This week’s mini episode finds Prudence visited by Calvin Kasulke, a writer, podcast producer and transsexual living in Brooklyn. His work has been featured in outlets including MEL Magazine, Vice, Electric Literature and BuzzFeed. Prudie and Kasulke discuss a letter writer who’s wondering if setting time-boundaries with friends can also look like icing them out, what to consider when your step-son lets you know that he’s transitioning, but to not tell the rest of the family. Email: prudence@slate.com  Production by Phil Surkis