You constantly wish you had that persons energy or confidence. I know that I do. More than often. Everyone hides their fears. Not everything as it seems, until eventually it will be. Take in those positive traits that you wish to have and walk as if you have them, untill one day it will really be yours. DISCLAIMER: These are just lessons I hope will help myself and others. I too am a struggling-to-fit-in-but-at-the-same-time-be-myself kinda person.