Episode 38.  Dealing with Hidden Agendas.

Ever feel like a conversation is off?  And you don't feel like the person is being authentic with you?

In many social interactions I felt that things were "off" and I couldn't pinpoint why I thought this way or what it was about the interaction that triggered this feeling.  And often we can conclude that the person is hiding something and that maybe we shouldn't trust them.

But the case may be that each of us comes with our hidden agenda.  And it's not clear to use even.  And this gets further muddled when each person comes to an interaction with different agendas.  How do you go about this?

I discuss how ulterior motives play in simple social interactions and how we can prevent the messiness from reoccurring and ultimately prevent manipulation from happening on both sides of the conversation.

I’m T. Vyas (she/her), you can call me "T" because most people do.  I’m, as you’ve guessed, a person of colour who looks forward to chatting with you about some things identity, some things colour and ALL things Love!  Tune in Tuesdays for a new episode!  

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