Rachel chats with our guest about the success narrative she inherited as the daughter of Chinese immigrants. We unpack what it was like to have it all on the outside but feel miserable on the inside. She tells the story of her tumultuous transition from college into young adulthood, what it took for her to quit her prestigious tech job, and how her relationship with her mom has evolved throughout.

Resources mentioned:

  • BrenĂ© Brown interview on Skavlan: How to cope with grief, fear and anxiety during Corona [link]

  • Marina Keegan essay: Even Artichokes Have Doubts [link]

  • William Deresiewicz book: Excellent Sheep [link]

  • Ruth Chang TED Talk: How to make hard choices [link]


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