There are four relationships that we have that must be compatible. There is the relationship that we have with our Self. There is the relationship that we have with others. There is the relationship that we have with the one Creator that we call God. There is the relationship that we have with things. When we settle on the nature of the relationships that we have with our Selves, the nature of the relationships that we have with others, with the one Creator we call God and with things normally conform. The nature of the relationship that we have with our Selves is normally shaped by the beliefs that we have  about our Selves. The nature of the beliefs that we have about our Selves are shaped by what we are able to perceive about our Selves. What we are able to perceive about our Selves is shaped by the assumptions and thoughts that we select about our Selves. Our selection of assumptions and thoughts about our Selves is shaped by our beliefs about our Selves. Our beliefs about our Selves are rooted in what we have been taught about our Selves. The perceptions of our experiences of our Selves tend to confirm our beliefs about our Selves since they are shaped by the meanings that we assign to aspects of those experiences and those meaning are usually consistent with what we are taught. Unfortunately for us, much of what we have been taught is misinformation that keeps us from discovering the truth about our Selves which is what we are all about. What we are taught is based, for the most part, on faulty assumptions and thoughts that are shaped by faulty beliefs that we have been programmed with and that we have empowered with our trust. 

Harmonious relationships are those in which expressions of unconditional love, kindness, gentleness, patience, understanding and compassion are prevalent. Those harmonious expressions result in an intense feeling of joy and gratitude, whether or not we are the transmitter or the receiver of that high frequency of vibration rate essence energy signal. The vibrational essence of thoughts and images that we select that permit the transmission and reception of that energy signal result in very satisfying feelings. Our harmonious relationships begin as an idea that we focus our mind on that has selected thoughts and image components that have high frequency of vibration rate essences. The high frequency of vibration rate thought and image components of the idea that become a mind focus triggers a high frequency of vibration rate emotional signal by the heart. That emotional signal of the heart triggers a high frequency of vibration rate feeling and intention that registers in the mind and gets associated with the thoughts of the idea that the mind is focused on. The mind focus becomes energized by the attention we give to it. The energized mind focusses results in the transmission of a vibrational signal to the source energy field asking for vibrational information about the idea that exists in the realm of possibilities of the source energy field. Every idea that is or will be made part of what exists as real is something that is first conceived of by the mind of the one Creator that we call God. A request for vibrational information is always responded to by the source energy field with a response containing the vibrational information requested. The vibrational essence of that vibrational information which matches that of the vibrational essence of the idea is available for experiencing once we have established the vibrational receptivity required to access it.