Today on Dear Prudence: baby-stealing, stalking, and insufficient wokeness. First up: My boss keeps joking about wanting to take my baby. Help! Should I tell potential employers I had a stalker? I accidentally introduced the kids I coach to a mature topic – now all their parents are mad at me. What do I do? My husband’s kids found out he smokes weed and he’s blaming me for it. I want to tell my grandpa I’m gay, but I’m afraid it might kill him. How do I put an end to the ongoing social justice one-upmanship by my friends? I’m a bisexual man who practices very safe sex – do I need to tell casual partners about my orientation? Hear back episodes of Prudence at Slate.com/Prudiepod.