, Amelia mentioned some abuse and trauma that had happened in her earlier years, and she wanted to work with me on how to move through the trauma when she gets triggered, but with further exploration, she explained that what triggers her the most now is thinking about her husband sharing his sexuality with others before they were together. Now whether you have trauma in your past or not, you may feel a little triggered or even upset with your spouse for their sexual past. So if you are feeling triggered, this episode is really going to help you.If you would like to listen to Amelia’s first coaching session, go to Episode 0.
Listen in as LeAnn Austin and I discuss why love is the basis of all I do in my coaching […]
In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. […]
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In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict […]
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Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. […]
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I really love this episode because we talk about some really basic concepts that everyone can apply to themselves and their relationships. Many of us don't feel confident in ourselves, and that holds us back from creating the sexual relationship we want so listen in on my coaching session with Danielle to hear how we can work on that.
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My most downloaded podcast episode is #134 – Masturbation and the Church. I published this episode over 2 years ago […]
Amelia has always been afraid of her husband’s body and she doesn’t want to be scared anymore. She wants to be able to show her husband more love in the bedroom. Listen in as Amanda coaches Amelia through the process of letting go of the fear and showing her husband more love in the bedroom.
I recently had a client tell me that she has forgotten how to flirt. She wanted to find a way […]
Amelia has always been afraid of her husband’s body and she doesn’t want to be scared anymore. She wants to be able to show her husband more love in the bedroom. Listen in as Amanda coaches Amelia through the process of letting go of the fear and showing her husband more love in the bedroom.
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I often have women come to me wondering why they’ve never had an orgasm. I realize how frustrating it is […]
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You may look at the title of this podcast and think, “What does being a good mom have to do […]
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“How can I teach my kids about sex?” I get this question all of the time. As we are learning […]
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I have an exciting announcement! On December 6, I am debuting a brand new private podcast called Embracing You! In […]
Amelia has always been afraid of her husband’s body and she doesn’t want to be scared anymore. She wants to be able to show her husband more love in the bedroom. Listen in as Amanda coaches Amelia through the process of letting go of the fear and showing her husband more love in the bedroom.
In this episode, I talk with my good friend and fellow life coach Zach Spafford about modesty and the new […]
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In this episode, I am speaking with Rhonda Farr. Rhonda is a life coach who works with men and their […]
In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a […]
If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having […]
I think it’s safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don’t […]
Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.
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In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks […]
Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex […]
In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and […]
Have you heard the phrase “sex drive”? I’m sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn’t a drive, it’s […]
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What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is […]
One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the […]
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I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that […]
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Do you feel mentally overwhelmed with everything you need to do to take care of your family? With all of […]
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For many of us, we are better at reading our family’s emotions than our own. Why is that and why […]
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Women often come to me wanting me to fix their libido. While I wish I could wave my magic wand […]
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In this episode, Andrea Giles and I talk about questions that come up a lot with her clients who have […]
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Silence can be good, if it’s a comfortable silence. But when we are uncomfortably silent with our partner, especially in […]
Has your partner ever asked what you wanted in bed, or what felt good, or what you wanted to do […]
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In this podcast episode, I talk with Andrea Giles. Andrea helps women heal from infidelity in her coaching program. We […]
Do you fear pleasure? You might be saying ‘no’ but many of my clients do. Think about it. Do you […]
In today’s episode, I share my divorce and remarriage story, how I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and […]
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Do you think that your own desires are selfish? Most of us women do. We’ve been taught this by well […]
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Do you remember what it was like when you were dating your husband? Every touch was electric. You felt alive, […]
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There is a Come, Follow Me lesson coming up in the youth program about the Law of Chastity. I feel […]
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In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with […]
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According to a survey, about 2% of marriages are completely sexless. Or, according to another study, couples are only having […]
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My clients often say that they don’t communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good […]
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Are you disgusted by the bodily fluids of your partner? Maybe you’re disgusted by your own bodily fluids. If so, […]
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I spoke with Mikki Gardner of the Co-Parenting with Confidence podcast. I shared with her the story of my marriage, […]
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Has sex become boring for you? Do you not want to have sex? Maybe you’re not having sex because there […]
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In this episode, I’m talking with Jessica Farmer, a fellow life coach and friend, about how she went from being […]
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Are you reluctant to show any affection towards your husband because then he’ll want sex and you’ll have to give […]
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One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, “How do I know if my […]
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We’ve all heard the phrase, “Happy Wife, Happy Life,” but my guest today, Glenn Lovelace, says that’s a lie. Listen […]
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I get asked a lot about how to talk to kids and teens about sex. Unfortunately, I can’t make it […]
In part 2 of my interview with Allen Turner, let’s talk about kink and BDSM. I know those can be […]
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In this episode, I’m interviewing Allen Turner about what women really want in bed. Allen shares his perspective as a […]
I got to be a guest on The Culture Hall Podcast and share some things that I have come to […]
I got to be a guest on The Friendly Podcast Guide and share some behind the scenes about how The […]
Let’s talk hormones and what your hormones are doing to you sex drive! With my special guest, Ashlee Sorensen, we […]
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Did you ever hear the chewed gum analogy growing up? Or the crushed flower analogy? While these teachings were probably […]
You may be wondering what sex has to do with sleep. A lot. Quality sleep can promote a better sex […]
I’ve recently been studying Genesis in the Bible. I feel like I’ve gotten a whole new perspective on the Creation […]
I was interviewed by Kevin and Jennifer of the Relationship 411 Podcast. We got to talk all about sex and […]
Is it possible to be sexual and spiritual? Of course it is! Sexuality is a God-given part of us and […]
We have all been told the lie that men need sex and in our Conservative Christian value system and monogamy, […]