The desire to leave a legacy is a desire to have the life you've lived matter beyond death. This week we look at the legacy we leave as we build our family. It is very easy to feel anxious when starting our family, knowing that we see our parents reproduced in us and we often fear that we are just going to, in turn, reproduce ourselves in our children. (most notably the things we wish we could change about ourselves) There is no reason to be afraid. We have everything we need to change the course of the history of our family.