Positive Influences for DadsBuild a relationship with your kids Get into their world Be curious about them and let them teach you stuff Laugh with them Be a student of your child

Negative Influences for Dads Being in provider mode instead of involved mode Not listening to them and showing you care Dreaming for them instead of letting them dream Getting too focused on appearances

Husband/Wife RelationshipsThe relationship affects the kids If there is tension between you as a couple, the kids will see it Be open with them about what is going on without giving them all the details Make sure your parenting styles are on the same page

Divorced Dad TipsSpending time with them and listening to them are the #1 thing for connection Don't try to cram all your dad advice, etc... into a short visit Don't tear their mother down in front of them They don't want stuff from you, they want you

Step-Dad TipsWork to get to know the children in a genuine relationship Don't come in and try to be the "parent" without a relationship

Dad of Young Children TipsDon't have a negative expectation of the teen years Understand that as they grow, you are helping them to be more independent

Dad of Teens TipsIt's never too late to build a relationship They want a better relationship with you Focus on them and make it about them Take it slow and don't try to rush a relationship Build trust with small steps and listening

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