Many of the men in Rom Coms have similar patterns that I think we can learn from So here are a few things we can learn from Rom Com Men They Progress as a Character (the journey) They usually show a journey of growth for the men in Rom Coms They start to look at themselves differently based on the new woman entering their life and this gives them an outside perspective We need to be able to look at ourselves objectively and move on a journey If we aren't intentionally growing, we are declining Sometimes in the struggle is where the growth happens

They Know Their Feelings (even if they struggle with them) Men in Rom/Coms are pretty good at knowing how they feel Women want men who  know their emotions We must know our emotions as men or we will be in danger of letting them get out of control and hurt us The lie that men aren't emotional is a myth Men are better men when they are connected to their emotions

Have a Good Friend (someone to talk to) Rom/Com men usually have another man who they talk with about stuff We have to prioritize friendships and seek to find people to connect with Men who encourage each other for better and not bring each other down You may need to recognize bad friendships and prune them Many men don't have close friends because they are busy and because of fear

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