Divorced Dad: Recent Episodes
Jeff
Life of a dad who's getting divorced. A real and open look into the process: the bad, the good (is there any?), and everything in between.
Feel alone dads?......................you're not!
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It's the holiday season divorced dads. No agita or anxiety here - we have some tips on making this season a good & memorable one.
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Is a very fragile surface that appears during difficult and/or serious conversations that divorced dads are terrified of...............
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Different forms of custody - what I learned - and how it will affect your kids.
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Happy back to school - which brings up the topic of communicating with the kiddos: not easy at all.
Here's my take.....
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This forum has introduced me to some great people going thru the same hell we did.
Here are two that let me share some of their stories..........
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Our parents, our kid's grandparents.
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Happy Father's Day dads!
I wanted to compile my thoughts pre, day of, and post fathers day this year.
Not an easy one......................
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I get asked this question a lot: do you stay in the town or area you got divorced? The answer has a few layers........
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BUT - it may not be that easy. "She'll" try to manipulate their time. Here's what I have planned.............
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What do I mean? - divorce is usually either clear cut: cheating, abuse, financial ruin, or harmful to the kids are the no-brainers. Or the grey area of "irreconcilable differences": this is where the divorce scale comes out. I find this is a dangerous area - it allows blatant marriage abandonment: usually masked as "good for the kids" (nope, a kid wrecker) - while pure selfishness is what really fuels it.
Where are you on the scale? What kinds of BS did your ex give you to justify her side?
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An episode on my son,
The difficulties he had in a bad marriage, and the difficulties he's having post-divorce
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Is it me?? - or have women changed and has Narcissism gone wild??
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I found out...............beware.
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The #2 reason for divorce: finance and/or cash issues.
Let's examine.....
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What to do about my 17yr old son? - whose caught in some bad co-parenting
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What are the hardest things to regain post-divorce? Self-assurance and confidence are top of the list. Let's examine......
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and a few 2023 resolutions for us.
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I wanted to let the DD community know about "the Dream" we're trying to build. Let me know your thoughts.....
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Let's discuss "spite" - what it means and how it affects us.
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What's the best thing that's happened to me since starting this forum?
Listening and helping YOU! Here are a few......
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It's holiday time divorced dads: some past perspective and tips handling a dicey time of year.
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I'm back from my little "hiatus".
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That's right team, we've finally reached signing day!!
Halleluiah!!
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It's been too long..........
But there's much to share. The holidays were slow, but sometimes slow is fast.
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Yup, we went into pre-trial optimistic. The light quickly turned to clouds and a raging storm fast
Now - we're in a full-fledged $%^&*show
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We are here! The old pre-trial is up next. Can this be the end..................my friend?
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Well my friends, we thought we were at the Endgame. Not so - back into the stinking Infinity Wars (sorry Marvel).
But with a plan Stan, it might not be too far off.
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We had our 2/9 "Remote Resolution Plan" meeting. The foundation is set and the end is near - but my feelings are going haywire.
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It's 2021, can it be the year of "the decision":).
The holidays brought reflection on my relationship with my girls, not in a great state - then last week a glimmer of hope, an email from the state.
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Happy holidays to all!
An update on the "case" and some thoughts on how to best deal during this holiday time.
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We've waited a long time, but there's finally some movement. I spoke w/ my new "ace" attorney who guided me well. He then reached out to my ex's attorney.........................
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Some startling stats around our DD community and a few awesome listener feedback pieces
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Here we go folks > I've submitted all my ex's info to my new "shark" attorney and am waiting for his advice on a next move. It's email refresh all day long. I'll review where we are and what I sent..............
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It's been a long summer into fall with no communication or movement and then BAM, an email drop and here we go.
Now I prepped for this moment for a while....................will it work? I sure as hell hope so................
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July was a full court press to see more of my kids...............I planted a Trojan Horse and it worked:)!
