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Everything had to be perfect…and in having your own business that became a problem because you have to know the difference between making it very accurate and good enough to get out the door.

If you were a graphic designer, you probably should spend quite a bit of time on your first impression of images for graphic design…then learning to let some of the other things go is critical.

Our time really is money.

It’s the aim, aim, aim, aim, aim consider firing someday approach.

It can also be used as a tool not to face failure.  One of the most important muscles to develop is…the ability to fail and recover quickly.

Fail fast.  Fail often.  

Take small calculated risks where you can afford the consequences.

It doesn’t mean in those experiences of failure you don’t have a moment of ‘oh no’…it just means moving through them quicker.

Perfectionism is often a tool for hiding out.

Don’t deny yourself the fact that it might not feel good.  It’s ok….that you’re getting some data in…the you got knocked off the horse.

Biologically we can only perceive so much data.  We’re gonna leave stuff out and we’re affected by it.

Start identifying with something greater and a commitment instead of perfection.

What does real win-win look like?

I think the challenge of who we identify as ourselves is one of the biggest problems….most of us built our identity to the most part, under 10 years old.

Be anything but yourself, you’ll be an upgrade.

This thing that we think is our identity is build before we are mature enough to know what it is and it’s running us like a program.

What am I identifying with?

What is sustainable over time is what we are going to be committed to identifying with.

I was blessed with the challenge in life that in 4th grade, there was something wrong…at the time, the only tutor that the school had was the one working with the special needs kids…I was moved out of my class to work with that woman and I made a very big decision there was something critically wrong with me…that was a pivotal decision in how I identified with myself…I believed I was intrinsically broken and there was no way out.  

I finally had to identify with something other than the concept in my head of ‘I’m too stupid to be alive.’

Unless I build something else to identify out of, there was no way out.

‘Who are you going to identify as you?’ Moving forward can give you a level of consistency over time.  And that’s how you can get some room from that conversation in your head.

Denying our children wounds, denies the potential of their growth.

Some of the most amazing people I’ve met in my life, when you learn about their childhood, you want to just...