When we rage, manipulate, obsess, lie, slander, or malign our spouse in the wake of their sexual betrayal, our tendency is to excuse our sin and turn the focus off ourselves and say, “What about them?!”

Peter did it with Jesus in John 21. Adam did it when God asked him why he’d eaten the apple. Eve blamed the serpent. It’s so much easier to blame our spouse or try to fix them than it is to be honest about our own disobedience to God.

In this episode of the Hope for Spouses’ Lunchtime Live, Kim Pullen talks about how she turned the mirror of the scriptures on herself during her four-year separation and stumbled her way toward transformation. She also talks about how we can use betrayal as a catalyst for developing a dynamic, ever-growing intimacy with God.

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