And I did a great webinar with the Divorced Dadvocate; https://youtu.be/-pDN-H231rU, plus, got a little insight into my case from the state.
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I feel as if I have hit the "stall" segment of this show. Crickets from the other side. Do I press the issue or wait patiently?
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Sounds like a Star Wars sequel. The last we spoke a key decision was made...........and we were questioning:
Did we do the right thing?
Whats our next move.?
Fear not dads, some solo time during quarantine have brought us to a new, hopefully better direction.
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I want to thank the divorced dad community for over 100 great questions the past month, here are (3) that stood out - keep em coming!
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Ever hear the term crawl to sprint? It seemed like nothing was happening until BAM, everything is. And at this juncture comes two big questions...........
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If you like data, I have some great Corona data to share with an update on life as a quarantined Divorced Dad.
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I'm going through it, and recently read a few interesting perspective's I'd like to share and get your opinion on.
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In these uncertain times I've found a few new challenges as a DD. Stay healthy my friends......
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An update on my scheduled pre-trail date for 2/21......................:(
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I spoke about feeling a bit lonely last podcast - I'm feeling it's making me more and more angry.
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February is birthday month (all my kids were born in Feb), and my first as a divorced dad living solo. One word - lonely!
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These are the top 5 questions that the audience asks. Thank you and keep them coming..........
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With pre-trail looming, my ex's actions have been a bit sketchy............what ambush awaits?
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I quick timeline and update as we head to pre-trial. Is there something more I should be doing? How do I interpret her reaction?
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Divorced Dad is now on 8 platforms and 6 countries - and we're getting messages questions from everywhere. Thank you and keep em coming. Let's look at (4) that show the different stages and continuing difficulties in being a Divorced dad.
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My ex, whose been absolutely non communicative and brutal in trying to co-parent with all of a sudden want's to speak? What can this mean? About what? Let's see what this woman is spinning...............
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My ex has been non communicative since filing. Only to ask for $$$. But.........
Now that my attorney presented our financial dissolution and child custody plan she wants to speak!!!!
Should I? What do I say?
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We explore some stats around Divorced Dad's. Numbers tell us a lot and never lie........
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Divorced dads,
We update a great season 1, highlight podcasts to come in season 2 and see if it's time to change my approach as we potentially head to trial.
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I have three children, and I feel like I'm losing one of them the more and more this divorce goes on.
Help!
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I thought I had a nice set of days to spend with my children over the holidays - then divorce got in the way.
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Divorced dad Jedi's and pro's, I need advice! For you new divorced dads, watch out for this unsuspecting high and tight fastball.
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Let's take a deeper dive into my financial disposition. The state I'm in (CT), my case and what I'm asking for.
Any lawyers out there, help:)!
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I was served w/ divorce 4m+ with my wife having full custody with no parenting plan and she's not making it easy for me to see my kids.
I'm making a little progress, here's how......
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I wanted to review my story and share the details of my case up to 12/10. For dad's going through the process, I wish I knew stuff earlier. For dad's that have gone thru, please tell us is what you learned and how it can help us.
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I love Xmas! This is my first Christmas as a divorced dad - how am I coping? (hint - not great)
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My first Thanksgiving as a divorced dad, what to do.
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Yes, that's right, the mother-in-law. Don't make the mistakes I did. From warning signs to knowing when the "transformation" starts.
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My experience with my ex-wife having hired a lawyer first then me trying to find the right (there is no right) lawyer.
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So whats some early fallout to dysfunctional co-parenting? Difficulty seeing your children! I'll explain my dilemma.
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I'll review the very early stages of my divorce where we as a couple were supposed to work on being good co-parents. Whats the old saying.............it takes two to tango.
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I'm a dad of 3 children who was married for 15 years and is now going through a divorce. I will use this platform to share my journey. Rant in frustration, educate, relate, collaborate while creating an open forum for all the other divorced dads out there.
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